{"id":24826,"date":"2023-04-24T12:07:06","date_gmt":"2023-04-24T12:07:06","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.ozdeyis.net\/?p=24826"},"modified":"2026-07-31T12:44:20","modified_gmt":"2026-07-31T12:44:20","slug":"kusur-bulmak-icin-bakma-birine-bulmak-icin-bakarsan-bulursun-kusur-ortmeyi-marifet-edin-kendine-iste-o-zaman-kusursuz-olursun-mevlana","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/e-motivasyon.net\/en\/kusur-bulmak-icin-bakma-birine-bulmak-icin-bakarsan-bulursun-kusur-ortmeyi-marifet-edin-kendine-iste-o-zaman-kusursuz-olursun-mevlana.html","title":{"rendered":""Defects on the look find one, you find you look to find the clipboard. Be good at covering faults for yourself, then you will be perfect.\u201d Mevlana"},"content":{"rendered":"

“Kusur bulmak i\u00e7in bakma birine, bulmak i\u00e7in bakarsan bulursun. Kusur \u00f6rtmeyi marifet edin kendine, i\u015fte o zaman kusursuz olursun.” Mevlana<\/em><\/strong><\/h3>\n

Mevlana S\u00f6zleri<\/strong><\/a><\/p>\n

\""Kusur<\/a><\/p>\n

Bu s\u00f6z, insan\u0131n bak\u0131\u015f niyetinin, g\u00f6rd\u00fc\u011f\u00fc d\u00fcnyay\u0131 nas\u0131l \u015fekillendirdi\u011fini \u00e7arp\u0131c\u0131 bi\u00e7imde anlat\u0131r. Mevl\u00e2n\u00e2\u2019ya g\u00f6re mesele ba\u015fkalar\u0131n\u0131n kusurlu olup olmamas\u0131 de\u011fildir; mesele bizim neyi aramak i\u00e7in bakt\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131zd\u0131r<\/strong>. Kusur arayan bir zihin, en temiz niyetin i\u00e7inde bile bir p\u00fcr\u00fcz bulur. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc kusur, \u00e7o\u011fu zaman kar\u015f\u0131m\u0131zdaki ki\u015fide de\u011fil, bak\u0131\u015f a\u00e7\u0131m\u0131zda<\/strong> ba\u015flar. Oysa kusur \u00f6rtmeyi bir erdem h\u00e2line getiren ki\u015fi, hem ili\u015fkilerini hem de i\u00e7 d\u00fcnyas\u0131n\u0131 daha sakin, daha insanc\u0131l bir zemine ta\u015f\u0131r. Mevl\u00e2n\u00e2 burada ahl\u00e2k\u00ee bir \u00fcst\u00fcnl\u00fc\u011f\u00fc de\u011fil, ruhsal bir olgunlu\u011fu<\/strong> i\u015faret eder.<\/p>\n

Bu s\u00f6zden ilhamla g\u00fcnl\u00fck hayatta uygulanabilecek basit ama etkili bir \u00f6neri \u015fudur: Bir g\u00fcn boyunca, sizi rahats\u0131z eden bir davran\u0131\u015f\u0131 fark etti\u011finizde bunu hemen dillendirmeyin.<\/strong> Bunun yerine kendinize \u015fu soruyu sorun: \u201c\u015eu an kusur mu ar\u0131yorum, yoksa anlamaya m\u0131 \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131yorum?\u201d E\u011fer ger\u00e7ekten yap\u0131c\u0131 bir katk\u0131 sunmayacaksan\u0131z, susmay\u0131 ve g\u00f6zlemeyi se\u00e7in. Bu k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck fark\u0131ndal\u0131k prati\u011fi, zamanla yarg\u0131 refleksini zay\u0131flat\u0131r ve empati kas\u0131n\u0131 g\u00fc\u00e7lendirir.<\/strong><\/p>\n

\u00d6rne\u011fin i\u015f ortam\u0131nda ya da aile i\u00e7inde birinin hatas\u0131n\u0131 kolayca g\u00f6rebiliriz. Ama ayn\u0131 hatay\u0131 \u00f6rten bir anlay\u0131\u015f g\u00f6sterdi\u011fimizde, ili\u015fkilerin nas\u0131l yumu\u015fad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 fark ederiz. Mevl\u00e2n\u00e2\u2019n\u0131n i\u015faret etti\u011fi kusursuzluk, hatas\u0131z olmak de\u011fildir; insan\u0131 insan h\u00e2liyle kabul edebilmektir<\/strong>. Ba\u015fkalar\u0131n\u0131n kusurunu \u00f6rtmeyi ba\u015fard\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z \u00f6l\u00e7\u00fcde, kendi i\u00e7imizdeki sertli\u011fi de yumu\u015fat\u0131r ve ger\u00e7ek anlamda olgunla\u015f\u0131r\u0131z.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

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Mevlana Kimdir?<\/h3>\n

Mevl\u00e2n\u00e2 Cel\u00e2ledd\u00een-i R\u00fbm\u00ee, 13. y\u00fczy\u0131lda ya\u015fam\u0131\u015f b\u00fcy\u00fck bir mutasavv\u0131f, \u015fair ve d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcrd\u00fcr. Sevgi, ho\u015fg\u00f6r\u00fc, insan\u0131n kendini bilmesi ve d\u00f6n\u00fc\u015f\u00fcm temalar\u0131 etraf\u0131nda \u015fekillenen eserleriyle yaln\u0131zca \u0130slam d\u00fcnyas\u0131n\u0131 de\u011fil, t\u00fcm insanl\u0131\u011f\u0131 etkilemi\u015ftir. En bilinen eseri\u00a0Mesnev\u00ee, insan\u0131n i\u00e7 yolculu\u011funu ve olgunla\u015fma s\u00fcrecini derin metaforlarla anlat\u0131r. Mevl\u00e2n\u00e2\u2019n\u0131n s\u00f6zleri, y\u00fczy\u0131llar ge\u00e7se de harekete ge\u00e7iren, umut a\u015f\u0131layan ve sorumluluk alan bir ya\u015fam felsefesini canl\u0131 tutmaya devam eder.<\/p>\n

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\u201cIf you're lucky, you can even learn from an ant. If you don't have it, it would be against you if the whole world was laid before you." Mevlana<\/a><\/p><\/blockquote>\n