{"id":23923,"date":"2016-12-28T15:02:22","date_gmt":"2016-12-28T13:02:22","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.ozdeyis.net\/?p=23795"},"modified":"2026-08-30T11:26:51","modified_gmt":"2026-08-30T11:26:51","slug":"hayatiniza-giren-herkesin-ogretecek-bir-dersi-anlatacak-bir-hikayesi-vardir-robin-sharma","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/e-motivasyon.net\/en\/hayatiniza-giren-herkesin-ogretecek-bir-dersi-anlatacak-bir-hikayesi-vardir-robin-sharma.html","title":{"rendered":"\u201cEveryone who comes into your life has a lesson to teach, a story to tell.\u201d Robin Sharma"},"content":{"rendered":"

\u201cEveryone who comes into your life has a lesson to teach, a story to tell.\u201d Robin Sharma<\/em><\/strong><\/h3>\n

Robin Sharma\u2019n\u0131n bu s\u00f6z\u00fc, hayat\u0131m\u0131za giren insanlar\u0131n yaln\u0131zca bize e\u015flik etmek i\u00e7in de\u011fil, bize kendimiz ve hayat hakk\u0131nda bir \u015feyler g\u00f6stermek i\u00e7in de<\/strong> kar\u015f\u0131m\u0131za \u00e7\u0131kabilece\u011fini anlat\u0131r. Baz\u0131 insanlar bize sevgiyi, g\u00fcveni ve dayan\u0131\u015fmay\u0131 \u00f6\u011fretirken baz\u0131lar\u0131 s\u0131n\u0131rlar\u0131m\u0131z\u0131 fark etmemizi, kimlere g\u00fcvenmememiz gerekti\u011fini veya kendimize nas\u0131l daha fazla de\u011fer vermemiz gerekti\u011fini g\u00f6sterir. \u00dcstelik her ders g\u00fczel bir deneyimin i\u00e7inden \u00e7\u0131kmaz; bazen bizi inciten, hayal k\u0131r\u0131kl\u0131\u011f\u0131na u\u011fratan veya zorlayan insanlar da hayat\u0131m\u0131zda \u00f6nemli izler b\u0131rak\u0131r. Bu nedenle bir insanla kar\u015f\u0131la\u015ft\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131zda yaln\u0131zca \u201cBana ne verdi?\u201d diye de\u011fil, \u201cBana ne \u00f6\u011fretti?\u201d<\/strong> diye bakabilmek ya\u015fam deneyimlerimizi daha anlaml\u0131 h\u00e2le getirir. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc insan ili\u015fkileri, yaln\u0131zca ba\u015fkalar\u0131n\u0131 tan\u0131ma de\u011fil, ayn\u0131 zamanda kendimizi tan\u0131ma yolculu\u011fudur.<\/p>\n

Bu s\u00f6zden g\u00fcnl\u00fck ya\u015fam\u0131m\u0131za ta\u015f\u0131yabilece\u011fimiz pratik \u00f6neri \u015fudur: Her g\u00fcn ileti\u015fim kurdu\u011funuz bir ki\u015fiyi se\u00e7in ve o insandan \u00f6\u011frenebilece\u011finiz tek bir \u015feyi fark etmeye \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131n.<\/strong> Bu ki\u015fi i\u015f arkada\u015f\u0131n\u0131z, aileden biri, bir dostunuz hatta sizi zorlayan biri olabilir. G\u00fcn\u00fcn sonunda kendinize \u201cBug\u00fcn bu insan bana ne g\u00f6sterdi?\u201d diye sorun. Belki bir arkada\u015f\u0131n\u0131z\u0131n sab\u0131rl\u0131 davran\u0131\u015f\u0131ndan, bir meslekta\u015f\u0131n\u0131z\u0131n disiplininden, \u00e7ocu\u011funuzun merak\u0131ndan veya anla\u015famad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z birinin davran\u0131\u015f\u0131ndan kendi s\u0131n\u0131rlar\u0131n\u0131z hakk\u0131nda bir \u015fey \u00f6\u011frenebilirsiniz. Bu k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck fark\u0131ndal\u0131k egzersizi, insanlar\u0131 yaln\u0131zca iyi-k\u00f6t\u00fc, hakl\u0131-haks\u0131z \u015feklinde de\u011ferlendirmek yerine onlar\u0131n bize b\u0131rakt\u0131\u011f\u0131 deneyime odaklanmam\u0131z\u0131<\/strong> sa\u011flar. B\u00f6ylece s\u0131radan g\u00f6r\u00fcnen kar\u015f\u0131la\u015fmalar bile ki\u015fisel geli\u015fimimiz i\u00e7in k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck derslere d\u00f6n\u00fc\u015febilir.<\/p>\n

\u00d6rne\u011fin hayat\u0131n\u0131zda s\u00fcrekli ele\u015ftiren bir insan oldu\u011funu d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcn. Onun s\u00f6zlerinden ho\u015flanmayabilirsiniz; hatta baz\u0131 ele\u015ftirileri haks\u0131z da olabilir. Fakat bu ili\u015fki size kendi s\u0131n\u0131rlar\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 korumay\u0131, hangi s\u00f6zleri dikkate al\u0131p hangilerini b\u0131rakman\u0131z gerekti\u011fini \u00f6\u011fretebilir. Benzer \u015fekilde, zor zaman\u0131n\u0131zda yan\u0131n\u0131zda duran bir dost size ger\u00e7ek dostlu\u011fun de\u011ferini; sizden farkl\u0131 d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnen biri ise farkl\u0131 bak\u0131\u015f a\u00e7\u0131lar\u0131na a\u00e7\u0131k olman\u0131n<\/strong> \u00f6nemini g\u00f6sterebilir. Robin Sharma\u2019n\u0131n s\u00f6z\u00fc bize insanlar\u0131 idealize etmemizi de\u011fil, kar\u015f\u0131la\u015fmalar\u0131m\u0131z\u0131n i\u00e7indeki anlam\u0131 g\u00f6rebilmemizi \u00f6nerir. Hayat\u0131m\u0131za giren herkes kal\u0131c\u0131 olmayabilir; ancak her kar\u015f\u0131la\u015fma, do\u011fru bakmay\u0131 bilirsek, kendimizi biraz daha tan\u0131mam\u0131z ve hayat\u0131 biraz daha iyi anlamam\u0131z i\u00e7in bize bir hik\u00e2ye b\u0131rakabilir.<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n

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Robin Sharma Kimdir?<\/h3>\n

Robin Sharma (1964- ) Kanadal\u0131 yazar, liderlik dan\u0131\u015fman\u0131 ve konu\u015fmac\u0131d\u0131r. 1964 y\u0131l\u0131nda Kanada\u2019da do\u011fan Sharma, \u00f6zellikle ki\u015fisel geli\u015fim, liderlik, motivasyon, ya\u015fam amac\u0131 ve potansiyeli ger\u00e7ekle\u015ftirme konular\u0131ndaki \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmalar\u0131yla tan\u0131nmaktad\u0131r. Hukuk e\u011fitimi alan ve bir s\u00fcre avukatl\u0131k yapan Sharma, daha sonra ki\u015fisel geli\u015fim ve liderlik alan\u0131na y\u00f6neldi. En tan\u0131nm\u0131\u015f eseri Ferrari\u2019sini Satan Bilge<\/em> olan yazar, bu kitapta ba\u015far\u0131, ya\u015fam amac\u0131, disiplin ve i\u00e7sel d\u00f6n\u00fc\u015f\u00fcm gibi konular\u0131 bir hik\u00e2ye \u00fczerinden ele ald\u0131. Daha sonraki \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmalar\u0131nda bireysel liderlik anlay\u0131\u015f\u0131n\u0131 geli\u015ftiren Sharma, d\u00fcnya \u00e7ap\u0131nda \u015firketlere, y\u00f6neticilere ve farkl\u0131 topluluklara liderlik ve performans konusunda dan\u0131\u015fmanl\u0131k yapt\u0131. Eserlerinde al\u0131\u015fkanl\u0131klar\u0131n g\u00fcc\u00fc, \u00f6zdisiplin, fark\u0131ndal\u0131k, ki\u015fisel sorumluluk ve anlaml\u0131 bir ya\u015fam kurma gibi temalar\u0131 \u00f6ne \u00e7\u0131karan Robin Sharma, g\u00fcn\u00fcm\u00fczde ki\u015fisel geli\u015fim ve liderlik alan\u0131nda uluslararas\u0131 \u00f6l\u00e7ekte tan\u0131nan yazarlardan biri olarak \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmalar\u0131n\u0131 s\u00fcrd\u00fcrmektedir.<\/p>\n

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