{"id":2971,"date":"2014-10-27T01:51:40","date_gmt":"2014-10-26T23:51:40","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.ozdeyis.net\/?p=2971"},"modified":"2026-07-28T15:10:31","modified_gmt":"2026-07-28T15:10:31","slug":"batan-gunes-icin-aglamayin-yeniden-dogdugunda-ne-yapacaginiza-karar-verin-dale-carnegie","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/e-motivasyon.net\/en\/batan-gunes-icin-aglamayin-yeniden-dogdugunda-ne-yapacaginiza-karar-verin-dale-carnegie.html","title":{"rendered":"\u201cDon't cry for the setting sun, decide what to do when it rises again.\u201d Dale Carnegie"},"content":{"rendered":"

\u201cDon't cry for the setting sun, decide what to do when it rises again.\u201d Dale Carnegie<\/em><\/strong><\/h3>\n

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Ge\u00e7mi\u015fte ya\u015fad\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z kay\u0131plar, ka\u00e7\u0131rd\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z f\u0131rsatlar ya da yapt\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z hatalar, \u00e7o\u011fu zaman zihnimizi uzun s\u00fcre me\u015fgul eder. Oysa Dale Carnegie<\/strong>‘nin \u201cBatan g\u00fcne\u015f i\u00e7in a\u011flamay\u0131n, yeniden do\u011fdu\u011funda ne yapaca\u011f\u0131n\u0131za karar verin.\u201d<\/em> s\u00f6z\u00fc, dikkatimizi de\u011fi\u015ftirmemiz gereken yeri \u00e7ok g\u00fczel g\u00f6sterir. G\u00fcne\u015f her ak\u015fam batar; bu do\u011fan\u0131n de\u011fi\u015fmez bir ger\u00e7e\u011fidir. Ancak onun ertesi sabah yeniden do\u011facak olmas\u0131 da ayn\u0131 derecede kesindir. Hayat da b\u00f6yledir. Biten bir g\u00fcn\u00fcn, kapanan bir kap\u0131n\u0131n ya da geride kalan bir d\u00f6nemin ard\u0131ndan mutlaka yeni ba\u015flang\u0131\u00e7lar gelir. \u00d6nemli olan, ge\u00e7mi\u015fin pi\u015fmanl\u0131klar\u0131na tak\u0131l\u0131p kalmak de\u011fil, \u00f6n\u00fcm\u00fczde belirecek yeni f\u0131rsatlara haz\u0131rl\u0131kl\u0131 olmakt\u0131r.<\/strong> \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc gelece\u011fi de\u011fi\u015ftirebilecek tek an, i\u00e7inde bulundu\u011fumuz and\u0131r.<\/p>\n

Bu s\u00f6z\u00fc g\u00fcnl\u00fck ya\u015fam\u0131m\u0131za ta\u015f\u0131mak i\u00e7in uygulayabilece\u011fimiz etkili bir y\u00f6ntem vard\u0131r. G\u00fcn\u00fcn sonunda yaln\u0131zca birka\u00e7 dakikan\u0131z\u0131 ay\u0131rarak kendinize \u015fu soruyu sorun: “Yar\u0131n do\u011facak g\u00fcne\u015fle birlikte yapaca\u011f\u0131m en \u00f6nemli \u015fey nedir?”<\/strong> Ard\u0131ndan bunu tek bir c\u00fcmleyle not edin. B\u00f6ylece zihniniz ge\u00e7mi\u015fte ya\u015fananlar\u0131 tekrar tekrar d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnmek yerine, yar\u0131n\u0131n ilk ad\u0131m\u0131na odaklanacakt\u0131r. K\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck gibi g\u00f6r\u00fcnen bu al\u0131\u015fkanl\u0131k, zamanla karars\u0131zl\u0131\u011f\u0131 azalt\u0131r, motivasyonu art\u0131r\u0131r ve g\u00fcne daha bilin\u00e7li ba\u015flaman\u0131z\u0131 sa\u011flar. Ba\u015far\u0131 \u00e7o\u011fu zaman b\u00fcy\u00fck s\u0131\u00e7ramalar\u0131n de\u011fil, her yeni g\u00fcne do\u011fru bir niyetle ba\u015flaman\u0131n<\/strong> do\u011fal sonucudur.<\/p>\n

Hepimiz zaman zaman ba\u015far\u0131s\u0131zl\u0131klar ya\u015fayabilir, hayal k\u0131r\u0131kl\u0131klar\u0131yla kar\u015f\u0131la\u015fabilir ya da bir d\u00f6nemin sona erdi\u011fine tan\u0131kl\u0131k edebiliriz. Ancak ertesi sabah do\u011fan g\u00fcne\u015f, bize sessizce yeni bir f\u0131rsat sundu\u011funu hat\u0131rlat\u0131r. D\u00fcn ka\u00e7\u0131rd\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z bir f\u0131rsat, bug\u00fcn daha iyi haz\u0131rlanman\u0131z i\u00e7in de\u011ferli bir deneyime d\u00f6n\u00fc\u015febilir. \u0130\u015fte bu y\u00fczden ge\u00e7mi\u015fe a\u011f\u0131t yakmak yerine gelece\u011fe haz\u0131rlanmak \u00e7ok daha g\u00fc\u00e7l\u00fc bir se\u00e7imdir. Her g\u00fcn yeniden do\u011fan g\u00fcne\u015f, asl\u0131nda bize de yeniden ba\u015flama hakk\u0131 verir; \u00f6nemli olan o yeni g\u00fcn\u00fc nas\u0131l de\u011ferlendirece\u011fimize bug\u00fcnden karar verebilmektir.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

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Dale Carnegie Kimdir?<\/h3>\n

Dale Carnegie (1888-1955) Amerikal\u0131 yazar, e\u011fitimci ve ki\u015fisel geli\u015fim alan\u0131n\u0131n \u00f6nc\u00fclerinden biridir. \u00d6zellikle ileti\u015fim becerileri, insan ili\u015fkileri, liderlik ve \u00f6zg\u00fcven \u00fczerine geli\u015ftirdi\u011fi e\u011fitim programlar\u0131yla d\u00fcnya \u00e7ap\u0131nda tan\u0131nm\u0131\u015ft\u0131r. En bilinen eseri “Dost Kazanma ve \u0130nsanlar\u0131 Etkileme Sanat\u0131”, milyonlarca okura ula\u015farak ki\u015fisel geli\u015fim alan\u0131n\u0131n klasiklerinden biri h\u00e2line gelmi\u015ftir. Carnegie, insanlar\u0131n olumlu d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnce, etkili ileti\u015fim ve yap\u0131c\u0131 davran\u0131\u015flarla hem i\u015f hem de \u00f6zel ya\u015famlar\u0131nda daha ba\u015far\u0131l\u0131 olabileceklerini savunmu\u015f; fikirleri g\u00fcn\u00fcm\u00fczde de ki\u015fisel geli\u015fim ve motivasyon alan\u0131nda ilham vermeyi s\u00fcrd\u00fcrmektedir.<\/p>\n

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