{"id":23938,"date":"2016-12-28T23:38:43","date_gmt":"2016-12-28T21:38:43","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.ozdeyis.net\/?p=23826"},"modified":"2026-02-08T19:24:46","modified_gmt":"2026-02-08T19:24:46","slug":"bes-dakika-sonra-hayatta-olacagimizin-bir-garantisi-yok-o-yuzden-bu-gune-kadar-kirdigin-kisileri-ara-ve-bir-daha-kufur-et-charles-bukowski","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/e-motivasyon.net\/en\/bes-dakika-sonra-hayatta-olacagimizin-bir-garantisi-yok-o-yuzden-bu-gune-kadar-kirdigin-kisileri-ara-ve-bir-daha-kufur-et-charles-bukowski.html","title":{"rendered":"\u201cThere is no guarantee that we will be alive in five minutes. So call the people you hurt so far and curse again.\u201d Charles Bukowski"},"content":{"rendered":"

“Be\u015f dakika sonra hayatta olaca\u011f\u0131m\u0131z\u0131n bir garantisi yok. O y\u00fczden bu g\u00fcne kadar k\u0131rd\u0131\u011f\u0131n ki\u015fileri ara ve bir daha k\u00fcf\u00fcr et.” Charles Bukowski<\/a><\/strong><\/em><\/span><\/p>\n

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\u201cBe\u015f dakika sonra hayatta olaca\u011f\u0131m\u0131z\u0131n bir garantisi yok. O y\u00fczden bu g\u00fcne kadar k\u0131rd\u0131\u011f\u0131n ki\u015fileri ara ve bir daha k\u00fcf\u00fcr et.\u201d<\/strong> s\u00f6z\u00fc, Charles Bukowski<\/strong>\u2019nin hayata kar\u015f\u0131 filtresiz, sars\u0131c\u0131 ve d\u00fcr\u00fcst bak\u0131\u015f\u0131n\u0131 ta\u015f\u0131r. \u0130lk bak\u0131\u015fta provokatif g\u00f6r\u00fcnen bu ifade, asl\u0131nda \u00f6l\u00fcml\u00fcl\u00fck bilinci<\/strong> with sahicilik \u00e7a\u011fr\u0131s\u0131<\/strong>d\u0131r. Bukowski burada, zaman\u0131 ertelemememizi s\u00f6yler; k\u0131rd\u0131klar\u0131m\u0131zla y\u00fczle\u015fmeyi, duygular\u0131 s\u00fcsleyip saklamadan ifade etmeyi hat\u0131rlat\u0131r. \u201cBir daha k\u00fcf\u00fcr et\u201d ifadesi, hakaretin kendisini de\u011fil, maskeleri indirmeyi, i\u00e7imizden geldi\u011fi gibi olmay\u0131 ve hayat\u0131 steril kal\u0131plara hapsetmemeyi<\/strong> temsil eder. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc yar\u0131n\u0131n garantisi yokken, yar\u0131m kalm\u0131\u015f s\u00f6zler ve bast\u0131r\u0131lm\u0131\u015f duygular insan\u0131n i\u00e7inde a\u011f\u0131rl\u0131k yapar.<\/p>\n

Bu s\u00f6zden ilhamla g\u00fcnl\u00fck hayatta uygulayabilece\u011fimiz tek bir pratik \u00f6neri var: Ertelenmi\u015f bir duyguyu bug\u00fcn dile getirin.<\/strong> Uzun s\u00fcredir aramad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z, k\u0131r\u0131ld\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z ya da k\u0131rd\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z birini se\u00e7in ve k\u0131sa, d\u00fcr\u00fcst bir mesaj at\u0131n. S\u00fcsl\u00fc c\u00fcmlelere gerek yok; i\u00e7ten, net ve ger\u00e7ek olun. Bu bir \u00f6z\u00fcr, bir sitem ya da bir te\u015fekk\u00fcr olabilir. Biz \u00e7o\u011fu zaman \u201cdo\u011fru an\u201d\u0131 bekleriz; oysa Bukowski\u2019nin hat\u0131rlatt\u0131\u011f\u0131 \u015fey \u015fudur: An, \u00e7o\u011fu zaman tam da \u015fu and\u0131r.<\/strong> Duygular ifade edildi\u011finde y\u00fck olmaktan \u00e7\u0131kar, ili\u015fki ya onar\u0131l\u0131r ya da netle\u015fir.<\/p>\n

Hayat\u0131n sertli\u011fiyle y\u00fczle\u015fmi\u015f bir yazar olarak Charles Bukowski<\/strong>, bize incelikli olmay\u0131 de\u011fil; ger\u00e7ek olmay\u0131<\/strong> \u00f6\u011fretir. Bir arkada\u015f\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 aray\u0131p \u201cSeni k\u0131rd\u0131m\u201d demek, y\u0131llard\u0131r i\u00e7inizde tuttu\u011funuz bir c\u00fcmleyi pat diye s\u00f6ylemek ya da art\u0131k rol yapmamak\u2026 Bunlar\u0131n hepsi ya\u015fad\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z\u0131 hissettirir. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc hayat k\u0131sa de\u011fil belki, ama belirsiz; bu y\u00fczden ertelenen her s\u00f6z, insan\u0131n kendi i\u00e7inden eksilen bir par\u00e7ad\u0131r.<\/strong><\/em> Samimiyet bazen rahats\u0131z edicidir, ama \u00f6zg\u00fcrle\u015ftirici olan da tam olarak budur.<\/strong><\/p>\n

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Charles Bukowski Kimdir?<\/strong><\/h3>\n

Charles Bukowski<\/strong>, 1920\u20131994 y\u0131llar\u0131 aras\u0131nda ya\u015fam\u0131\u015f Amerikal\u0131 \u015fair, romanc\u0131 ve \u00f6yk\u00fcc\u00fcd\u00fcr. Hayat\u0131n kenar\u0131nda kalan insanlar\u0131n d\u00fcnyas\u0131n\u0131, alkol\u00fc, yaln\u0131zl\u0131\u011f\u0131, \u00f6fkeyi ve \u00e7\u0131plak ger\u00e7ekli\u011fi sans\u00fcrs\u00fcz bir dille anlatmas\u0131yla tan\u0131n\u0131r. Postane<\/em>, Factotum<\/em> . Kad\u0131nlar<\/em> gibi eserleriyle geni\u015f bir okur kitlesine ula\u015fm\u0131\u015ft\u0131r. Bukowski s\u00f6zleri<\/strong>, edebi zarafetten \u00e7ok d\u00fcr\u00fcstl\u00fc\u011f\u00fc ve ham ger\u00e7e\u011fi<\/strong> merkeze al\u0131r. Onu \u00f6zg\u00fcn k\u0131lan, insan\u0131n karanl\u0131k yanlar\u0131n\u0131 y\u00fcceltmeden ama saklamadan yazabilmesidir. Bukowski\u2019ye g\u00f6re ya\u015fam, cilalanacak bir vitrin de\u011fil; oldu\u011fu gibi ya\u015fanacak bir deneyimdir.<\/strong><\/p>\n

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"Maybe it's the ones you think you've lost, the ones you got rid of." Charles Bukowski<\/a><\/p><\/blockquote>\n