{"id":33640,"date":"2018-10-24T16:31:45","date_gmt":"2018-10-24T16:31:45","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/e-motivasyon.net\/?p=33640"},"modified":"2026-03-04T12:42:08","modified_gmt":"2026-03-04T12:42:08","slug":"az-seyle-hosnut-olmak-zor-cok-seyle-hosnut-olmak-imkansizdir-marie-von-ebner-eschenbach","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/e-motivasyon.net\/en\/az-seyle-hosnut-olmak-zor-cok-seyle-hosnut-olmak-imkansizdir-marie-von-ebner-eschenbach.html","title":{"rendered":"\u201cIt's hard to be content with little; It is impossible to be content with too many things.\u201d Marie von Ebner Eschenbach"},"content":{"rendered":"

\u201cIt's hard to be content with little; It is impossible to be content with too many things.\u201d Marie von Ebner Eschenbach<\/strong><\/em><\/h3>\n

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\u201cAz \u015feyle ho\u015fnut olmak zor; \u00e7ok \u015feyle ho\u015fnut olmak imkans\u0131zd\u0131r.\u201d s\u00f6z\u00fcyle Marie von Ebner-Eschenbach<\/strong>, insan\u0131n mutluluk aray\u0131\u015f\u0131ndaki en b\u00fcy\u00fck paradoksu g\u00f6zler \u00f6n\u00fcne serer. \u00c7o\u011fumuz daha fazlas\u0131na sahip oldu\u011fumuzda daha huzurlu olaca\u011f\u0131m\u0131za inan\u0131r\u0131z; daha fazla ba\u015far\u0131, daha fazla para, daha fazla se\u00e7enek\u2026 Oysa beklentiler artt\u0131k\u00e7a tatmin e\u015fi\u011fi de y\u00fckselir ve memnuniyet s\u00fcrekli ertelenen bir hedefe d\u00f6n\u00fc\u015f\u00fcr. Azla yetinmek ba\u015flang\u0131\u00e7ta zor gelir \u00e7\u00fcnk\u00fc zihnimiz k\u0131yas yapmaya al\u0131\u015fm\u0131\u015ft\u0131r. Ancak \u00e7ok \u015feye sahip olma aray\u0131\u015f\u0131, insan\u0131 doyuma de\u011fil t\u00fckenmi\u015fli\u011fe g\u00f6t\u00fcrebilir. Ger\u00e7ek sorun sahip olduklar\u0131m\u0131z\u0131n azl\u0131\u011f\u0131 de\u011fil, beklentilerimizin s\u0131n\u0131rs\u0131zl\u0131\u011f\u0131d\u0131r.<\/strong> Ebner-Eschenbach\u2019\u0131n s\u00f6z\u00fc, mutlulu\u011fun nicelikte de\u011fil alg\u0131da sakl\u0131 oldu\u011funu hat\u0131rlat\u0131r.<\/p>\n

Bu d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnceden ilhamla g\u00fcnl\u00fck hayatta uygulayabilece\u011fimiz pratik \u00f6neri \u015fudur: Her g\u00fcn\u00fcn sonunda \u201cBug\u00fcn zaten sahip oldu\u011fum \u00fc\u00e7 \u015feyi\u201d bilin\u00e7li olarak fark edin ve yaz\u0131n.<\/strong> Bu bir ba\u015far\u0131, bir ili\u015fki, sa\u011fl\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z ya da sadece sakin bir an olabilir. Bu k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck fark\u0131ndal\u0131k egzersizi zihnin s\u00fcrekli eksik olana odaklanma e\u011filimini k\u0131rar. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc insan beyni do\u011fal olarak tehdidi ve eksikli\u011fi b\u00fcy\u00fct\u00fcr; minnettarl\u0131k ise dikkati yeterlili\u011fe y\u00f6nlendirir. D\u00fczenli olarak yeterli olan\u0131 g\u00f6rmek, daha fazlas\u0131n\u0131 kovalamaktan do\u011fan i\u00e7sel huzursuzlu\u011fu azalt\u0131r.<\/strong> B\u00f6ylece memnuniyet bir sonu\u00e7 de\u011fil, g\u00fcnl\u00fck bir zihinsel beceri h\u00e2line gelir.<\/p>\n

\u00d6rne\u011fin yeni bir telefon ald\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131zda ilk g\u00fcnlerde b\u00fcy\u00fck bir heyecan ya\u015far\u0131z; fakat k\u0131sa s\u00fcre sonra o heyecan s\u0131radanla\u015f\u0131r ve g\u00f6z\u00fcm\u00fcz daha yenisine kayar. Ayn\u0131 durum kariyer hedeflerinde, sosyal stat\u00fcde ya da maddi kazan\u0131mlarda da g\u00f6r\u00fcl\u00fcr. E\u011fer tatmini yaln\u0131zca \u201cdaha fazlas\u0131na\u201d ba\u011flarsak mutluluk s\u00fcrekli ertelenir. Ancak elimizdekinin de\u011ferini fark etti\u011fimizde ya\u015fam deneyimi de\u011fi\u015fir: Kahvemizin tad\u0131, bir sohbetin s\u0131cakl\u0131\u011f\u0131 ya da k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck bir ilerleme bile anlam kazan\u0131r. Az olan\u0131 k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fcmsemeyi b\u0131rakt\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z anda, hayat\u0131n zaten bize sundu\u011fu zenginli\u011fi fark etmeye ba\u015flar\u0131z.<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n

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Marie von Ebner-Eschenbach Kimdir?<\/strong><\/h3>\n

Marie von Ebner-Eschenbach (1830\u20131916) Avusturyal\u0131 yazar ve d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcrd\u00fcr. \u00d6zellikle ahlak, insan do\u011fas\u0131 ve toplumsal ili\u015fkiler \u00fczerine yazd\u0131\u011f\u0131 aforizmalar ve hik\u00e2yelerle tan\u0131n\u0131r. Ger\u00e7ek\u00e7i anlat\u0131m\u0131 ve insan psikolojisine dair keskin g\u00f6zlemleri sayesinde 19. y\u00fczy\u0131l Alman edebiyat\u0131n\u0131n \u00f6nemli isimlerinden biri kabul edilir. K\u0131sa ama derin anlamlar ta\u015f\u0131yan s\u00f6zleri, insan\u0131n mutluluk, karakter ve ya\u015fam anlay\u0131\u015f\u0131 \u00fczerine evrensel mesajlar i\u00e7erir.<\/p>\n

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