{"id":27622,"date":"2017-11-09T16:05:42","date_gmt":"2017-11-09T16:05:42","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/e-motivasyon.net\/?p=27622"},"modified":"2026-02-27T06:08:01","modified_gmt":"2026-02-27T06:08:01","slug":"yasam-kisadir-ama-mahvolmak-isteyen-her-insani-mahvedecek-kadar-da-uzundur-josh-billings","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/e-motivasyon.net\/en\/yasam-kisadir-ama-mahvolmak-isteyen-her-insani-mahvedecek-kadar-da-uzundur-josh-billings.html","title":{"rendered":"\u201cLife is short; but long enough to destroy any man who wishes to perish.\u201d Josh Billings"},"content":{"rendered":"

\u201cLife is short; but long enough to destroy any man who wishes to perish.\u201d Josh Billings<\/em><\/strong><\/h3>\n

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\u201cYa\u015fam k\u0131sad\u0131r; ama mahvolmak isteyen her insan\u0131 mahvedecek kadar da uzundur.\u201d s\u00f6z\u00fcyle Josh Billings<\/span><\/span>, insan\u0131n kendi hayat\u0131na nas\u0131l zarar verebildi\u011fine dair sert ama ger\u00e7ek\u00e7i bir uyar\u0131da bulunur. Hayat ger\u00e7ekten k\u0131sad\u0131r; f\u0131rsatlar s\u0131n\u0131rl\u0131d\u0131r, zaman h\u0131zla ge\u00e7er. Ancak ayn\u0131 hayat, bilin\u00e7siz al\u0131\u015fkanl\u0131klar, s\u00fcrekli erteleme, k\u00f6t\u00fc se\u00e7imler ve \u00f6z sabotaj i\u00e7in fazlas\u0131yla yeterlidir. \u0130nsan \u00e7o\u011fu zaman d\u0131\u015f ko\u015fullardan de\u011fil, kendi tekrar eden yanl\u0131\u015flar\u0131ndan zarar g\u00f6r\u00fcr.<\/strong> Billings\u2019in ironik yakla\u015f\u0131m\u0131, ya\u015fam\u0131n uzunlu\u011fundan \u00e7ok, onu nas\u0131l kulland\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z\u0131n belirleyici oldu\u011funu hat\u0131rlat\u0131r.<\/p>\n

Bu s\u00f6zden ilhamla g\u00fcnl\u00fck hayatta uygulayabilece\u011fimiz pratik \u00f6neri \u015fudur: \u201cKendini sabote eden bir al\u0131\u015fkanl\u0131\u011f\u0131\u201d tespit edin ve 30 g\u00fcn boyunca bilin\u00e7li olarak onu d\u00f6n\u00fc\u015ft\u00fcrmeye odaklan\u0131n. Bu a\u015f\u0131r\u0131 ekran s\u00fcresi olabilir, gereksiz harcamalar olabilir ya da s\u00fcrekli \u015fik\u00e2yet etme al\u0131\u015fkanl\u0131\u011f\u0131\u2026 \u00d6nce fark edin, sonra yerine k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck ama yap\u0131c\u0131 bir davran\u0131\u015f koyun. Ki\u015fisel geli\u015fim, dramatik kararlarla de\u011fil; zararl\u0131 tekrarlar\u0131 durdurmakla ba\u015flar.<\/strong> Ba\u015far\u0131 \u00e7o\u011fu zaman yeni bir \u015fey eklemekten \u00e7ok, yanl\u0131\u015f olan\u0131 b\u0131rakmakt\u0131r.<\/p>\n

Diyelim ki her ak\u015fam \u201cYar\u0131n daha disiplinli olaca\u011f\u0131m.\u201d diyorsunuz ama ayn\u0131 d\u00f6ng\u00fc devam ediyor. G\u00fcnler haftalara, haftalar aylara d\u00f6n\u00fc\u015f\u00fcyor. \u0130\u015fte o noktada ya\u015fam ger\u00e7ekten \u201cuzun\u201d hale geliyor; \u00e7\u00fcnk\u00fc ayn\u0131 hatalar tekrar tekrar ya\u015fan\u0131yor. Ancak bir g\u00fcn bilin\u00e7li bir karar verip k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck bir al\u0131\u015fkanl\u0131\u011f\u0131 de\u011fi\u015ftirdi\u011finizde y\u00f6n de\u011fi\u015fiyor. Hayat bizi mahvetmez; biz onu bilin\u00e7siz se\u00e7imlerle t\u00fcketiriz. Ama ayn\u0131 hayat, bilin\u00e7li tercihlerle yeniden in\u015fa edilebilir.<\/strong><\/em> Josh Billings<\/span><\/span>\u2019in bu s\u00f6z\u00fc, motivasyon ve ki\u015fisel sorumluluk konusunda g\u00fc\u00e7l\u00fc bir aynad\u0131r.<\/p>\n

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Josh Billings Kimdir?<\/strong><\/h3>\n

Josh Billings<\/span><\/span> (1818-1885) Amerikal\u0131 mizah yazar\u0131 ve konu\u015fmac\u0131d\u0131r. Ger\u00e7ek ad\u0131 Henry Wheeler Shaw\u2019dur. 19. y\u00fczy\u0131lda \u00f6zellikle hicivli ve halk diline yak\u0131n \u00fcslubuyla tan\u0131nm\u0131\u015f, insan do\u011fas\u0131 ve g\u00fcnl\u00fck ya\u015fam \u00fczerine yapt\u0131\u011f\u0131 g\u00f6zlemlerle dikkat \u00e7ekmi\u015ftir. Mizah\u0131 bir ara\u00e7 olarak kullanarak ahlaki ve toplumsal mesajlar vermi\u015ftir.<\/p>\n

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\u0130nsanlara Dair \u00d6zl\u00fc S\u00f6zler ve \u00d6zdeyi\u015fler<\/a><\/p><\/blockquote>\n