{"id":27407,"date":"2017-10-23T12:03:51","date_gmt":"2017-10-23T12:03:51","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/e-motivasyon.net\/?p=27407"},"modified":"2026-07-06T09:23:26","modified_gmt":"2026-07-06T09:23:26","slug":"hicbir-seyi-kisisel-olarak-algilamayin-baskalarinin-yaptigi-hicbir-sey-sizin-yuzunuzden-degildir-baskalarinin-soyledigi-yaptiklari-kendi-gercekliklerinin-kendi-hayallerinin-bir-izdusumudur-b","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/e-motivasyon.net\/en\/hicbir-seyi-kisisel-olarak-algilamayin-baskalarinin-yaptigi-hicbir-sey-sizin-yuzunuzden-degildir-baskalarinin-soyledigi-yaptiklari-kendi-gercekliklerinin-kendi-hayallerinin-bir-izdusumudur-b.html","title":{"rendered":"\"Whatever happens around you, don't take it personally... Nothing other people do is because of you. It is because of themselves. All people live in their own dream, in their own mind; they are in a completely different world from the one we live in. When we take something personally, we make an assumption that they know what is in our world, and we try to impose our world on their world.\" Don Miguel Ruiz"},"content":{"rendered":"

\"Whatever happens around you, don't take it personally... Nothing other people do is because of you. It is because of themselves. All people live in their own dream, in their own mind; they are in a completely different world from the one we live in. When we take something personally, we make an assumption that they know what is in our world, and we try to impose our world on their world.\" Don Miguel Ruiz<\/strong><\/em><\/h3>\n

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Bu s\u00f6z\u00fcyle Don Miguel Ruiz, insan ili\u015fkilerinde en \u00e7ok y\u0131pratan al\u0131\u015fkanl\u0131klardan birine dikkat \u00e7eker. \u0130nsanlar, d\u00fcnyay\u0131 kendi inan\u00e7lar\u0131, korkular\u0131, deneyimleri ve duygusal durumlar\u0131 do\u011frultusunda alg\u0131lar. Bu nedenle s\u00f6yledikleri s\u00f6zler ve sergiledikleri davran\u0131\u015flar, \u00e7o\u011fu zaman bizim kim oldu\u011fumuzdan \u00e7ok onlar\u0131n i\u00e7 d\u00fcnyas\u0131n\u0131 yans\u0131t\u0131r. Bir ele\u015ftiri, sert bir tav\u0131r ya da ilgisizlik her zaman bizim de\u011ferimizi g\u00f6stermez. Ba\u015fkalar\u0131n\u0131n davran\u0131\u015flar\u0131n\u0131 s\u00fcrekli kendimizle ili\u015fkilendirdi\u011fimizde, ger\u00e7e\u011fi de\u011fil kendi varsay\u0131mlar\u0131m\u0131z\u0131 ya\u015famaya ba\u015flar\u0131z.<\/strong> Oysa duygusal olgunluk, her tepkinin merkezine kendimizi koymamakla geli\u015fir.<\/p>\n

Bu s\u00f6zden ilham alarak g\u00fcnl\u00fck ya\u015famda uygulayabilece\u011fimiz pratik bir \u00f6neri, sizi rahats\u0131z eden bir s\u00f6z duydu\u011funuzda hemen tepki vermek yerine on saniye durup kendinize \u015fu soruyu sorman\u0131zd\u0131r: “Bu ki\u015finin davran\u0131\u015f\u0131 benim hakk\u0131mda m\u0131, yoksa onun o anki ruh h\u00e2li ve ya\u015fam deneyimleri hakk\u0131nda m\u0131 daha fazla \u015fey s\u00f6yl\u00fcyor?”<\/strong> Bu k\u0131sa sorgulama, olaylara daha geni\u015f bir perspektiften bakman\u0131z\u0131 sa\u011flar ve gereksiz k\u0131rg\u0131nl\u0131klar\u0131n \u00f6n\u00fcne ge\u00e7er. Bazen huzurumuzu koruman\u0131n en etkili yolu, her s\u00f6z\u00fc \u00fczerimize al\u0131nacak bir sald\u0131r\u0131 olarak g\u00f6rmemeyi \u00f6\u011frenmektir.<\/strong><\/p>\n

\u00d6rne\u011fin trafikte size sert tepki g\u00f6steren bir s\u00fcr\u00fcc\u00fcn\u00fcn davran\u0131\u015f\u0131, sizin ki\u015fili\u011finizden \u00e7ok onun \u00f6fkesi, stresi ya da ya\u015fad\u0131\u011f\u0131 sorunlarla ilgili olabilir. Ayn\u0131 \u015fekilde i\u015f yerinde al\u0131nan sert bir ele\u015ftiri de her zaman de\u011fersiz oldu\u011funuz anlam\u0131na gelmez. \u0130nsanlar\u0131n s\u00f6zleri ve davran\u0131\u015flar\u0131 \u00e7o\u011fu zaman kendi i\u00e7 d\u00fcnyalar\u0131n\u0131n aynas\u0131d\u0131r. Don Miguel Ruiz’in bu s\u00f6z\u00fc bize, ba\u015fkalar\u0131n\u0131n d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcncelerinin ve davran\u0131\u015flar\u0131n\u0131n esiri olmak yerine kendi i\u00e7 huzurumuzu korumay\u0131 se\u00e7ti\u011fimizde, gereksiz ac\u0131lardan \u00f6zg\u00fcrle\u015febilece\u011fimizi ve \u00e7ok daha g\u00fc\u00e7l\u00fc ili\u015fkiler kurabilece\u011fimizi hat\u0131rlat\u0131r.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

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Don Miguel Ruiz Kimdir?<\/h3>\n

Don Miguel Ruiz (1952-) Meksikal\u0131 yazar, ruhsal \u00f6\u011fretmen ve ki\u015fisel geli\u015fim alan\u0131nda uluslararas\u0131 \u00fcne sahip bir isimdir. \u00d6zellikle D\u00f6rt Anla\u015fma (The Four Agreements) adl\u0131 kitab\u0131yla milyonlarca okura ula\u015fm\u0131\u015ft\u0131r. Toltek bilgeli\u011fini modern ya\u015famla bulu\u015fturan Ruiz; \u00f6z fark\u0131ndal\u0131k, \u00f6zg\u00fcrl\u00fck, sevgi, mutluluk ve zihinsel d\u00f6n\u00fc\u015f\u00fcm konular\u0131nda sade ama derin \u00f6\u011fretiler sunmaktad\u0131r. Eserleri, bireylerin kendileriyle ve \u00e7evreleriyle daha bilin\u00e7li ili\u015fkiler kurmalar\u0131na yard\u0131mc\u0131 olan ki\u015fisel geli\u015fim klasikleri aras\u0131nda yer almaktad\u0131r.<\/p>\n

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