{"id":3270,"date":"2014-10-28T22:56:16","date_gmt":"2014-10-28T20:56:16","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.ozdeyis.net\/?p=3270"},"modified":"2026-01-19T14:45:09","modified_gmt":"2026-01-19T14:45:09","slug":"hicbir-kis-sonsuza-kadar-surmez-hal-borland","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/e-motivasyon.net\/en\/hicbir-kis-sonsuza-kadar-surmez-hal-borland.html","title":{"rendered":"\u201cNo winter lasts forever.\u201d Hal Borland"},"content":{"rendered":"

\u201cNo winter lasts forever.\u201d Hal Borland<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

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\u201cHi\u00e7bir k\u0131\u015f, sonsuza kadar s\u00fcrmez.\u201d s\u00f6z\u00fcyle Hal Borland<\/strong>, hayat\u0131n en zor, en karanl\u0131k d\u00f6nemlerinin bile ge\u00e7ici oldu\u011funa dair g\u00fc\u00e7l\u00fc bir d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnceyi hat\u0131rlat\u0131r. K\u0131\u015f; durgunlu\u011fu, so\u011fu\u011fu ve bazen de yaln\u0131zl\u0131\u011f\u0131 temsil eder. \u0130nsan ya\u015fam\u0131nda da bu k\u0131\u015flar; motivasyon kayb\u0131, belirsizlik, hayal k\u0131r\u0131kl\u0131\u011f\u0131 ya da i\u00e7sel yorgunluk olarak kar\u015f\u0131m\u0131za \u00e7\u0131kar. Ancak Borland\u2019\u0131n alt\u0131n\u0131 \u00e7izdi\u011fi temel ger\u00e7ek \u015fudur: Do\u011fada oldu\u011fu gibi hayatta da d\u00f6ng\u00fcler vard\u0131r.<\/strong> Hi\u00e7bir zorluk kal\u0131c\u0131 de\u011fildir; zamanla \u00e7\u00f6z\u00fcl\u00fcr, d\u00f6n\u00fc\u015f\u00fcr ve yerini yeni bir ba\u015flang\u0131ca b\u0131rak\u0131r.<\/p>\n

Bu s\u00f6zden ilhamla g\u00fcnl\u00fck hayatta uygulanabilecek pratik bir \u00f6neri \u015fudur: Zor bir d\u00f6nemden ge\u00e7erken kendinize bir \u201cge\u00e7icilik c\u00fcmlesi\u201d belirleyin.<\/strong> \u00d6rne\u011fin, \u201cBu da ge\u00e7ecek\u201d ya da \u201cBu bir s\u00fcre\u00e7\u201d gibi k\u0131sa ama g\u00fc\u00e7l\u00fc bir ifade\u2026 Zihniniz umutsuzlu\u011fa kayd\u0131\u011f\u0131nda bu c\u00fcmleyi bilin\u00e7li olarak hat\u0131rlay\u0131n. Bu k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck m\u00fcdahale, duygular\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 bast\u0131rmaz; fakat onlar\u0131n sizi ele ge\u00e7irmesini engeller. B\u00f6ylece stresle daha sa\u011fl\u0131kl\u0131 ba\u015f eder, i\u00e7sel dayan\u0131kl\u0131l\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 korursunuz.<\/p>\n

\u00d6rne\u011fin uzun s\u00fcredir sonu\u00e7 alamad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z bir \u00e7aba, sizi vazge\u00e7meye s\u00fcr\u00fckleyebilir. Tam o noktada ya\u015fad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z \u015feyin bir \u201ck\u0131\u015f d\u00f6nemi\u201d oldu\u011funu fark etmek, bak\u0131\u015f a\u00e7\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 de\u011fi\u015ftirir. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc bahar, \u00e7o\u011fu zaman en sert k\u0131\u015flar\u0131n ard\u0131ndan gelir. Hal Borland\u2019\u0131n bu s\u00f6z\u00fc bize \u015funu f\u0131s\u0131ldar: Dayanmak, donup kalmak de\u011fildir; ge\u00e7ece\u011fini bilerek ayakta kalmakt\u0131r. Ve hi\u00e7bir k\u0131\u015f sonsuza kadar s\u00fcrmez, yeter ki siz umudu terk etmeyin.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

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