{"id":25096,"date":"2017-02-28T16:29:05","date_gmt":"2017-02-28T16:29:05","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/e-motivasyon.net\/?p=25096"},"modified":"2026-04-07T14:02:37","modified_gmt":"2026-04-07T14:02:37","slug":"zordur-insanla-yasamak-cunku-zordur-susmak-friedrich-nietzsche","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/e-motivasyon.net\/en\/zordur-insanla-yasamak-cunku-zordur-susmak-friedrich-nietzsche.html","title":{"rendered":"\u201cIt is difficult to live with people; because it is difficult to be silent.\u201d Friedrich Nietzsche"},"content":{"rendered":"

\u201cIt is difficult to live with people; because it is difficult to be silent.\u201d Friedrich Nietzsche<\/strong><\/em><\/h3>\n

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\u201cZordur insanla ya\u015famak; \u00e7\u00fcnk\u00fc zordur susmak.\u201d s\u00f6z\u00fc, Friedrich Nietzsche\u2019nin insan ili\u015fkilerinin derin psikolojisini yal\u0131n ama \u00e7arp\u0131c\u0131 bir bi\u00e7imde ortaya koydu\u011fu g\u00fc\u00e7l\u00fc bir ifadedir. \u0130nsanlarla ya\u015famak yaln\u0131zca ileti\u015fim kurmak de\u011fil; ayn\u0131 zamanda ne zaman konu\u015faca\u011f\u0131m\u0131z\u0131 ve ne zaman susaca\u011f\u0131m\u0131z\u0131 bilmeyi gerektirir. \u00c7o\u011fu \u00e7at\u0131\u015fma yanl\u0131\u015f s\u00f6zlerden de\u011fil, zaman\u0131 yanl\u0131\u015f se\u00e7ilmi\u015f s\u00f6zlerden<\/strong> do\u011far. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc insan zihni d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcncelerini ifade etmek isterken, duygular \u00e7o\u011fu zaman sab\u0131rdan daha h\u0131zl\u0131 hareket eder. Nietzsche burada bize, ili\u015fkilerdeki ger\u00e7ek olgunlu\u011fun s\u00fcrekli konu\u015fmak de\u011fil, gerekti\u011finde bilin\u00e7li bir sessizli\u011fi se\u00e7ebilmek oldu\u011funu hat\u0131rlat\u0131r. Susmak bazen geri \u00e7ekilmek de\u011fil, ili\u015fkiyi koruyan bilin\u00e7li bir g\u00fc\u00e7t\u00fcr.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Bu s\u00f6zden ilhamla g\u00fcnl\u00fck hayatta uygulanabilecek pratik \u00f6neri \u015fudur: \u201c10 saniyelik bilin\u00e7li duraklama kural\u0131.\u201d \u00d6zellikle tart\u0131\u015fma, ele\u015ftiri ya da duygusal yo\u011funluk anlar\u0131nda cevap vermeden \u00f6nce zihinsel olarak on saniye beklemek b\u00fcy\u00fck fark yarat\u0131r. Bu k\u0131sa duraklama, tepki vermek yerine yan\u0131t vermemizi sa\u011flar. G\u00fcnl\u00fck ya\u015famda motivasyon ve sa\u011fl\u0131kl\u0131 ileti\u015fim a\u00e7\u0131s\u0131ndan bu al\u0131\u015fkanl\u0131k g\u00fc\u00e7l\u00fc bir d\u00f6n\u00fc\u015f\u00fcm yarat\u0131r. Duygular\u0131n ilk dalgas\u0131 ge\u00e7tikten sonra kurulan ileti\u015fim, daha yap\u0131c\u0131 ve daha insanc\u0131ld\u0131r.<\/strong> B\u00f6ylece hem kendimizi hem de kar\u015f\u0131m\u0131zdaki ki\u015fiyi incitme ihtimali azal\u0131r.<\/p>\n

\u00d6rne\u011fin i\u015f yerinde yap\u0131lan bir ele\u015ftiri kar\u015f\u0131s\u0131nda hemen savunmaya ge\u00e7en biriyle, k\u0131sa bir s\u00fcre susup d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnmeyi se\u00e7en biri aras\u0131nda b\u00fcy\u00fck bir fark olu\u015fur. \u0130lk ki\u015fi tart\u0131\u015fmay\u0131 b\u00fcy\u00fct\u00fcrken, ikinci ki\u015fi ili\u015fkiyi g\u00fc\u00e7lendirme f\u0131rsat\u0131 yakalar. Nietzsche\u2019nin s\u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fcn \u00f6z\u00fc tam da burada ortaya \u00e7\u0131kar: insan ili\u015fkilerinin zorlu\u011fu insanlar\u0131n varl\u0131\u011f\u0131ndan de\u011fil, duygular\u0131m\u0131z\u0131 y\u00f6netmenin g\u00fc\u00e7l\u00fc\u011f\u00fcnden kaynaklan\u0131r. Bazen s\u00f6ylemedi\u011fimiz bir s\u00f6z, s\u00f6yledi\u011fimiz en bilge c\u00fcmleden daha g\u00fc\u00e7l\u00fcd\u00fcr ve ger\u00e7ek ileti\u015fim \u00e7o\u011fu zaman bilin\u00e7li sessizlikte ba\u015flar.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

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Who is Friedrich Nietzsche?<\/strong><\/h3>\n

Friedrich Nietzsche (1844\u20131900) Alman filozof, k\u00fclt\u00fcr ele\u015ftirmeni ve yazard\u0131r. Ahlak, bireysellik, irade g\u00fcc\u00fc ve insan do\u011fas\u0131 \u00fczerine geli\u015ftirdi\u011fi \u00f6zg\u00fcn d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcncelerle modern felsefenin en etkili isimlerinden biri kabul edilir. \u201cB\u00f6yle Buyurdu Zerd\u00fc\u015ft\u201d ba\u015fta olmak \u00fczere eserlerinde insan\u0131n kendini a\u015fma s\u00fcrecini, de\u011ferlerin sorgulanmas\u0131n\u0131 ve bireysel fark\u0131ndal\u0131\u011f\u0131 merkeze alan fikirler ortaya koymu\u015ftur.<\/p>\n

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\u0130nsanlara Dair \u00d6zl\u00fc S\u00f6zler ve \u00d6zdeyi\u015fler<\/a><\/p><\/blockquote>\n