{"id":27123,"date":"2017-09-25T09:16:42","date_gmt":"2017-09-25T09:16:42","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/e-motivasyon.net\/?p=27123"},"modified":"2026-05-03T16:53:34","modified_gmt":"2026-05-03T16:53:34","slug":"bir-deneyimden-ancak-deneyimin-icinde-barindirdigi-bilgelik-kadar-cikarimda-bulunmaya-dikkat-etmeliyiz-daha-fazlasini-degil-yoksa-kizgin-sobanin-uzerine-oturan-kediye-benzeriz-kedi-bir-daha-asl","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/e-motivasyon.net\/en\/bir-deneyimden-ancak-deneyimin-icinde-barindirdigi-bilgelik-kadar-cikarimda-bulunmaya-dikkat-etmeliyiz-daha-fazlasini-degil-yoksa-kizgin-sobanin-uzerine-oturan-kediye-benzeriz-kedi-bir-daha-asl.html","title":{"rendered":"\u201cWe must be careful to deduce from an experience only as much as the wisdom it contains, and nothing more; otherwise we will be like a cat sitting on a hot stove. The cat will never sit on a hot stove again, it's true; but it will never sit on a cold stove again.\u201d Mark Twain"},"content":{"rendered":"

\u201cWe must be careful to deduce from an experience only as much as the wisdom it contains, and nothing more; otherwise we will be like a cat sitting on a hot stove. The cat will never sit on a hot stove again, it's true; but it will never sit on a cold stove again.\u201d Mark Twain<\/strong><\/em><\/h3>\n

\"Mavi<\/a><\/p>\n

Mark Twain<\/span><\/span> taraf\u0131ndan ifade edilen bu s\u00f6z, deneyimlerden \u00f6\u011frenmenin \u00f6nemini vurgularken, a\u015f\u0131r\u0131 genellemenin nas\u0131l bir tuza\u011fa d\u00f6n\u00fc\u015febilece\u011fini \u00e7arp\u0131c\u0131 bir metaforla anlat\u0131r. Bir kez can\u0131m\u0131z yand\u0131\u011f\u0131nda, zihnimiz bizi korumak i\u00e7in benzer t\u00fcm durumlar\u0131 \u201ctehlikeli\u201d olarak etiketlemeye e\u011filimlidir. Oysa her deneyim kendi ba\u011flam\u0131nda anlam ta\u015f\u0131r; onu genelleyerek b\u00fcy\u00fctmek, \u00f6\u011frenmek de\u011fil, korkuyu \u00e7o\u011faltmakt\u0131r.<\/strong> Twain burada bize \u015funu hat\u0131rlat\u0131r: Deneyimden bilgelik \u00e7\u0131karmak gerekir, ama korku \u00fcretmek de\u011fil.<\/strong> Aksi halde bir hatan\u0131n g\u00f6lgesinde, bir\u00e7ok f\u0131rsat\u0131 da ka\u00e7\u0131r\u0131r\u0131z.<\/p>\n

Bu s\u00f6zden ilhamla g\u00fcnl\u00fck hayatta uygulayabilece\u011finiz pratik \u00f6neri \u015fudur: Ya\u015fad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z olumsuz bir deneyimin ard\u0131ndan kendinize \u015fu soruyu sorun: \u201cBu durumun bana \u00f6\u011fretti\u011fi tam olarak<\/em> ne?\u201d ve hemen ard\u0131ndan \u015funu ekleyin: \u201cPeki bu deneyimi gereksiz yere nerelere genelliyorum?\u201d Bu iki soruyu birlikte sormak, sizi hem \u00f6\u011frenmeye hem de a\u015f\u0131r\u0131 genellemenin \u00f6n\u00fcne ge\u00e7meye g\u00f6t\u00fcr\u00fcr. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc bilgelik, do\u011fru s\u0131n\u0131rlar \u00e7izebilmektir; korku ise s\u0131n\u0131rlar\u0131 gere\u011finden fazla geni\u015fletmektir.<\/strong> Bu yakla\u015f\u0131m, sizi daha dengeli ve cesur bir insan haline getirir.<\/p>\n

Bunu bir \u00f6rnekle d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnelim: Bir i\u015f g\u00f6r\u00fc\u015fmesinde ba\u015far\u0131s\u0131z oldunuz ve \u201cBen zaten bu i\u015flerde iyi de\u011filim\u201d diye d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnmeye ba\u015flad\u0131n\u0131z. Bu, k\u0131zg\u0131n sobaya oturan kedi gibi, tek bir deneyimi t\u00fcm hayat\u0131n\u0131za yaymakt\u0131r. Oysa belki de sadece o g\u00fcn haz\u0131rl\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z eksikti ya da o pozisyon size uygun de\u011fildi. \u0130\u015fte Mark Twain\u2019in s\u00f6z\u00fc tam olarak bu noktaya \u0131\u015f\u0131k tutar. Bir deneyimin size \u00f6\u011fretti\u011fini al\u0131n, ama onun s\u0131n\u0131rlar\u0131n\u0131 a\u015fmas\u0131na izin vermeyin.<\/strong> Ve unutmay\u0131n: Bir kez yand\u0131n\u0131z diye, hayat\u0131n t\u00fcm sobalar\u0131ndan uzak durmak zorunda de\u011filsiniz.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

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Mark Twain Kimdir?<\/strong><\/h3>\n

Mark Twain (1835-1910) Amerikal\u0131 yazar, mizah\u00e7\u0131 ve d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcrd\u00fcr. As\u0131l ad\u0131 Samuel Langhorne Clemens olan Twain, \u201cTom Sawyer\u2019\u0131n Maceralar\u0131\u201d ve \u201cHuckleberry Finn\u2019in Maceralar\u0131\u201d gibi eserleriyle d\u00fcnya edebiyat\u0131nda \u00f6nemli bir yer edinmi\u015ftir. Keskin g\u00f6zlem g\u00fcc\u00fc ve mizahi anlat\u0131m\u0131yla insan do\u011fas\u0131n\u0131 ele\u015ftirel bir bak\u0131\u015fla ele alm\u0131\u015ft\u0131r.<\/p>\n

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