{"id":24694,"date":"2017-01-26T00:59:43","date_gmt":"2017-01-25T22:59:43","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.ozdeyis.net\/?p=24694"},"modified":"2026-07-29T20:16:45","modified_gmt":"2026-07-29T20:16:45","slug":"birine-kim-oldugunu-sorarsan-ona-senin-de-kim-oldugunu-bilme-hakki-verirsin-arthur-schopenhauer","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/e-motivasyon.net\/en\/birine-kim-oldugunu-sorarsan-ona-senin-de-kim-oldugunu-bilme-hakki-verirsin-arthur-schopenhauer.html","title":{"rendered":"\u201cIf you ask someone who they are, you give them the right to know who you are too.\u201d Arthur Schopenhauer"},"content":{"rendered":"

\u201cIf you ask someone who they are, you give them the right to know who you are too.\u201d Arthur Schopenhauer<\/em><\/strong><\/h3>\n

\u0130nsan ili\u015fkileri tek tarafl\u0131 de\u011fil, kar\u015f\u0131l\u0131kl\u0131l\u0131k \u00fczerine kuruludur. Arthur Schopenhauer<\/strong>‘\u0131n \u201cBirine kim oldu\u011funu sorarsan, ona senin de kim oldu\u011funu bilme hakk\u0131 verirsin.\u201d<\/em> s\u00f6z\u00fc, ger\u00e7ek ileti\u015fimin kar\u015f\u0131l\u0131kl\u0131 a\u00e7\u0131kl\u0131k ve samimiyet gerektirdi\u011fini anlat\u0131r. Bir insan\u0131 tan\u0131mak istiyorsak, onun da bizi tan\u0131mas\u0131na izin vermeyi g\u00f6ze almal\u0131y\u0131z. Sadece soru soran ama kendisi hakk\u0131nda hi\u00e7bir \u015fey payla\u015fmayan biriyle derin bir ba\u011f kurmak kolay de\u011fildir. G\u00fcven, merak\u0131n kar\u015f\u0131l\u0131kl\u0131 oldu\u011fu ve iki taraf\u0131n da kendini oldu\u011fu gibi ortaya koyabildi\u011fi ortamlarda filizlenir.<\/strong> Bu nedenle sa\u011fl\u0131kl\u0131 ili\u015fkiler, yaln\u0131zca dinlemekten de\u011fil, gerekti\u011finde kendimizi d\u00fcr\u00fcst\u00e7e ifade edebilmekten de beslenir.<\/p>\n

Bu d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnceyi g\u00fcnl\u00fck ya\u015famda uygulaman\u0131n etkili bir yolu, yeni tan\u0131\u015ft\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z biriyle sohbet ederken “kar\u015f\u0131l\u0131kl\u0131 payla\u015f\u0131m”<\/strong> ilkesini benimsemektir. Kar\u015f\u0131n\u0131zdaki ki\u015fiye anlaml\u0131 bir soru sorduktan sonra, ayn\u0131 konuda siz de k\u0131sa ve samimi bir payla\u015f\u0131m yap\u0131n. \u00d6rne\u011fin onun hobilerini sorduktan sonra kendi ilgi alanlar\u0131n\u0131zdan da bahsedin. \u0130leti\u015fim, sorguya benzedi\u011finde mesafe olu\u015fturur; kar\u015f\u0131l\u0131kl\u0131 payla\u015f\u0131ma d\u00f6n\u00fc\u015ft\u00fc\u011f\u00fcnde ise g\u00fcven ve yak\u0131nl\u0131k in\u015fa eder.<\/strong><\/p>\n

\u00d6rne\u011fin i\u015f yerinde yeni ba\u015flayan bir \u00e7al\u0131\u015fma arkada\u015f\u0131n\u0131za s\u00fcrekli sorular y\u00f6neltti\u011finizi d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcn. E\u011fer siz kendiniz hakk\u0131nda hi\u00e7bir \u015fey payla\u015fmazsan\u0131z, o ki\u015fi kendini bir m\u00fclakatta hissedebilir. Buna kar\u015f\u0131l\u0131k, siz de deneyimlerinizi, ilgi alanlar\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 ya da k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck ya\u015fam hik\u00e2yelerinizi payla\u015ft\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131zda sohbet do\u011fal bir ak\u0131\u015f kazan\u0131r. B\u00f6ylece iki yabanc\u0131 olmaktan \u00e7\u0131k\u0131p birbirini anlamaya \u00e7al\u0131\u015fan iki insana d\u00f6n\u00fc\u015f\u00fcrs\u00fcn\u00fcz. Ger\u00e7ek tan\u0131\u015fma, yaln\u0131zca kar\u015f\u0131m\u0131zdaki insan\u0131 tan\u0131makla de\u011fil; onun bizi de tan\u0131mas\u0131na cesaret edebildi\u011fimiz anda ba\u015flar.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

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Arthur Schopenhauer Kimdir?<\/strong><\/h2>\n

Arthur Schopenhauer (1788-1860) Alman filozofudur. 19. y\u00fczy\u0131l\u0131n en etkili d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcrlerinden biri olarak kabul edilen Schopenhauer, insan do\u011fas\u0131, irade, mutluluk ve ya\u015fam\u0131n anlam\u0131 \u00fczerine geli\u015ftirdi\u011fi fikirlerle felsefe tarihinde \u00f6nemli bir yer edinmi\u015ftir. En \u00f6nemli eseri “\u0130sten\u00e7 ve Tasar\u0131m Olarak D\u00fcnya (Die Welt als Wille und Vorstellung)”, Bat\u0131 felsefesinin klasik yap\u0131tlar\u0131 aras\u0131nda g\u00f6sterilir. Karamsar felsefesiyle tan\u0131nmas\u0131na ra\u011fmen, sanat\u0131n, merhametin ve kendini tan\u0131man\u0131n insan ya\u015fam\u0131ndaki d\u00f6n\u00fc\u015ft\u00fcr\u00fcc\u00fc g\u00fcc\u00fcn\u00fc de vurgulam\u0131\u015ft\u0131r. D\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnceleri, Friedrich Nietzsche, Sigmund Freud ve bir\u00e7ok modern d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcr \u00fczerinde derin etkiler b\u0131rakm\u0131\u015f, g\u00fcn\u00fcm\u00fczde de felsefe ve psikoloji alan\u0131nda ilgiyle okunmaya devam etmektedir.<\/p>\n

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\u0130nsanlara Dair \u00d6zl\u00fc S\u00f6zler ve \u00d6zdeyi\u015fler<\/a><\/p><\/blockquote>\n