{"id":33601,"date":"2018-10-20T21:42:50","date_gmt":"2018-10-20T21:42:50","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/e-motivasyon.net\/?p=33601"},"modified":"2026-09-05T08:11:22","modified_gmt":"2026-09-05T08:11:22","slug":"istedigim-seyleri-yapamayacagimi-ogrenene-kadar-kole-oldugumu-bilmiyordum-frederick-douglass","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/e-motivasyon.net\/en\/istedigim-seyleri-yapamayacagimi-ogrenene-kadar-kole-oldugumu-bilmiyordum-frederick-douglass.html","title":{"rendered":"\u201cI didn't know I was a slave until I learned I couldn't do the things I wanted to do.\u201d Frederick Douglass"},"content":{"rendered":"

\u201cI didn't know I was a slave until I learned I couldn't do the things I wanted to do.\u201d Frederick Douglass<\/strong><\/em><\/h3>\n

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Frederick Douglass\u2019\u0131n \u201c\u0130stedi\u011fim \u015feyleri yapamayaca\u011f\u0131m\u0131 \u00f6\u011frenene kadar k\u00f6le oldu\u011fumu bilmiyordum.\u201d<\/strong> s\u00f6z\u00fc, \u00f6zg\u00fcrl\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn yaln\u0131zca fiziksel bir durum olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131, insan\u0131n kendi iradesi \u00fczerindeki hakk\u0131n\u0131 fark etmesiyle<\/strong> de ilgili oldu\u011funu anlat\u0131r. \u0130nsan bazen s\u0131n\u0131rlar\u0131n\u0131 o kadar uzun s\u00fcre ba\u015fkalar\u0131n\u0131n belirledi\u011fi bir hayat\u0131n i\u00e7inde ya\u015far ki, kendi tercihlerini yapamamas\u0131n\u0131 normal kabul etmeye ba\u015flayabilir. Ne istedi\u011fini s\u00f6ylememek, istemedi\u011fi halde \u201cevet\u201d demek, s\u00fcrekli ba\u015fkalar\u0131n\u0131n beklentilerine g\u00f6re ya\u015famak veya kendi hayallerini ertelemek zamanla g\u00f6r\u00fcnmez bir esarete d\u00f6n\u00fc\u015febilir. Bu nedenle \u00f6zg\u00fcrl\u00fck \u00f6nce insan\u0131n kendi zihninde ba\u015flar<\/strong>; ki\u015fi \u201cBen ger\u00e7ekten ne istiyorum?\u201d sorusunu sormaya ba\u015flad\u0131\u011f\u0131nda, kendisine \u00e7izilmi\u015f s\u0131n\u0131rlar\u0131 da fark etmeye ba\u015flar.<\/p>\n

Bu s\u00f6zden g\u00fcnl\u00fck hayat\u0131m\u0131za ta\u015f\u0131yabilece\u011fimiz pratik \u00f6neri \u015fudur: Bug\u00fcn yaln\u0131zca kendiniz istedi\u011finiz i\u00e7in yapmak istedi\u011finiz tek bir \u015feyi belirleyin ve onu ger\u00e7ekle\u015ftirin.<\/strong> Bu \u00e7ok b\u00fcy\u00fck bir karar olmak zorunda de\u011fil; uzun zamand\u0131r okumak istedi\u011finiz bir kitab\u0131 almak, istemedi\u011finiz bir daveti nazik\u00e7e reddetmek, kendi ba\u015f\u0131n\u0131za bir yere gitmek veya s\u00fcrekli erteledi\u011finiz bir hedef i\u00e7in ilk ad\u0131m\u0131 atmak olabilir. Buradaki ama\u00e7 ba\u015fkalar\u0131na kar\u015f\u0131 gelmek de\u011fil, kendi irademizin h\u00e2l\u00e2 hayat\u0131m\u0131zda ne kadar s\u00f6z sahibi oldu\u011funu fark etmektir.<\/strong> \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc \u00f6zg\u00fcven ve ki\u015fisel geli\u015fim, \u00e7o\u011fu zaman b\u00fcy\u00fck de\u011fi\u015fimlerle de\u011fil, kendi se\u00e7imlerimizin sorumlulu\u011funu k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck ad\u0131mlarla yeniden \u00fcstlenmekle ba\u015flar.<\/p>\n

\u00d6rne\u011fin \u00e7evrenizdeki herkes sizin i\u00e7in g\u00fcvenli oldu\u011funu d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnd\u00fc\u011f\u00fc bir mesle\u011fi \u00f6neriyor ve siz de y\u0131llard\u0131r i\u00e7inizden ge\u00e7en farkl\u0131 bir alana y\u00f6nelmeye cesaret edemiyorsunuz. Belki kimse sizi fiziksel olarak engellemiyor; fakat \u201cBunu yapamam\u201d, \u201cBenden olmaz\u201d ya da \u201c\u0130nsanlar ne der?\u201d d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnceleri sizi oldu\u011funuz yerde tutuyor. \u0130\u015fte burada ger\u00e7ek s\u0131n\u0131r ile zihinsel s\u0131n\u0131r aras\u0131ndaki fark ortaya \u00e7\u0131k\u0131yor. Frederick Douglass\u2019\u0131n ya\u015fam\u0131 ve m\u00fccadelesi d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcld\u00fc\u011f\u00fcnde bu s\u00f6z \u00e7ok daha g\u00fc\u00e7l\u00fc bir anlam kazan\u0131yor: \u0130nsan, kendisine ait olmas\u0131 gereken se\u00e7im hakk\u0131n\u0131n elinden al\u0131nd\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 fark etti\u011finde \u00f6zg\u00fcrl\u00fck aray\u0131\u015f\u0131 ba\u015flar.<\/strong> Kendi hayat\u0131m\u0131z hakk\u0131nda s\u00f6z s\u00f6yleme hakk\u0131m\u0131z\u0131 fark etmek, \u00f6zg\u00fcrl\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn yaln\u0131zca ba\u015flang\u0131c\u0131 de\u011fil, ayn\u0131 zamanda onu koruman\u0131n da ilk ad\u0131m\u0131d\u0131r.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

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Frederick Douglass Kimdir?<\/h3>\n

Frederick Douglass (1818-1895) Amerikal\u0131 k\u00f6lelik kar\u015f\u0131t\u0131 aktivist, yazar, konu\u015fmac\u0131 ve gazetecidir. Maryland\u2019de k\u00f6le olarak d\u00fcnyaya gelen Douglass, gen\u00e7 ya\u015fta okuma yazmay\u0131 kendi \u00e7abalar\u0131yla \u00f6\u011frenmi\u015f ve e\u011fitimin, \u00f6zg\u00fcrl\u00fc\u011fe giden yolda insan\u0131n zihinsel zincirlerini k\u0131rmas\u0131ndaki g\u00fcc\u00fcn\u00fc bizzat deneyimlemi\u015ftir. 1838 y\u0131l\u0131nda k\u00f6lelikten ka\u00e7arak \u00f6zg\u00fcrl\u00fc\u011f\u00fcne kavu\u015fmu\u015f, daha sonra Amerika Birle\u015fik Devletleri\u2019ndeki k\u00f6lelik kar\u015f\u0131t\u0131 hareketin en etkili isimlerinden biri haline gelmi\u015ftir. 1845 y\u0131l\u0131nda yay\u0131mlanan Narrative of the Life of Frederick Douglass, an American Slave<\/em> adl\u0131 otobiyografisi b\u00fcy\u00fck yank\u0131 uyand\u0131rm\u0131\u015f; Douglass ya\u015fam\u0131 boyunca k\u00f6leli\u011fin kald\u0131r\u0131lmas\u0131, siyah Amerikal\u0131lar\u0131n haklar\u0131, e\u011fitim ve e\u015fitlik i\u00e7in m\u00fccadele etmi\u015ftir.<\/p>\n

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