{"id":35251,"date":"2019-03-10T13:43:42","date_gmt":"2019-03-10T13:43:42","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/e-motivasyon.net\/?p=35251"},"modified":"2026-01-13T12:30:12","modified_gmt":"2026-01-13T12:30:12","slug":"anormal-bir-duruma-anormal-bir-tepki-vermek-normal-davranistir-victor-e-frankl","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/e-motivasyon.net\/en\/anormal-bir-duruma-anormal-bir-tepki-vermek-normal-davranistir-victor-e-frankl.html","title":{"rendered":"“Anormal bir duruma anormal bir tepki vermek normal davran\u0131\u015ft\u0131r.” Viktor E. Frankl"},"content":{"rendered":"

“Anormal bir duruma anormal bir tepki vermek normal davran\u0131\u015ft\u0131r.” Viktor E. Frankl<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

\"Osho'dan<\/a><\/p>\n

Bu s\u00f6z, insan psikolojisine dair \u00e7ok derin bir ger\u00e7e\u011fi hat\u0131rlat\u0131r: Her tepki, i\u00e7inde bulunulan ko\u015fulla birlikte anlam kazan\u0131r.<\/em> Viktor Frankl burada, insan\u0131n zorlay\u0131c\u0131, travmatik ya da al\u0131\u015f\u0131lmad\u0131k durumlar kar\u015f\u0131s\u0131nda verdi\u011fi tepkilerin hemen \u201canormal\u201d diye etiketlenmemesi gerekti\u011fini vurgular. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc ola\u011fan d\u0131\u015f\u0131 ko\u015fullar, ola\u011fan tepkiler \u00fcretmez.<\/strong> Korku, donakalma, \u00f6fke, geri \u00e7ekilme ya da a\u015f\u0131r\u0131 hassasiyet\u2026 Bunlar\u0131n hi\u00e7biri zay\u0131fl\u0131k de\u011fil; aksine, ruhun kendini koruma bi\u00e7imleridir. As\u0131l anormal olan,<\/em> insan\u0131n her \u015fartta ayn\u0131 so\u011fukkanl\u0131l\u0131\u011f\u0131 g\u00f6stermesini beklemektir. Bu s\u00f6z, bizi hem kendimize hem de ba\u015fkalar\u0131na kar\u015f\u0131 daha anlay\u0131\u015fl\u0131 olmaya davet eder.<\/p>\n

G\u00fcnl\u00fck hayatta bunun pek \u00e7ok kar\u015f\u0131l\u0131\u011f\u0131 vard\u0131r. \u00d6rne\u011fin ani bir kay\u0131p, beklenmedik bir ayr\u0131l\u0131k ya da i\u015f hayat\u0131nda ya\u015fanan sert bir sars\u0131nt\u0131 sonras\u0131 eskisi gibi davranamayan birini d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcn. Daha i\u00e7ine kapan\u0131k, daha sab\u0131rs\u0131z ya da daha k\u0131r\u0131lgan olabilir. \u0130\u015fte tam bu noktada durup \u015funu hat\u0131rlamak gerekir: Bizler robot de\u011filiz; ya\u015fad\u0131klar\u0131m\u0131zdan etkileniriz.<\/strong> Kendimize ya da bir ba\u015fkas\u0131na \u201cNeden b\u00f6yleyim?\u201d diye y\u00fcklenmek yerine, \u201cBu ko\u015fullarda b\u00f6yle hissetmem \u00e7ok insani\u201d<\/em> demek iyile\u015ftirici bir ad\u0131md\u0131r. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc anlay\u0131\u015f, hem i\u00e7sel toparlanman\u0131n hem de ger\u00e7ek g\u00fcc\u00fcn ba\u015flang\u0131\u00e7 noktas\u0131d\u0131r.<\/p>\n

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\u0130nsanlara Dair \u00d6zl\u00fc S\u00f6zler ve \u00d6zdeyi\u015fler<\/a><\/p><\/blockquote>\n