{"id":26756,"date":"2017-08-15T08:31:16","date_gmt":"2017-08-15T08:31:16","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/e-motivasyon.net\/?p=26756"},"modified":"2026-01-28T15:23:08","modified_gmt":"2026-01-28T15:23:08","slug":"sinirli-bakis-acimiz-umitlerimiz-korkularimiz-hayatimizin-olcusu-olmustur-icinde-bulundugumuz-kosullar-dusuncelerimize-uymadigi-zaman-bunlar-zorluklarimiz-olur-benjamin-franklin","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/e-motivasyon.net\/en\/sinirli-bakis-acimiz-umitlerimiz-korkularimiz-hayatimizin-olcusu-olmustur-icinde-bulundugumuz-kosullar-dusuncelerimize-uymadigi-zaman-bunlar-zorluklarimiz-olur-benjamin-franklin.html","title":{"rendered":"\u201cOur limited perspective, hopes and fears have been the measure of our lives; These become our difficulties when the circumstances we are in do not match our thinking.\u201d Benjamin Franklin"},"content":{"rendered":"

“Bizim s\u0131n\u0131rl\u0131 bak\u0131\u015f a\u00e7\u0131m\u0131z, \u00fcmitlerimiz ve korkular\u0131m\u0131z hayat\u0131m\u0131z\u0131n \u00f6l\u00e7\u00fcs\u00fc olmu\u015ftur; i\u00e7inde bulundu\u011fumuz ko\u015fullar d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcncelerimize uymad\u0131\u011f\u0131 zaman bunlar bizim zorluklar\u0131m\u0131z olur.” Benjamin Franklin<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

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Benjamin Franklin bu s\u00f6z\u00fcyle bize olduk\u00e7a net bir ayna tutar: Hayat\u0131m\u0131z\u0131 belirleyen \u015fey \u00e7o\u011fu zaman ya\u015fad\u0131klar\u0131m\u0131z de\u011fil, ya\u015fad\u0131klar\u0131m\u0131za nas\u0131l bakt\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131zd\u0131r<\/strong>. \u00dcmitlerimiz bizi ileri ta\u015f\u0131rken, korkular\u0131m\u0131z bak\u0131\u015f a\u00e7\u0131m\u0131z\u0131 daralt\u0131r; bu ikisi birlikte hayat\u0131n s\u0131n\u0131rlar\u0131n\u0131 \u00e7izer. Ko\u015fullar, beklentilerimizle \u00f6rt\u00fc\u015fmedi\u011finde \u201czor\u201d olarak adland\u0131rd\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z durumlar ortaya \u00e7\u0131kar. Oysa \u00e7o\u011fu zorluk, ger\u00e7ekli\u011fin de\u011fil; d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnce kal\u0131plar\u0131m\u0131z\u0131n direncinden do\u011far<\/strong>. Bak\u0131\u015f a\u00e7\u0131m\u0131z s\u0131n\u0131rl\u0131ysa, hayat da bize s\u0131n\u0131rl\u0131 g\u00f6r\u00fcn\u00fcr.<\/p>\n

Bu fark\u0131ndal\u0131ktan yola \u00e7\u0131karak g\u00fcnl\u00fck hayatta uygulanabilecek pratik bir \u00f6neri \u015fudur: Zorland\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z bir durumla kar\u015f\u0131la\u015ft\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131zda kendinize \u015fu tek soruyu sorun: \u201cBu duruma benden ba\u015fka biri baksayd\u0131 ne g\u00f6rebilirdi?\u201d<\/strong> Bu basit ama g\u00fc\u00e7l\u00fc soru, zihni otomatik korku senaryolar\u0131ndan \u00e7\u0131kar\u0131r ve yeni olas\u0131l\u0131klar\u0131 g\u00f6r\u00fcn\u00fcr k\u0131lar. B\u00f6ylece sorunla de\u011fil, bak\u0131\u015f a\u00e7\u0131n\u0131zla \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmaya ba\u015flars\u0131n\u0131z<\/strong>. D\u00fczenli uyguland\u0131\u011f\u0131nda bu yakla\u015f\u0131m, d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnce esnekli\u011fini ve psikolojik dayan\u0131kl\u0131l\u0131\u011f\u0131 ciddi bi\u00e7imde art\u0131r\u0131r.<\/p>\n

\u00d6rne\u011fin planlad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z gibi gitmeyen bir i\u015f, ili\u015fki ya da hedef\u2026 \u0130lk anda bunu bir ba\u015far\u0131s\u0131zl\u0131k olarak etiketlemek \u00e7ok kolayd\u0131r. Oysa ayn\u0131 duruma daha geni\u015f bir perspektiften bakt\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131zda bunun bir \u00f6\u011frenme, y\u00f6n de\u011fi\u015ftirme ya da yeniden yap\u0131lanma f\u0131rsat\u0131 oldu\u011funu fark edebiliriz. Benjamin Franklin\u2019in i\u015faret etti\u011fi nokta tam da buras\u0131d\u0131r: Zorluk sand\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z \u015feyler \u00e7o\u011fu zaman, bak\u0131\u015f a\u00e7\u0131m\u0131z\u0131 b\u00fcy\u00fctmemiz i\u00e7in \u00f6n\u00fcm\u00fcze \u00e7\u0131kan \u00e7a\u011fr\u0131lard\u0131r.<\/em><\/strong> Biz bakmay\u0131 \u00f6\u011frendik\u00e7e, hayat da bize daha fazla alan a\u00e7ar.<\/p>\n

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Benjamin Franklin Kimdir?<\/h3>\n

Benjamin Franklin; bilim insan\u0131, yazar, filozof, mucit ve devlet adam\u0131 kimlikleriyle tan\u0131nan, Amerikan tarihinin en etkili d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcrlerinden biridir. Elektrik \u00fczerine yapt\u0131\u011f\u0131 \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmalar, \u00f6zg\u00fcrl\u00fck ve bireysel sorumluluk vurgusu, pratik bilgelik i\u00e7eren s\u00f6zleriyle d\u00fcnya d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnce tarihine y\u00f6n vermi\u015ftir. Franklin\u2019in \u00f6\u011fretilerinin merkezinde; ak\u0131l, deneyim, esneklik ve insan\u0131n kendini geli\u015ftirme sorumlulu\u011fu<\/strong> yer al\u0131r. Bug\u00fcn h\u00e2l\u00e2 motivasyon, ki\u015fisel geli\u015fim ve ya\u015fam felsefesi alanlar\u0131nda ilham vermeye devam etmektedir.<\/p>\n

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Ki\u015fisel Geli\u015fim \u00d6zl\u00fc S\u00f6zleri<\/a><\/p><\/blockquote>\n