{"id":26827,"date":"2017-08-22T11:49:29","date_gmt":"2017-08-22T11:49:29","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/e-motivasyon.net\/?p=26827"},"modified":"2026-08-06T08:40:07","modified_gmt":"2026-08-06T08:40:07","slug":"elinde-kosulsuz-ozgurluk-varken-yaptigi-sey-bir-insanin-olcusudur-wilma-askinas","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/e-motivasyon.net\/en\/elinde-kosulsuz-ozgurluk-varken-yaptigi-sey-bir-insanin-olcusudur-wilma-askinas.html","title":{"rendered":"\u201cWhat he does with unconditional freedom is the measure of a man.\u201d Wilma Askinas"},"content":{"rendered":"

\u201cWhat he does with unconditional freedom is the measure of a man.\u201d Wilma Askinas<\/em><\/strong><\/h3>\n

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\u0130nsan karakteri, yaln\u0131zca kurallar varken de\u011fil, kimsenin bizi denetlemedi\u011fi anlarda verdi\u011fimiz kararlarla<\/strong> ortaya \u00e7\u0131kar. Wilma Askinas’\u0131n bu s\u00f6z\u00fc, \u00f6zg\u00fcrl\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn ayn\u0131 zamanda b\u00fcy\u00fck bir sorumluluk oldu\u011funu hat\u0131rlat\u0131r. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc ger\u00e7ek erdem, zorunluluktan de\u011fil; bilin\u00e7li se\u00e7imlerden do\u011far. Kimsenin hesap sormayaca\u011f\u0131n\u0131 bildi\u011fimiz h\u00e2lde d\u00fcr\u00fcst kalabiliyor, zaman\u0131m\u0131z\u0131 verimli kullanabiliyor ve ba\u015fkalar\u0131na sayg\u0131yla davranabiliyorsak, i\u015fte o zaman karakterimizin ger\u00e7ek g\u00fcc\u00fc ortaya \u00e7\u0131kar. \u00d6zg\u00fcrl\u00fck, insan\u0131n ne istedi\u011fini de\u011fil, de\u011ferlerine ne kadar sad\u0131k kald\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 g\u00f6steren bir aynad\u0131r.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Bu d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnceyi g\u00fcnl\u00fck hayat\u0131m\u0131za ta\u015f\u0131mak i\u00e7in kendimize k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck bir \u00f6z denetim al\u0131\u015fkanl\u0131\u011f\u0131 kazand\u0131rabiliriz. Bug\u00fcn size tamamen ait olan bir zaman dilimini se\u00e7in. Bu s\u00fcre i\u00e7inde sizi kimsenin y\u00f6nlendirmedi\u011fi, denetlemedi\u011fi bir ortamda \u015fu soruyu kendinize sorun: “\u015eu an yapt\u0131\u011f\u0131m \u015fey, olmak istedi\u011fim insan\u0131 temsil ediyor mu?”<\/em> E\u011fer cevap hay\u0131rsa, o zaman\u0131 sizi geli\u015ftirecek k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck ama anlaml\u0131 bir davran\u0131\u015fla de\u011ferlendirin. \u00d6zg\u00fcrl\u00fc\u011f\u00fc rastgele se\u00e7imler yapmak i\u00e7in de\u011fil, bilin\u00e7li tercihler yapmak i\u00e7in kullanmak<\/strong>, ki\u015fisel geli\u015fimin en g\u00fc\u00e7l\u00fc ad\u0131mlar\u0131ndan biridir.<\/p>\n

\u00d6rne\u011fin kimsenin sizi \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmaya zorlamad\u0131\u011f\u0131 bir ak\u015famda, saatlerinizi ama\u00e7s\u0131zca ge\u00e7irmek yerine yeni bir beceri \u00f6\u011frenmeye ay\u0131rman\u0131z gelece\u011finizi de\u011fi\u015ftirebilir. Ya da kimsenin g\u00f6rmedi\u011fi bir ortamda do\u011fru olan\u0131 se\u00e7meniz, karakterinizi sessizce g\u00fc\u00e7lendirir. Hayat\u0131n ger\u00e7ek s\u0131nav\u0131, alk\u0131\u015flar\u0131n ya da cezalar\u0131n oldu\u011fu anlar de\u011fil; tamamen \u00f6zg\u00fcr oldu\u011fumuz anlard\u0131r. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc insan\u0131n ger\u00e7ek b\u00fcy\u00fckl\u00fc\u011f\u00fc, \u00f6zg\u00fcrl\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn\u00fc nas\u0131l kulland\u0131\u011f\u0131nda sakl\u0131d\u0131r; karakterimizi belirleyen \u015fey, se\u00e7im yapma hakk\u0131m\u0131z varken yapt\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z se\u00e7imlerdir.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

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Wilma Askinas Kimdir?<\/strong><\/h3>\n

Wilma Askinas, \u00e7a\u011fda\u015f ki\u015fisel geli\u015fim ve ya\u015fam felsefesi \u00fczerine s\u00f6zleriyle tan\u0131nan bir yazard\u0131r. \u00d6zellikle bireysel sorumluluk, \u00f6zg\u00fcr irade, karakter geli\u015fimi ve etik de\u011ferler \u00fczerine yapt\u0131\u011f\u0131 vurgularla dikkat \u00e7ekmi\u015ftir. \u0130nsan davran\u0131\u015flar\u0131n\u0131n ger\u00e7ek de\u011ferinin, ki\u015finin bask\u0131 alt\u0131nda de\u011fil, tamamen \u00f6zg\u00fcr oldu\u011fu anlarda yapt\u0131\u011f\u0131 se\u00e7imlerle \u00f6l\u00e7\u00fclebilece\u011fini savunan d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnceleri, ki\u015fisel geli\u015fim alan\u0131ndaki bir\u00e7ok derleme eserde ve \u00f6zl\u00fc s\u00f6z koleksiyonunda yer almaktad\u0131r. Ya\u015fam\u0131na ili\u015fkin do\u011frulanm\u0131\u015f biyografik bilgiler ve do\u011fum-\u00f6l\u00fcm tarihleri ise kamuya a\u00e7\u0131k g\u00fcvenilir kaynaklarda yer almamaktad\u0131r.<\/p>\n

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\u0130nsanlara Dair \u00d6zl\u00fc S\u00f6zler ve \u00d6zdeyi\u015fler<\/a><\/p><\/blockquote>\n