{"id":2958,"date":"2022-01-31T01:00:53","date_gmt":"2022-01-31T01:00:53","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.ozdeyis.net\/?p=2958"},"modified":"2026-04-06T18:45:41","modified_gmt":"2026-04-06T18:45:41","slug":"maymunu-ormandan-cikarabilirsiniz-ama-ormani-maymunun-icinden-cikaramazsiniz-f-d-waal","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/e-motivasyon.net\/en\/maymunu-ormandan-cikarabilirsiniz-ama-ormani-maymunun-icinden-cikaramazsiniz-f-d-waal.html","title":{"rendered":"\u201cYou can take the monkey out of the jungle; but you can't take the forest out of the monkey." Frans De Waal"},"content":{"rendered":"

\u201cYou can take the monkey out of the jungle; but you can't take the forest out of the monkey." Frans De Waal<\/em><\/strong><\/span><\/h3>\n

\""Maymunu<\/a><\/p>\n

Frans de Waal\u2019\u0131n \u201cMaymunu ormandan \u00e7\u0131karabilirsiniz; ama orman\u0131 maymunun i\u00e7inden \u00e7\u0131karamazs\u0131n\u0131z.\u201d<\/em> s\u00f6z\u00fc, insan davran\u0131\u015flar\u0131n\u0131n yaln\u0131zca \u00f6\u011frenilmi\u015f al\u0131\u015fkanl\u0131klardan de\u011fil, derin i\u00e7g\u00fcd\u00fcsel k\u00f6klerden<\/strong> beslendi\u011fini hat\u0131rlat\u0131r. Biz ortamlar\u0131m\u0131z\u0131, ko\u015fullar\u0131m\u0131z\u0131, hatta rollerimizi de\u011fi\u015ftirebiliriz; ancak i\u00e7imizde ta\u015f\u0131d\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z e\u011filimler, tepkiler ve duygusal miras kolay kolay silinmez. De Waal burada sadece biyolojik i\u00e7g\u00fcd\u00fclerden s\u00f6z etmez; ayn\u0131 zamanda umuttan<\/strong> da bahseder. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc orman, yaln\u0131zca vah\u015fili\u011fi de\u011fil; hayatta kalma g\u00fcd\u00fcs\u00fcn\u00fc, uyum sa\u011flama becerisini ve yeniden deneme kapasitesini de temsil eder. Yani insan i\u00e7indeki \u201corman\u201d, bizi sabote edebilece\u011fi gibi aya\u011fa da kald\u0131rabilir.<\/p>\n

Bu s\u00f6zden ilhamla g\u00fcnl\u00fck hayatta uygulayabilece\u011fimiz pratik bir \u00f6neri \u015fudur: Zorland\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z bir davran\u0131\u015f kal\u0131b\u0131n\u0131 fark etti\u011finizde, onu bast\u0131rmaya \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmak yerine anlamaya odaklan\u0131n<\/strong>. \u00d6rne\u011fin \u00f6fkelendi\u011finizde kendinize \u015fu soruyu sorun: \u201cBeni \u015fu an harekete ge\u00e7iren i\u00e7g\u00fcd\u00fc ne ve bunun olumlu bir ihtiyac\u0131 var m\u0131?\u201d<\/strong> \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc \u00e7o\u011fu tepkinin alt\u0131nda korunma, kabul g\u00f6rme ya da g\u00fcvende olma ihtiyac\u0131 yatar. Biz bu ihtiyac\u0131 fark etti\u011fimizde, i\u00e7g\u00fcd\u00fclerimizi d\u00fc\u015fman gibi g\u00f6rmek yerine d\u00f6n\u00fc\u015ft\u00fcr\u00fclebilir bir enerji<\/strong> olarak kullanmay\u0131 \u00f6\u011freniriz.<\/p>\n

Frans de Waal\u2019\u0131n primatlar \u00fczerine yapt\u0131\u011f\u0131 \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmalar, empati, i\u015fbirli\u011fi ve dayan\u0131\u015fman\u0131n da en az sald\u0131rganl\u0131k kadar do\u011fal oldu\u011funu g\u00f6sterir. Yani i\u00e7imizde sadece karanl\u0131k bir orman yok; umut veren bir ya\u015fam alan\u0131 da var<\/strong>. Hayat bizi farkl\u0131 ko\u015fullara savurabilir, rollerimizi de\u011fi\u015ftirebilir; ama i\u00e7imizde ta\u015f\u0131d\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z \u00f6z\u00fc yok edemez. \u0130nsan, i\u00e7indeki orman\u0131 ink\u00e2r etti\u011finde de\u011fil; onu tan\u0131y\u0131p y\u00f6netti\u011finde olgunla\u015f\u0131r.<\/em><\/strong> Because you are only as real as you can express yourself. umut da bir i\u00e7g\u00fcd\u00fcd\u00fcr ve do\u011fru ko\u015fullarda mutlaka filiz verir.<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n

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Frans De Waal Kimdir?<\/strong><\/h3>\n

Frans de Waal (1948\u20132024) Hollandal\u0131 primatolog ve etologdur. \u015eempanzeler ve bonobolar \u00fczerine yapt\u0131\u011f\u0131 ara\u015ft\u0131rmalarla hayvan davran\u0131\u015flar\u0131, empati, i\u015fbirli\u011fi ve ahlak\u0131n evrimsel k\u00f6kenleri konusunda d\u00fcnya \u00e7ap\u0131nda tan\u0131nm\u0131\u015ft\u0131r. Uzun y\u0131llar ABD\u2019de Emory \u00dcniversitesi\u2019nde g\u00f6rev yapm\u0131\u015f, insan davran\u0131\u015flar\u0131n\u0131n biyolojik temellerini bilimsel \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmalarla ortaya koymu\u015ftur. Empati ve i\u015fbirli\u011finin yaln\u0131zca insana \u00f6zg\u00fc olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 savunan De Waal, insan do\u011fas\u0131n\u0131 anlamaya y\u00f6nelik evrimsel bak\u0131\u015f a\u00e7\u0131s\u0131yla modern psikoloji ve davran\u0131\u015f bilimlerine \u00f6nemli katk\u0131lar sa\u011flam\u0131\u015ft\u0131r.<\/p>\n

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En \u0130yi Umut S\u00f6zleri<\/a><\/p><\/blockquote>\n