{"id":35295,"date":"2019-03-16T20:56:05","date_gmt":"2019-03-16T20:56:05","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/e-motivasyon.net\/?p=35295"},"modified":"2026-08-18T10:01:36","modified_gmt":"2026-08-18T10:01:36","slug":"mesele-kimi-sevdiginiz-nerede-sevdiginiz-neden-sevdiginiz-ne-zaman-sevdiginiz-veya-nasil-sevdiginiz-degildir-onemli-olan-sadece-sevmenizdir-john-lennon","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/e-motivasyon.net\/en\/mesele-kimi-sevdiginiz-nerede-sevdiginiz-neden-sevdiginiz-ne-zaman-sevdiginiz-veya-nasil-sevdiginiz-degildir-onemli-olan-sadece-sevmenizdir-john-lennon.html","title":{"rendered":"\u201cIt's not about who you love, where you love, why you love, when you love or how you love; All that matters is that you love.\u201d John Lennon"},"content":{"rendered":"

\u201cIt's not about who you love, where you love, why you love, when you love or how you love; All that matters is that you love.\u201d John Lennon<\/strong><\/em><\/h3>\n

Sevgi \u00e7o\u011fu zaman zihnimizin koydu\u011fu ko\u015fullar\u0131n aras\u0131nda kaybolur. Kimi sevdi\u011fimizi, bizi sevip sevmedi\u011fini, sevgimizin kar\u015f\u0131l\u0131k bulup bulmayaca\u011f\u0131n\u0131, do\u011fru zamanda m\u0131 yoksa yanl\u0131\u015f zamanda m\u0131 sevdi\u011fimizi<\/strong> d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcr dururuz. Oysa John Lennon\u2019\u0131n bu s\u00f6z\u00fc, sevginin b\u00fct\u00fcn bu hesaplar\u0131n \u00f6tesinde, insan\u0131n i\u00e7inden do\u011fan g\u00fc\u00e7l\u00fc ve do\u011fal bir duygu oldu\u011funu hat\u0131rlat\u0131r. Ger\u00e7ekten sevdi\u011fimizde her \u015feyi a\u00e7\u0131klamak, s\u0131n\u0131fland\u0131rmak ya da bir gerek\u00e7eye ba\u011flamak zorunda de\u011filiz. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc sevgi, her zaman mant\u0131\u011f\u0131n kurallar\u0131na g\u00f6re hareket etmez; bazen sadece hissedilir ve ya\u015fan\u0131r.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Bu s\u00f6zden g\u00fcnl\u00fck ya\u015fam\u0131m\u0131z i\u00e7in \u00e7\u0131karabilece\u011fimiz pratik \u00f6neri olduk\u00e7a basit: Sevginizi ertelemeyin ve onu k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck davran\u0131\u015flarla g\u00f6sterin.<\/strong> Sevdi\u011finiz birini aramak, ona sar\u0131lmak, te\u015fekk\u00fcr etmek, g\u00fczel bir s\u00f6z s\u00f6ylemek ya da yaln\u0131zca yan\u0131nda oldu\u011funuzu hissettirmek i\u00e7in \u00f6zel bir g\u00fcn veya m\u00fckemmel bir an beklemeyin. Bug\u00fcn hayat\u0131n\u0131zdaki bir ki\u015fiyi d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcn ve ona sevginizi g\u00f6steren k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck bir \u015fey yap\u0131n. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc sevgi yaln\u0131zca i\u00e7imizde ta\u015f\u0131d\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z bir duygu de\u011fil, davran\u0131\u015flar\u0131m\u0131z arac\u0131l\u0131\u011f\u0131yla hayata ge\u00e7irdi\u011fimiz bir se\u00e7imdir.<\/strong> Bazen bir telefon, bazen i\u00e7ten bir te\u015fekk\u00fcr, bazen de sessizce verilen bir sar\u0131lma, s\u00f6ylemek istedi\u011fimiz y\u00fczlerce kelimeden daha g\u00fc\u00e7l\u00fc olabilir.<\/p>\n

\u00d6rne\u011fin uzun zamand\u0131r aramad\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z bir arkada\u015f\u0131m\u0131z\u0131 s\u0131rf \u201cuygun bir zaman\u201d bulamad\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z i\u00e7in aram\u0131yor olabiliriz. Oysa o telefonu a\u00e7\u0131p \u201cSeni d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnd\u00fcm, nas\u0131ls\u0131n?\u201d demek i\u00e7in kusursuz bir zamana ihtiyac\u0131m\u0131z yoktur. \u00c7ocu\u011fumuza onu sevdi\u011fimizi s\u00f6ylemek, e\u015fimize te\u015fekk\u00fcr etmek, ailemizden birine sar\u0131lmak veya hayat\u0131m\u0131za dokunmu\u015f bir insana minnettarl\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z\u0131 ifade etmek de ayn\u0131 \u015fekilde ertelenmemelidir. Sevginin de\u011ferini belirleyen \u015fey onu ne kadar kusursuz ifade etti\u011fimiz de\u011fil, onu ya\u015fam\u0131n i\u00e7inde ne kadar ger\u00e7ek ve i\u00e7ten ya\u015fatt\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131zd\u0131r.<\/strong> Belki de John Lennon\u2019\u0131n s\u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fcn bize b\u0131rakt\u0131\u011f\u0131 en g\u00fczel hat\u0131rlatma \u015fudur: Sevmek i\u00e7in her \u015feyi do\u011fru zamanda, do\u011fru yerde ve do\u011fru bi\u00e7imde yapmak zorunda de\u011filiz; bazen hayat\u0131n en do\u011fru davran\u0131\u015f\u0131, sadece sevmektir.<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n

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John Lennon Kimdir?<\/h3>\n

John Lennon (1940-1980) \u0130ngiliz m\u00fczisyen, \u015fark\u0131c\u0131, s\u00f6z yazar\u0131 ve bar\u0131\u015f aktivistidir. 9 Ekim 1940’ta Liverpool, \u0130ngiltere’de do\u011fan Lennon, The Beatles grubunun kurucu \u00fcyelerinden biri olarak d\u00fcnya m\u00fczik tarihinin en etkili sanat\u00e7\u0131lar\u0131 aras\u0131nda yer ald\u0131. Paul McCartney ile birlikte yazd\u0131\u011f\u0131 \u015fark\u0131lar, grubun m\u00fczikal ba\u015far\u0131s\u0131nda \u00f6nemli bir rol oynad\u0131. The Beatles’\u0131n 1970’te da\u011f\u0131lmas\u0131n\u0131n ard\u0131ndan solo \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmalar\u0131n\u0131 s\u00fcrd\u00fcren Lennon, m\u00fczi\u011finin yan\u0131 s\u0131ra bar\u0131\u015f, sevgi ve toplumsal meseleler \u00fczerine yapt\u0131\u011f\u0131 a\u00e7\u0131klamalarla da geni\u015f kitleleri etkiledi. 8 Aral\u0131k 1980’de New York’ta \u00f6ld\u00fcr\u00fclen John Lennon, ard\u0131nda m\u00fczik tarihinin en g\u00fc\u00e7l\u00fc miraslar\u0131ndan birini b\u0131rakt\u0131.<\/p>\n

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A\u015fk ve Sevgi S\u00f6zleri<\/a><\/p><\/blockquote>\n