{"id":32688,"date":"2018-08-26T23:45:44","date_gmt":"2018-08-26T23:45:44","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/e-motivasyon.net\/?p=32688"},"modified":"2026-02-20T17:40:19","modified_gmt":"2026-02-20T17:40:19","slug":"bir-insan-acisi-disinda-neredeyse-her-seyden-vazgececektir-john-cleese","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/e-motivasyon.net\/en\/bir-insan-acisi-disinda-neredeyse-her-seyden-vazgececektir-john-cleese.html","title":{"rendered":"\u201cA man will give up almost everything except his pain.\u201d John Cleese"},"content":{"rendered":"

\u201cA man will give up almost everything except his pain.\u201d John Cleese<\/strong><\/em><\/h3>\n

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\u201cBir insan, ac\u0131s\u0131 d\u0131\u015f\u0131nda neredeyse her \u015feyden vazge\u00e7ecektir.\u201d diyen John Cleese<\/span><\/span>, ilk bak\u0131\u015fta ironik ama derin bir psikolojik ger\u00e7e\u011fe dokunur. \u0130nsan \u00e7o\u011fu zaman al\u0131\u015fkanl\u0131klar\u0131ndan, konfor alan\u0131ndan, hatta hayallerinden bile vazge\u00e7ebilir; ama ac\u0131s\u0131na tutunur. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc ac\u0131, tan\u0131d\u0131kt\u0131r. Tan\u0131d\u0131k olan ise g\u00fcvenli gelir. Oysa ki\u015fisel geli\u015fim ve motivasyon yolculu\u011funda en b\u00fcy\u00fck engel d\u0131\u015f ko\u015fullar de\u011fil; i\u00e7imizdeki bu g\u00f6r\u00fcnmez ba\u011fl\u0131l\u0131kt\u0131r. Ac\u0131, kimli\u011fe d\u00f6n\u00fc\u015ft\u00fc\u011f\u00fcnde b\u0131rak\u0131lmas\u0131 en zor y\u00fck h\u00e2line gelir.<\/strong> Bazen mutsuzlu\u011fumuzu bile savunuruz; \u00e7\u00fcnk\u00fc onu b\u0131rak\u0131rsak kim olaca\u011f\u0131m\u0131z\u0131 bilemeyiz.<\/p>\n

Bu s\u00f6zden ilhamla g\u00fcnl\u00fck hayatta uygulayabilece\u011fimiz tek ve g\u00fc\u00e7l\u00fc bir pratik \u00f6neri: \u201cAc\u0131dan Kimlik Ay\u0131rma\u201d \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmas\u0131 yap\u0131n. Kendinize \u015fu soruyu sorun: \u201cYa\u015fad\u0131\u011f\u0131m bu durum benim kimli\u011fim mi, yoksa ge\u00e7ici bir deneyim mi?\u201d Ard\u0131ndan c\u00fcmlenizi de\u011fi\u015ftirin. \u201cBen ba\u015far\u0131s\u0131z\u0131m\u201d yerine \u201cBa\u015far\u0131s\u0131z bir deneyim ya\u015fad\u0131m\u201d deyin. Ya\u015fad\u0131klar\u0131m\u0131z biz de\u011filiz; sadece ya\u015fad\u0131klar\u0131m\u0131zd\u0131r.<\/strong> Bu k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck dil de\u011fi\u015fimi bile zihinsel d\u00f6n\u00fc\u015f\u00fcm ba\u015flat\u0131r. Motivasyon, kendimizi ac\u0131n\u0131n merkezinden \u00e7\u0131karabildi\u011fimizde yeniden canlan\u0131r.<\/p>\n

\u00d6rne\u011fin y\u0131llar \u00f6nce ya\u015fad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z bir hayal k\u0131r\u0131kl\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 h\u00e2l\u00e2 ta\u015f\u0131yor olabilirsiniz. Belki bir i\u015f giri\u015fimi ba\u015far\u0131s\u0131z oldu, belki bir ili\u015fki y\u0131prat\u0131c\u0131 bitti. Ama o deneyimi s\u00fcrekli hat\u0131rlatarak kendinizi s\u0131n\u0131rl\u0131yorsan\u0131z, asl\u0131nda ac\u0131y\u0131 kimli\u011finizin bir par\u00e7as\u0131 yapm\u0131\u015f olabilirsiniz. Bir g\u00fcn cesurca \u201cBu benim hik\u00e2yemin tamam\u0131 de\u011fil\u201d dedi\u011finizde de\u011fi\u015fim ba\u015flar. Ger\u00e7ek \u00f6zg\u00fcrl\u00fck, ac\u0131y\u0131 ink\u00e2r etmekte de\u011fil; onu b\u0131rakabilecek kadar g\u00fc\u00e7l\u00fc olabilmektedir.<\/strong><\/em> John Cleese\u2019in s\u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fcn alt\u0131ndaki mesaj nettir: Bizi geride tutan \u00e7o\u011fu zaman d\u0131\u015f d\u00fcnya de\u011fil; vazge\u00e7mek istemedi\u011fimiz i\u00e7sel y\u00fcklerdir. Ki\u015fisel geli\u015fim, tam da o y\u00fckleri bilin\u00e7le b\u0131rakma sanat\u0131d\u0131r.<\/p>\n

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John Cleese Kimdir?<\/h3>\n

John Cleese (1939- ) \u0130ngiliz komedyen, oyuncu ve yazard\u0131r. K\u00fclt komedi grubu Monty Python<\/span><\/span>\u2019\u0131n kurucu \u00fcyelerinden biri olarak tan\u0131n\u0131r. \u00d6zellikle Monty Python’s Flying Circus<\/span><\/span> ile abs\u00fcrt mizah anlay\u0131\u015f\u0131n\u0131 d\u00fcnya \u00e7ap\u0131nda yayg\u0131nla\u015ft\u0131rm\u0131\u015ft\u0131r. Mizah\u0131 yaln\u0131zca e\u011flendirmek i\u00e7in de\u011fil; insan do\u011fas\u0131n\u0131, psikolojiyi ve toplumsal al\u0131\u015fkanl\u0131klar\u0131 sorgulamak i\u00e7in kullanan Cleese, yarat\u0131c\u0131l\u0131k ve zihinsel esneklik konular\u0131ndaki \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmalar\u0131yla da dikkat \u00e7eker.<\/p>\n

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\u0130nsanlara Dair \u00d6zl\u00fc S\u00f6zler ve \u00d6zdeyi\u015fler<\/a><\/p><\/blockquote>\n