{"id":34618,"date":"2019-01-15T20:35:27","date_gmt":"2019-01-15T20:35:27","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/e-motivasyon.net\/?p=34618"},"modified":"2026-10-01T11:21:29","modified_gmt":"2026-10-01T11:21:29","slug":"mutlulugunuzun-sorumlulugunu-ustlenin-ve-onu-asla-baskalarinin-ellerine-birakmayin-roy-t-bennett","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/e-motivasyon.net\/en\/mutlulugunuzun-sorumlulugunu-ustlenin-ve-onu-asla-baskalarinin-ellerine-birakmayin-roy-t-bennett.html","title":{"rendered":"\u201cTake responsibility for your happiness and never leave it in the hands of others.\u201d Roy T. Bennett"},"content":{"rendered":"

\u201cTake responsibility for your happiness and never leave it in the hands of others.\u201d Roy T. Bennett<\/strong><\/em><\/h3>\n

Roy T. Bennett\u2019in \u201cMutlulu\u011funuzun sorumlulu\u011funu \u00fcstlenin ve onu asla ba\u015fkalar\u0131n\u0131n ellerine b\u0131rakmay\u0131n.\u201d s\u00f6z\u00fc, mutlulu\u011fumuzun anahtar\u0131n\u0131 ba\u015fkalar\u0131n\u0131n davran\u0131\u015flar\u0131na teslim etmememiz gerekti\u011fini anlat\u0131r. Elbette sevdi\u011fimiz insanlar\u0131n ilgisi, sevgisi ve deste\u011fi ya\u015fam\u0131m\u0131za b\u00fcy\u00fck bir g\u00fczellik katar. Ancak b\u00fct\u00fcn mutlulu\u011fumuzu bir ba\u015fkas\u0131n\u0131n sevgisine, onay\u0131na, ilgisine ya da bizim i\u00e7in yapt\u0131klar\u0131na ba\u011flad\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131zda kendi ya\u015fam\u0131m\u0131z \u00fczerindeki g\u00fcc\u00fcm\u00fcz\u00fc de ba\u015fkas\u0131na devretmi\u015f oluruz. Mutluluk, yaln\u0131zca d\u0131\u015f ko\u015fullar\u0131n bize sundu\u011fu bir sonu\u00e7 de\u011fil; ya\u015fam\u0131m\u0131za nas\u0131l bakt\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z, neye de\u011fer verdi\u011fimiz ve kendi ihtiya\u00e7lar\u0131m\u0131z\u0131 ne kadar g\u00f6zetti\u011fimizle de \u015fekillenen bir se\u00e7im alan\u0131d\u0131r.<\/strong> Ba\u015fkalar\u0131n\u0131n bizi mutlu etmesini beklemek yerine kendi mutlulu\u011fumuz i\u00e7in sorumluluk almak, ya\u015fam \u00fczerindeki ki\u015fisel g\u00fcc\u00fcm\u00fcz\u00fc yeniden elimize almakt\u0131r.<\/p>\n

Bu s\u00f6zden g\u00fcnl\u00fck ya\u015fam i\u00e7in \u00e7\u0131karabilece\u011fimiz pratik \u00f6neri \u015fudur: Her ak\u015fam kendinize \u201cBug\u00fcn kendi mutlulu\u011fum i\u00e7in ne yapt\u0131m?\u201d sorusunu sorun.<\/strong> Cevab\u0131n\u0131z b\u00fcy\u00fck bir de\u011fi\u015fim olmak zorunda de\u011fil. Sevdi\u011finiz bir kitab\u0131n birka\u00e7 sayfas\u0131n\u0131 okumak, k\u0131sa bir y\u00fcr\u00fcy\u00fc\u015f yapmak, erteledi\u011finiz bir i\u015fi tamamlamak, sevdi\u011finiz biriyle kaliteli zaman ge\u00e7irmek veya yaln\u0131zca biraz dinlenmek bile yeterli olabilir. Buradaki ama\u00e7, mutlulu\u011fu s\u00fcrekli d\u0131\u015far\u0131dan gelecek g\u00fczel bir habere, bir mesaja veya ba\u015fka bir insan\u0131n davran\u0131\u015f\u0131na ba\u011flamak yerine kendi ya\u015fam\u0131n\u0131zda size iyi gelen \u015feyleri fark etmeyi ve bunlara bilin\u00e7li olarak yer a\u00e7may\u0131<\/strong> al\u0131\u015fkanl\u0131k h\u00e2line getirmektir.<\/p>\n

\u00d6rne\u011fin b\u00fct\u00fcn g\u00fcn e\u015finden, arkada\u015f\u0131ndan veya i\u015f arkada\u015flar\u0131ndan ilgi bekleyen bir insan, bekledi\u011fi ilgiyi g\u00f6remedi\u011finde g\u00fcn\u00fcn\u00fcn tamam\u0131n\u0131 k\u00f6t\u00fc ge\u00e7irebilir. Oysa ayn\u0131 insan kendi ihtiya\u00e7lar\u0131n\u0131 fark etmeye, sevdi\u011fi \u015feylere zaman ay\u0131rmaya ve ya\u015fam\u0131ndaki g\u00fczel ayr\u0131nt\u0131lar\u0131 g\u00f6rmeye ba\u015flad\u0131\u011f\u0131nda mutlulu\u011funun tek bir ki\u015finin davran\u0131\u015f\u0131na ba\u011fl\u0131 olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 ke\u015ffedebilir. Bu, insanlardan hi\u00e7bir \u015fey beklememek ya da ili\u015fkilerimizin \u00f6nemini k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fcmsemek de\u011fildir; mutlulu\u011fumuzun b\u00fct\u00fcn sorumlulu\u011funu ba\u015fka insanlar\u0131n omuzlar\u0131na y\u00fcklememektir.<\/strong> \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc ba\u015fkalar\u0131 hayat\u0131m\u0131za mutluluk katabilir; fakat kendi mutlulu\u011fumuzun direksiyonunu onlara b\u0131rakt\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131zda, kendi ya\u015fam\u0131m\u0131z\u0131n yolculu\u011funda yolcuya d\u00f6n\u00fc\u015f\u00fcr\u00fcz.<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n

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Roy T. Bennett Kimdir?<\/h3>\n

Roy T. Bennett (1978-2018) Amerikal\u0131 yazar ve d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcrd\u00fcr. Ya\u015fam\u0131 hakk\u0131nda kamuya a\u00e7\u0131k biyografik bilgiler s\u0131n\u0131rl\u0131 olmakla birlikte, \u00f6zellikle sosyal medya ve dijital yay\u0131nc\u0131l\u0131k arac\u0131l\u0131\u011f\u0131yla geni\u015f bir okur kitlesine ula\u015fan Bennett motivasyon, mutluluk, ya\u015fam, ba\u015far\u0131, ki\u015fisel geli\u015fim ve insan ili\u015fkileri konular\u0131ndaki \u00f6zl\u00fc s\u00f6zleriyle tan\u0131nm\u0131\u015ft\u0131r. D\u00fc\u015f\u00fcncelerinin \u00f6nemli bir b\u00f6l\u00fcm\u00fc insan\u0131n kendi ya\u015fam\u0131n\u0131n sorumlulu\u011funu \u00fcstlenmesi, zorluklar kar\u015f\u0131s\u0131nda g\u00fc\u00e7l\u00fc kalmas\u0131 ve daha anlaml\u0131 bir ya\u015fam kurmas\u0131 \u00fczerine odaklan\u0131r. En bilinen eseri The Light in the Heart<\/em> adl\u0131 ki\u015fisel geli\u015fim kitab\u0131d\u0131r.<\/p>\n

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