{"id":33088,"date":"2018-10-01T20:23:10","date_gmt":"2018-10-01T20:23:10","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/e-motivasyon.net\/?p=33088"},"modified":"2026-01-25T08:36:21","modified_gmt":"2026-01-25T08:36:21","slug":"iceride-dusman-olmadiginda-disaridaki-dusmanlar-size-zarar-veremez-winston-churchill","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/e-motivasyon.net\/en\/iceride-dusman-olmadiginda-disaridaki-dusmanlar-size-zarar-veremez-winston-churchill.html","title":{"rendered":"\u201cWhen there are no enemies inside, the enemies outside cannot harm you.\u201d Winston Churchill"},"content":{"rendered":"

\u201cWhen there are no enemies inside, the enemies outside cannot harm you.\u201d Winston Churchill<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

\""Hayatta<\/a><\/p>\n

Winston Churchill<\/strong>\u2019in bu s\u00f6z\u00fc yaln\u0131zca siyasi de\u011fil, ayn\u0131 zamanda derin bir psikolojik fark\u0131ndal\u0131k<\/strong> ta\u015f\u0131yan yakla\u015f\u0131m\u0131n\u0131 yans\u0131t\u0131r. Bu ifade bize \u015funu anlat\u0131r: \u0130nsan en \u00e7ok, kendi i\u00e7indeki korkular, \u015f\u00fcpheler, su\u00e7luluk duygular\u0131 ve kendini k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fcmseyen i\u00e7 sesi taraf\u0131ndan yaralan\u0131r. D\u0131\u015far\u0131dan gelen ele\u015ftiriler, engeller ya da tehditler; e\u011fer i\u00e7eride haz\u0131r bekleyen bir \u201ci\u00e7 d\u00fc\u015fman\u201d yoksa, etkisini b\u00fcy\u00fck \u00f6l\u00e7\u00fcde kaybeder. \u00d6z g\u00fcven<\/strong>, i\u00e7sel dayan\u0131kl\u0131l\u0131k<\/strong> ve kendinle bar\u0131\u015f\u0131k olmak, insan\u0131 d\u0131\u015f ko\u015fullara kar\u015f\u0131 \u015fa\u015f\u0131rt\u0131c\u0131 derecede g\u00fc\u00e7l\u00fc k\u0131lar. Churchill\u2019in vurgulad\u0131\u011f\u0131 g\u00fc\u00e7, kaslarda de\u011fil; zihinsel b\u00fct\u00fcnl\u00fckte sakl\u0131d\u0131r.<\/p>\n

Bu s\u00f6zden ilhamla g\u00fcnl\u00fck hayatta uygulanabilecek pratik bir \u00f6neri \u015fudur: Kendinizi zorlayan bir durumla kar\u015f\u0131la\u015ft\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131zda, hemen d\u0131\u015f etkenlere odaklanmak yerine durup \u015fu soruyu sorun: \u201c\u015eu anda beni as\u0131l zorlayan \u015fey ne, d\u0131\u015far\u0131daki durum mu yoksa i\u00e7imdeki yorum mu?\u201d<\/strong> Ard\u0131ndan i\u00e7inizden ge\u00e7en ele\u015ftirel c\u00fcmleyi yakalay\u0131n ve onu daha ger\u00e7ek\u00e7i, daha destekleyici bir ifadeyle de\u011fi\u015ftirin. Bu k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck ama bilin\u00e7li ad\u0131m, zamanla i\u00e7sel d\u00fc\u015fman\u0131<\/strong> etkisiz hale getirir ve duygusal g\u00fcc\u00fcn\u00fcz\u00fc art\u0131r\u0131r. Biz, i\u00e7 konu\u015fmam\u0131z\u0131 d\u00f6n\u00fc\u015ft\u00fcrd\u00fck\u00e7e, hayat\u0131n sesi de bize kar\u015f\u0131 yumu\u015far.<\/p>\n

\u00d6rne\u011fin ele\u015ftirildi\u011finde hemen savunmaya ge\u00e7en ya da i\u00e7ine kapanan biri, \u00e7o\u011fu zaman ele\u015ftiriden de\u011fil; kendine dair ta\u015f\u0131d\u0131\u011f\u0131 gizli inan\u00e7lardan<\/strong> incinir. Oysa i\u00e7 d\u00fcnyas\u0131nda sa\u011flam duran bir insan i\u00e7in d\u0131\u015far\u0131daki s\u00f6zler yaln\u0131zca birer bilgidir, tehdit de\u011fil. Biz ve siz, i\u00e7erideki d\u00fc\u015fman\u0131 tan\u0131y\u0131p d\u00f6n\u00fc\u015ft\u00fcrd\u00fc\u011f\u00fcm\u00fczde; d\u0131\u015far\u0131daki hi\u00e7bir d\u00fc\u015fman ger\u00e7ek anlamda zarar veremez.<\/em><\/strong> \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc g\u00fc\u00e7l\u00fc bir ya\u015fam, d\u0131\u015f d\u00fcnyay\u0131 susturmakla de\u011fil; i\u00e7 d\u00fcnyada bar\u0131\u015f\u0131 kurmakla<\/strong> ba\u015flar.<\/p>\n

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Self Confidence Quotations<\/a><\/p><\/blockquote>\n