{"id":31083,"date":"2018-06-04T20:57:40","date_gmt":"2018-06-04T20:57:40","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/e-motivasyon.net\/?p=31083"},"modified":"2026-10-06T16:50:51","modified_gmt":"2026-10-06T16:50:51","slug":"bildiginiz-bir-sey-hakkinda-kafanizin-karismasina-istekli-oluncaya-kadar-bildiginiz-sey-asla-daha-buyuk-daha-iyi-veya-daha-yararli-olmayacaktir-milton-erickson","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/e-motivasyon.net\/en\/bildiginiz-bir-sey-hakkinda-kafanizin-karismasina-istekli-oluncaya-kadar-bildiginiz-sey-asla-daha-buyuk-daha-iyi-veya-daha-yararli-olmayacaktir-milton-erickson.html","title":{"rendered":"\u201cUntil you are willing to be confused about something you know, what you know will never be bigger, better, or more useful.\u201d Milton Erickson"},"content":{"rendered":"

\u201cUntil you are willing to be confused about something you know, what you know will never be bigger, better, or more useful.\u201d Milton Erickson<\/strong><\/em><\/h3>\n

Bildi\u011fimizi d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnd\u00fc\u011f\u00fcm\u00fcz \u015feyler, zamanla zihnimizde de\u011fi\u015fmez do\u011frulara d\u00f6n\u00fc\u015febilir. Oysa \u00f6\u011frenmenin \u00f6n\u00fcndeki en b\u00fcy\u00fck engellerden biri, bildi\u011fimizden fazlas\u0131n\u0131 bildi\u011fimize inanmakt\u0131r.<\/strong> Milton Erickson\u2019\u0131n bu s\u00f6z\u00fc, zihinsel geli\u015fimin bazen yeni bilgiler edinmekten \u00f6nce, mevcut bilgilerimizi yeniden sorgulamay\u0131 gerektirdi\u011fini anlat\u0131r. Bir konu hakk\u0131nda kafam\u0131z\u0131n kar\u0131\u015fmas\u0131na izin vermek, asl\u0131nda bilgisiz oldu\u011fumuzu kabul etmek de\u011fil; bildiklerimizin s\u0131n\u0131rlar\u0131n\u0131 fark etmektir. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc bir d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnceyi hi\u00e7 sorgulamadan korudu\u011fumuzda, o d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnce bizi korumaktan \u00e7ok s\u0131n\u0131rland\u0131rmaya ba\u015flayabilir. Ger\u00e7ek geli\u015fim, kesinlik duygusunun biraz d\u0131\u015f\u0131na \u00e7\u0131kabildi\u011fimiz yerde ba\u015flar.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Bu s\u00f6zden g\u00fcnl\u00fck hayat\u0131m\u0131z i\u00e7in \u00e7\u0131karabilece\u011fimiz pratik \u00f6neri, \u00e7ok emin oldu\u011funuz bir konuda kendinize \u201cBunun ba\u015fka bir a\u00e7\u0131klamas\u0131 olabilir mi?\u201d sorusunu sormakt\u0131r.<\/strong> \u00d6zellikle bir insan, ili\u015fki, i\u015f veya hayat\u0131n\u0131zla ilgili kesin bir yarg\u0131ya vard\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131zda, o yarg\u0131y\u0131 hemen de\u011fi\u015ftirmeye \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmadan yaln\u0131zca alternatif bir ihtimale yer a\u00e7\u0131n. Belki kar\u015f\u0131n\u0131zdaki insan\u0131n davran\u0131\u015f\u0131n\u0131 yanl\u0131\u015f yorumlad\u0131n\u0131z, belki ba\u015far\u0131s\u0131zl\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z\u0131n nedenini sand\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z yerde ar\u0131yorsunuz ya da y\u0131llard\u0131r do\u011fru kabul etti\u011finiz bir al\u0131\u015fkanl\u0131\u011f\u0131n art\u0131k size hizmet etmedi\u011fini fark edeceksiniz. Zihinsel esneklik, her d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnd\u00fc\u011f\u00fcm\u00fczden vazge\u00e7mek de\u011fil; gerekti\u011finde d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcncemizi yeniden de\u011ferlendirebilecek kadar \u00f6zg\u00fcr olmakt\u0131r.<\/strong><\/p>\n

\u00d6rne\u011fin bir y\u00f6netici, \u00e7al\u0131\u015fanlar\u0131ndan birinin yeterince istekli olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnebilir. Bu d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnce zamanla onun i\u00e7in bir ger\u00e7e\u011fe d\u00f6n\u00fc\u015f\u00fcr ve \u00e7al\u0131\u015fan\u0131n her davran\u0131\u015f\u0131n\u0131 bu g\u00f6zle de\u011ferlendirmeye ba\u015flar. Fakat bir g\u00fcn \u201cYa sorun isteksizlik de\u011filse?\u201d diye sordu\u011funda, \u00e7al\u0131\u015fan\u0131n g\u00f6revini anlamakta zorland\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 veya kendisini yeterince de\u011ferli hissetmedi\u011fini ke\u015ffedebilir. B\u00f6ylece ayn\u0131 insan ve ayn\u0131 durum, farkl\u0131 bir bak\u0131\u015f a\u00e7\u0131s\u0131yla bamba\u015fka bir anlam kazan\u0131r. Bazen daha iyi bir cevap bulmak i\u00e7in daha fazla \u015fey \u00f6\u011frenmemiz de\u011fil, bildi\u011fimizi sand\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z \u015feyin i\u00e7ine biraz \u015f\u00fcphe b\u0131rakmam\u0131z gerekir.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

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Milton Erickson Kimdir?<\/h3>\n

Milton Erickson (1901-1980), Amerikal\u0131 psikiyatrist, psikoterapist ve hipnoterapisttir. \u00d6zellikle klinik hipnoz, psikoterapi ve insan davran\u0131\u015flar\u0131n\u0131n de\u011fi\u015fimi \u00fczerine geli\u015ftirdi\u011fi \u00f6zg\u00fcn yakla\u015f\u0131mla 20. y\u00fczy\u0131l psikoterapisinin \u00f6nemli isimlerinden biri kabul edilir. Geleneksel terapi anlay\u0131\u015flar\u0131ndan farkl\u0131 olarak ki\u015finin kendi kaynaklar\u0131n\u0131, deneyimlerini ve bilin\u00e7d\u0131\u015f\u0131 s\u00fcre\u00e7lerini kullanmas\u0131na \u00f6nem veren Erickson, g\u00fcn\u00fcm\u00fczde \u201cEricksoncu terapi\u201d olarak bilinen yakla\u015f\u0131m\u0131n temelini olu\u015fturdu. Terapiyi her bireyin kendine \u00f6zg\u00fc yap\u0131s\u0131na g\u00f6re \u015fekillendiren yakla\u015f\u0131m\u0131, modern hipnoterapi ve k\u0131sa s\u00fcreli psikoterapi uygulamalar\u0131n\u0131 da \u00f6nemli \u00f6l\u00e7\u00fcde etkiledi.<\/p>\n

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