{"id":23938,"date":"2016-12-28T23:38:43","date_gmt":"2016-12-28T21:38:43","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.ozdeyis.net\/?p=23826"},"modified":"2026-06-27T14:20:50","modified_gmt":"2026-06-27T14:20:50","slug":"bes-dakika-sonra-hayatta-olacagimizin-bir-garantisi-yok-o-yuzden-bu-gune-kadar-kirdigin-kisileri-ara-ve-bir-daha-kufur-et-charles-bukowski","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/e-motivasyon.net\/en\/bes-dakika-sonra-hayatta-olacagimizin-bir-garantisi-yok-o-yuzden-bu-gune-kadar-kirdigin-kisileri-ara-ve-bir-daha-kufur-et-charles-bukowski.html","title":{"rendered":"\u201cThere is no guarantee that we will be alive in five minutes. So call the people you hurt so far and curse again.\u201d Charles Bukowski"},"content":{"rendered":"

“Be\u015f dakika sonra hayatta olaca\u011f\u0131m\u0131z\u0131n bir garantisi yok. O y\u00fczden bu g\u00fcne kadar k\u0131rd\u0131\u011f\u0131n ki\u015fileri ara ve bir daha k\u00fcf\u00fcr et.” Charles Bukowski<\/a><\/strong><\/em><\/span><\/h3>\n

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\u201cBe\u015f dakika sonra hayatta olaca\u011f\u0131m\u0131z\u0131n bir garantisi yok. O y\u00fczden bu g\u00fcne kadar k\u0131rd\u0131\u011f\u0131n ki\u015fileri ara ve bir daha k\u00fcf\u00fcr et.\u201d<\/strong> s\u00f6z\u00fc, Charles Bukowski<\/strong>\u2019nin hayata kar\u015f\u0131 filtresiz, sars\u0131c\u0131 ve d\u00fcr\u00fcst bak\u0131\u015f\u0131n\u0131 ta\u015f\u0131r. \u0130lk bak\u0131\u015fta provokatif g\u00f6r\u00fcnen bu ifade, asl\u0131nda \u00f6l\u00fcml\u00fcl\u00fck bilinci<\/strong> with sahicilik \u00e7a\u011fr\u0131s\u0131<\/strong>d\u0131r. Bukowski burada, zaman\u0131 ertelemememizi s\u00f6yler; k\u0131rd\u0131klar\u0131m\u0131zla y\u00fczle\u015fmeyi, duygular\u0131 s\u00fcsleyip saklamadan ifade etmeyi hat\u0131rlat\u0131r. \u201cBir daha k\u00fcf\u00fcr et\u201d ifadesi, hakaretin kendisini de\u011fil, maskeleri indirmeyi, i\u00e7imizden geldi\u011fi gibi olmay\u0131 ve hayat\u0131 steril kal\u0131plara hapsetmemeyi<\/strong> temsil eder. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc yar\u0131n\u0131n garantisi yokken, yar\u0131m kalm\u0131\u015f s\u00f6zler ve bast\u0131r\u0131lm\u0131\u015f duygular insan\u0131n i\u00e7inde a\u011f\u0131rl\u0131k yapar.<\/p>\n

Bu s\u00f6zden ilhamla g\u00fcnl\u00fck hayatta uygulayabilece\u011fimiz tek bir pratik \u00f6neri var: Ertelenmi\u015f bir duyguyu bug\u00fcn dile getirin.<\/strong> Uzun s\u00fcredir aramad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z, k\u0131r\u0131ld\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z ya da k\u0131rd\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z birini se\u00e7in ve k\u0131sa, d\u00fcr\u00fcst bir mesaj at\u0131n. S\u00fcsl\u00fc c\u00fcmlelere gerek yok; i\u00e7ten, net ve ger\u00e7ek olun. Bu bir \u00f6z\u00fcr, bir sitem ya da bir te\u015fekk\u00fcr olabilir. Biz \u00e7o\u011fu zaman \u201cdo\u011fru an\u201d\u0131 bekleriz; oysa Bukowski\u2019nin hat\u0131rlatt\u0131\u011f\u0131 \u015fey \u015fudur: An, \u00e7o\u011fu zaman tam da \u015fu and\u0131r.<\/strong> Duygular ifade edildi\u011finde y\u00fck olmaktan \u00e7\u0131kar, ili\u015fki ya onar\u0131l\u0131r ya da netle\u015fir.<\/p>\n

Hayat\u0131n sertli\u011fiyle y\u00fczle\u015fmi\u015f bir yazar olarak Charles Bukowski<\/strong>, bize incelikli olmay\u0131 de\u011fil; ger\u00e7ek olmay\u0131<\/strong> \u00f6\u011fretir. Bir arkada\u015f\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 aray\u0131p \u201cSeni k\u0131rd\u0131m\u201d demek, y\u0131llard\u0131r i\u00e7inizde tuttu\u011funuz bir c\u00fcmleyi pat diye s\u00f6ylemek ya da art\u0131k rol yapmamak\u2026 Bunlar\u0131n hepsi ya\u015fad\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z\u0131 hissettirir. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc hayat k\u0131sa de\u011fil belki, ama belirsiz; bu y\u00fczden ertelenen her s\u00f6z, insan\u0131n kendi i\u00e7inden eksilen bir par\u00e7ad\u0131r.<\/strong><\/em> Samimiyet bazen rahats\u0131z edicidir, ama \u00f6zg\u00fcrle\u015ftirici olan da tam olarak budur.<\/strong><\/p>\n

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Charles Bukowski Kimdir?<\/strong><\/h3>\n

Charles Bukowski, 1920\u20131994 y\u0131llar\u0131 aras\u0131nda ya\u015fam\u0131\u015f Amerikal\u0131 \u015fair, romanc\u0131 ve \u00f6yk\u00fcc\u00fcd\u00fcr. Hayat\u0131n kenar\u0131nda kalan insanlar\u0131n d\u00fcnyas\u0131n\u0131, alkol\u00fc, yaln\u0131zl\u0131\u011f\u0131, \u00f6fkeyi ve \u00e7\u0131plak ger\u00e7ekli\u011fi sans\u00fcrs\u00fcz bir dille anlatmas\u0131yla tan\u0131n\u0131r. Postane<\/em>, Factotum<\/em> . Kad\u0131nlar<\/em> gibi eserleriyle geni\u015f bir okur kitlesine ula\u015fm\u0131\u015ft\u0131r. Bukowski s\u00f6zleri, edebi zarafetten \u00e7ok d\u00fcr\u00fcstl\u00fc\u011f\u00fc ve ham ger\u00e7e\u011fi merkeze al\u0131r. Onu \u00f6zg\u00fcn k\u0131lan, insan\u0131n karanl\u0131k yanlar\u0131n\u0131 y\u00fcceltmeden ama saklamadan yazabilmesidir. Bukowski\u2019ye g\u00f6re ya\u015fam, cilalanacak bir vitrin de\u011fil; oldu\u011fu gibi ya\u015fanacak bir deneyimdir.<\/p>\n

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"Maybe it's the ones you think you've lost, the ones you got rid of." Charles Bukowski<\/a><\/p><\/blockquote>\n