{"id":26725,"date":"2017-08-09T22:06:48","date_gmt":"2017-08-09T22:06:48","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/e-motivasyon.net\/?p=26725"},"modified":"2026-03-19T07:32:47","modified_gmt":"2026-03-19T07:32:47","slug":"ask-sadece-karsiliksiz-sunuldugunda-deger-tasiyan-bir-armagandir-bulmak-icin-aramadiginiz-bir-seydir-dogru-zaman-geldiginde-o-sizi-bulacaktir-david-baird","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/e-motivasyon.net\/en\/ask-sadece-karsiliksiz-sunuldugunda-deger-tasiyan-bir-armagandir-bulmak-icin-aramadiginiz-bir-seydir-dogru-zaman-geldiginde-o-sizi-bulacaktir-david-baird.html","title":{"rendered":"\u201cLove is a gift that only has value when it's offered for free. It is something you do not seek to find. When the time is right, it will find you.\u201d David Baird"},"content":{"rendered":"

\u201cLove is a gift that only has value when it's offered for free. It is something you do not seek to find. When the time is right, it will find you.\u201d David Baird<\/em><\/strong><\/h3>\n

\""G\u00fczel<\/a><\/p>\n

\u201cA\u015fk, sadece kar\u015f\u0131l\u0131ks\u0131z sunuldu\u011funda de\u011fer ta\u015f\u0131yan bir arma\u011fand\u0131r. Bulmak i\u00e7in aramad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z bir \u015feydir. Do\u011fru zaman geldi\u011finde, o sizi bulacakt\u0131r.\u201d s\u00f6z\u00fcyle David Baird<\/span><\/span>, a\u015fk\u0131n \u00e7o\u011fu zaman yanl\u0131\u015f anla\u015f\u0131lan do\u011fas\u0131na dikkat \u00e7eker. Modern d\u00fcnyada a\u015fk, \u00e7o\u011fu kez ula\u015f\u0131lmas\u0131 gereken bir hedef, tamamlanmas\u0131 gereken bir eksiklik ya da planlanabilir bir s\u00fcre\u00e7 gibi g\u00f6r\u00fcl\u00fcr. Oysa bu s\u00f6z, a\u015fk\u0131n bir \u00e7aba \u00fcr\u00fcn\u00fc de\u011fil, bir varolu\u015f h\u00e2li<\/strong> oldu\u011funu hat\u0131rlat\u0131r. Ger\u00e7ek sevgi; beklentiyle s\u0131k\u0131\u015ft\u0131r\u0131ld\u0131\u011f\u0131nda de\u011fil, \u00f6zg\u00fcr b\u0131rak\u0131ld\u0131\u011f\u0131nda b\u00fcy\u00fcr. \u0130nsan, sevgiyi zorla arad\u0131k\u00e7a onu nesnele\u015ftirir; fakat kendisi olmaya izin verdi\u011finde, yani i\u00e7sel b\u00fct\u00fcnl\u00fc\u011f\u00fcne yakla\u015ft\u0131\u011f\u0131nda, sevgi do\u011fal bir \u00e7ekim gibi hayat\u0131na dahil olur. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc a\u015fk, sahip olunacak bir \u015feyden \u00e7ok, payla\u015f\u0131labilecek bir i\u00e7 zenginliktir<\/strong>.<\/p>\n

Bu bak\u0131\u015f a\u00e7\u0131s\u0131ndan ilham alarak g\u00fcnl\u00fck ya\u015famda uygulanabilecek basit ama g\u00fc\u00e7l\u00fc bir \u00f6neri \u015fudur: Sevilmeyi beklemek yerine, k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck ve kar\u015f\u0131l\u0131ks\u0131z iyilikler sunmay\u0131 al\u0131\u015fkanl\u0131k h\u00e2line getirin.<\/strong> Bir te\u015fekk\u00fcr mesaj\u0131 g\u00f6ndermek, birini ger\u00e7ekten dinlemek ya da hi\u00e7bir \u00e7\u0131kar g\u00f6zetmeden destek olmak\u2026 Bunlar romantik a\u015fk\u0131n \u00f6tesinde, sevginin temel frekans\u0131n\u0131 hayat\u0131m\u0131za ta\u015f\u0131r. \u0130nsan zihni \u00e7o\u011fu zaman \u201cNe alaca\u011f\u0131m?\u201d sorusuna odaklan\u0131r; oysa sevgiyi d\u00f6n\u00fc\u015ft\u00fcren soru \u201cNe verebilirim?\u201ddir. \u0130lgin\u00e7 olan \u015fudur: Beklenti azald\u0131k\u00e7a ili\u015fkilerdeki bask\u0131 \u00e7\u00f6z\u00fcl\u00fcr ve ba\u011flar daha do\u011fal bir \u015fekilde g\u00fc\u00e7lenir. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc insanlar, kendilerini zorunda hissetmedikleri yerde daha samimi olurlar.<\/p>\n

G\u00fcnl\u00fck hayatta bunu s\u0131k\u00e7a g\u00f6r\u00fcr\u00fcz. Hayat\u0131na odaklanan, kendini geli\u015ftiren ve i\u00e7 huzurunu kurmaya \u00e7al\u0131\u015fan birinin, hi\u00e7 planlamad\u0131\u011f\u0131 bir anda anlaml\u0131 bir ili\u015fkiyle kar\u015f\u0131la\u015fmas\u0131 tesad\u00fcf de\u011fildir. Sevgi \u00e7o\u011fu zaman arayan\u0131 de\u011fil, haz\u0131r olan\u0131<\/strong> bulur. Bu nedenle a\u015fk\u0131 kovalamak yerine ya\u015fam\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 derinle\u015ftirmek, ili\u015fkileri h\u0131zland\u0131rmaya \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmak yerine onlar\u0131 olgunla\u015fmaya b\u0131rakmak daha ger\u00e7ek bir yol sunar. Sonu\u00e7ta a\u015fk, kap\u0131y\u0131 zorlayanlara de\u011fil; kap\u0131y\u0131 a\u00e7\u0131k tutmay\u0131 bilenlere gelir. Ger\u00e7ek sevgi, arand\u0131\u011f\u0131nda de\u011fil; insan kendisiyle bar\u0131\u015ft\u0131\u011f\u0131nda hayat\u0131na sessizce dahil olur.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

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David Baird Kimdir?<\/strong><\/h3>\n

David Baird (1960\u2013 ) \u00e7a\u011fda\u015f motivasyon ve ki\u015fisel geli\u015fim alan\u0131nda tan\u0131nan yazarlardan biridir. \u0130nsan ili\u015fkileri, anlam aray\u0131\u015f\u0131 ve i\u00e7sel fark\u0131ndal\u0131k \u00fczerine yazd\u0131\u011f\u0131 eserlerle bilinir. \u00d6zl\u00fc s\u00f6zleri ve sade anlat\u0131m\u0131yla \u00f6zellikle sevgi, ya\u015fam amac\u0131 ve ki\u015fisel d\u00f6n\u00fc\u015f\u00fcm konular\u0131nda okuyuculara ilham veren Baird, karma\u015f\u0131k duygusal s\u00fcre\u00e7leri anla\u015f\u0131l\u0131r bir dille a\u00e7\u0131klamas\u0131yla dikkat \u00e7eker. Yaz\u0131lar\u0131nda insan\u0131n mutlulu\u011fu d\u0131\u015f ko\u015fullarda de\u011fil, i\u00e7sel tutumlar\u0131nda bulabilece\u011fi fikrini s\u0131k\u00e7a vurgular.<\/p>\n

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A\u015fk ve Sevgi \u00dczerine En \u0130yi \u00d6zl\u00fc S\u00f6zler<\/a><\/p><\/blockquote>\n