{"id":27684,"date":"2017-11-16T07:46:15","date_gmt":"2017-11-16T07:46:15","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/e-motivasyon.net\/?p=27684"},"modified":"2026-02-11T14:40:33","modified_gmt":"2026-02-11T14:40:33","slug":"deneyim-adini-unuttuktan-sonra-sahip-oldugunuz-seydir-milton-berle","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/e-motivasyon.net\/en\/deneyim-adini-unuttuktan-sonra-sahip-oldugunuz-seydir-milton-berle.html","title":{"rendered":"\u201cExperience is what you have after forgetting its name.\u201d Milton Berle"},"content":{"rendered":"

\u201cExperience is what you have after forgetting its name.\u201d Milton Berle<\/strong><\/em><\/h3>\n

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\u201cDeneyim, ad\u0131n\u0131 unuttuktan sonra sahip oldu\u011funuz \u015feydir.\u201d<\/strong> s\u00f6z\u00fc, Amerikal\u0131 komedyen Milton Berle<\/strong>\u2019nin mizah dolu ama derin bir ya\u015fam bilgeli\u011fini yans\u0131t\u0131r. Bir olay\u0131n ayr\u0131nt\u0131lar\u0131n\u0131, tarihini, kimle ya\u015fand\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 ya da hangi ba\u015fl\u0131k alt\u0131nda ge\u00e7ti\u011fini unutabiliriz. Ancak o olay\u0131n bizde b\u0131rakt\u0131\u011f\u0131 iz; reflekslerimize, kararlar\u0131m\u0131za ve bak\u0131\u015f a\u00e7\u0131m\u0131za siner. \u0130\u015fte ger\u00e7ek deneyim<\/strong> budur: Bilginin \u00f6tesine ge\u00e7ip karakterimizin bir par\u00e7as\u0131 haline gelen i\u00e7sel kazan\u0131m. Ba\u015far\u0131 da hata da zamanla an\u0131 olmaktan \u00e7\u0131kar; bir sezgiye, bir olgunlu\u011fa, bir i\u00e7g\u00f6r\u00fcye d\u00f6n\u00fc\u015f\u00fcr.<\/strong> Deneyim; ya\u015fanm\u0131\u015fl\u0131\u011f\u0131n s\u00fcz\u00fclm\u00fc\u015f, dam\u0131t\u0131lm\u0131\u015f halidir.<\/p>\n

Bu s\u00f6zden ilhamla g\u00fcnl\u00fck hayatta uygulayabilece\u011fimiz tek ama g\u00fc\u00e7l\u00fc bir \u00f6neri \u015fudur: Her \u00f6nemli g\u00fcn\u00fcn sonunda kendinize \u015fu soruyu sorun: \u201cBug\u00fcn bana ne \u00f6\u011fretti?\u201d<\/strong> Olay\u0131n detaylar\u0131na de\u011fil, sizde b\u0131rakt\u0131\u011f\u0131 etkiye odaklan\u0131n. Bir toplant\u0131 k\u00f6t\u00fc m\u00fc ge\u00e7ti? \u201cBir dahaki sefere daha net ifade edece\u011fim\u201d diyebiliyor musunuz? Bir tart\u0131\u015fma m\u0131 ya\u015fad\u0131n\u0131z? \u201cSakin kalmak benim sorumlulu\u011fum\u201d sonucunu \u00e7\u0131karabiliyor musunuz? Biz ve siz, ya\u015fad\u0131klar\u0131m\u0131z\u0131 bilin\u00e7li \u015fekilde anlamland\u0131rd\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131zda deneyimi h\u0131zland\u0131r\u0131r\u0131z. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc deneyim sadece zaman\u0131n ge\u00e7mesiyle de\u011fil; fark\u0131ndal\u0131kla<\/strong> olu\u015fur. Ayn\u0131 hatay\u0131 tekrar tekrar yapmak deneyim de\u011fil; deneyimi \u0131skalamakt\u0131r.<\/p>\n

Bir \u00e7ocu\u011fun bisiklet s\u00fcrmeyi \u00f6\u011frenmesini d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcn. Ka\u00e7 kez d\u00fc\u015ft\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn\u00fc hat\u0131rlamayabilir ama dengenin nas\u0131l sa\u011flanaca\u011f\u0131n\u0131 art\u0131k bilir. \u0130\u015f hayat\u0131nda da b\u00f6yledir; ilk sunumunuzdaki heyecan\u0131 unutursunuz ama topluluk \u00f6n\u00fcnde konu\u015fma beceriniz kal\u0131r. \u0130li\u015fkilerde de b\u00f6yledir; k\u0131r\u0131ld\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z an\u0131 unutabilirsiniz ama s\u0131n\u0131rlar koymay\u0131 \u00f6\u011frenmi\u015fsinizdir. \u0130\u015fte Milton Berle\u2019nin s\u00f6z\u00fc tam olarak bunu anlat\u0131r: Deneyim, ya\u015fad\u0131klar\u0131m\u0131z\u0131n de\u011fil; onlardan d\u00f6n\u00fc\u015ft\u00fcrd\u00fcklerimizin toplam\u0131d\u0131r.<\/em><\/strong> Bu y\u00fczden ba\u015f\u0131m\u0131za gelenlerden \u00e7ok, onlardan ne \u00e7\u0131kard\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z gelece\u011fimizi belirler. Ger\u00e7ek ki\u015fisel geli\u015fim ve motivasyon<\/strong>, i\u015fte bu bilin\u00e7li deneyim biriktirme s\u00fcrecidir.<\/p>\n

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Milton Berle Kimdir?<\/strong><\/h3>\n

Milton Berle<\/strong> (12 Temmuz 1908 \u2013 27 Mart 2002), Amerikal\u0131 komedyen, oyuncu ve televizyon sunucusudur. \u201cMr. Television\u201d lakab\u0131yla an\u0131lan Berle, 1940\u2019l\u0131 ve 1950\u2019li y\u0131llarda Amerikan televizyonunun y\u00fckseli\u015finde b\u00fcy\u00fck rol oynam\u0131\u015ft\u0131r. Mizah anlay\u0131\u015f\u0131 ve sahne enerjisiyle geni\u015f kitlelere ula\u015fm\u0131\u015f, televizyon tarihinin en etkili isimlerinden biri olarak kabul edilmi\u015ftir. Uzun kariyeri boyunca e\u011flence d\u00fcnyas\u0131nda iz b\u0131rakan Berle, zekice s\u00f6zleriyle de ya\u015fam ve deneyim \u00fczerine d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnd\u00fcren ifadeler b\u0131rakm\u0131\u015ft\u0131r.<\/p>\n

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\u0130nsanlara Dair \u00d6zl\u00fc S\u00f6zler ve \u00d6zdeyi\u015fler<\/a><\/p><\/blockquote>\n