{"id":25039,"date":"2017-02-15T19:12:02","date_gmt":"2017-02-15T19:12:02","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/e-motivasyon.net\/?p=25039"},"modified":"2026-04-23T13:43:27","modified_gmt":"2026-04-23T13:43:27","slug":"dilini-terbiye-etmeden-once-yuregini-terbiye-et-cunku-soz-yurekten-gelir-dilden-cikar-mevlana","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/e-motivasyon.net\/en\/dilini-terbiye-etmeden-once-yuregini-terbiye-et-cunku-soz-yurekten-gelir-dilden-cikar-mevlana.html","title":{"rendered":"\u201cBefore you discipline your tongue, discipline your heart; Because the word comes from the heart, out of the language." Mevlana"},"content":{"rendered":"

\u201cBefore you discipline your tongue, discipline your heart; Because the word comes from the heart, out of the language." Mevlana<\/strong><\/em><\/h3>\n

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Mevlana Celaleddin Rumi<\/span><\/span> taraf\u0131ndan dile getirilen bu s\u00f6z, insan\u0131n d\u0131\u015f d\u00fcnyaya yans\u0131tt\u0131\u011f\u0131 her \u015feyin asl\u0131nda i\u00e7 d\u00fcnyas\u0131n\u0131n bir yans\u0131mas\u0131 oldu\u011funu g\u00fc\u00e7l\u00fc bir \u015fekilde hat\u0131rlat\u0131r. Dil, \u00e7o\u011fu zaman kontrol etmeye \u00e7al\u0131\u015ft\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z bir ara\u00e7t\u0131r; ancak as\u0131l kaynak y\u00fcrektir<\/strong>. E\u011fer kalpte \u00f6fke, k\u0131rg\u0131nl\u0131k ya da kibir varsa, en s\u00fcsl\u00fc kelimeler bile bu duygular\u0131 gizleyemez. Bu nedenle ger\u00e7ek ileti\u015fim, kelimeleri d\u00fczeltmekten \u00f6nce duygular\u0131 d\u00f6n\u00fc\u015ft\u00fcrmekle ba\u015flar. Mevlana burada bize \u015funu f\u0131s\u0131ldar: \u201cS\u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fc g\u00fczelle\u015ftirmek istiyorsan, \u00f6nce kalbini g\u00fczelle\u015ftir.\u201d<\/strong> \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc s\u00f6z, yaln\u0131zca bir ta\u015f\u0131y\u0131c\u0131d\u0131r; y\u00fck\u00fcn\u00fc belirleyen ise y\u00fcre\u011fin kendisidir.<\/p>\n

Bu s\u00f6zden ilhamla g\u00fcnl\u00fck hayatta uygulayabilece\u011fimiz basit ama etkili bir pratik \u00f6neri \u015fu olabilir: Birine cevap vermeden \u00f6nce kendinize \u015fu soruyu sorun: \u201c\u015eu an ne hissediyorum?\u201d<\/strong> E\u011fer i\u00e7inde bulundu\u011funuz duygu \u00f6fke ya da k\u0131rg\u0131nl\u0131ksa, konu\u015fmay\u0131 birka\u00e7 dakika erteleyin. Bu k\u0131sa \u201cduygu fark\u0131ndal\u0131\u011f\u0131 molas\u0131\u201d, s\u00f6yleyece\u011finiz s\u00f6zlerin y\u00f6n\u00fcn\u00fc tamamen de\u011fi\u015ftirebilir. Bizler \u00e7o\u011fu zaman kelimelerimizi kontrol etmeye \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131r\u0131z; oysa duygular\u0131m\u0131z\u0131 fark etmek, kelimeleri zaten kendili\u011finden d\u00f6n\u00fc\u015ft\u00fcr\u00fcr.<\/strong> Bu k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck al\u0131\u015fkanl\u0131k, hem ili\u015fkilerinizde daha sa\u011fl\u0131kl\u0131 bir ileti\u015fim kurman\u0131z\u0131 sa\u011flar hem de i\u00e7sel huzurunuzu g\u00fc\u00e7lendirir.<\/p>\n

Hayat\u0131n i\u00e7inden bir \u00f6rnek d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnelim: Yo\u011fun ve stresli bir g\u00fcn\u00fcn ard\u0131ndan, en yak\u0131n\u0131n\u0131zdaki insana sert bir s\u00f6z s\u00f6yledi\u011finiz anlar\u0131 hat\u0131rlay\u0131n. O s\u00f6z, ger\u00e7ekten o ki\u015fiye mi aitti, yoksa g\u00fcn\u00fcn birikmi\u015f duygular\u0131na m\u0131? \u0130\u015fte tam burada Mevlana\u2019n\u0131n i\u015faret etti\u011fi ger\u00e7ek devreye girer. E\u011fer o an kalbinizi sakinle\u015ftirebilseydiniz, belki de ayn\u0131 c\u00fcmle \u00e7ok daha yumu\u015fak bir tona d\u00f6n\u00fc\u015fecekti. Unutmay\u0131n: Dilinizden \u00e7\u0131kan her s\u00f6z, y\u00fcre\u011finizin aynas\u0131d\u0131r; aynay\u0131 temizlemeden yans\u0131man\u0131n de\u011fi\u015fmesini beklemek sadece bir yan\u0131lsamad\u0131r.<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n

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Mevlana Celaleddin Rumi Kimdir?<\/strong><\/h3>\n

Mevlana Celaleddin Rumi (1207-1273) \u0130ran as\u0131ll\u0131 b\u00fcy\u00fck bir \u0130slam alimi, mutasavv\u0131f, \u015fair ve d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcrd\u00fcr. Anadolu\u2019da ya\u015fam\u0131\u015f ve \u00f6zellikle sevgi, ho\u015fg\u00f6r\u00fc ve insan\u0131n i\u00e7sel yolculu\u011fu \u00fczerine geli\u015ftirdi\u011fi \u00f6\u011fretilerle t\u00fcm d\u00fcnyada derin bir etki b\u0131rakm\u0131\u015ft\u0131r. En bilinen eseri Mesnevi olan Mevlana, insan\u0131n kendini tan\u0131mas\u0131 ve kalbini ar\u0131nd\u0131rmas\u0131 gerekti\u011fini vurgulayan evrensel mesajlar\u0131yla bug\u00fcn h\u00e2l\u00e2 ilham vermeye devam etmektedir.<\/p>\n

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