{"id":23831,"date":"2016-12-21T12:15:16","date_gmt":"2016-12-21T10:15:16","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.ozdeyis.net\/?p=23604"},"modified":"2026-02-02T14:25:57","modified_gmt":"2026-02-02T14:25:57","slug":"nefretle-yapilacak-seyler-var-ama-askla-yapilacak-daha-cok-sey-var-william-shakespeare","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/e-motivasyon.net\/en\/nefretle-yapilacak-seyler-var-ama-askla-yapilacak-daha-cok-sey-var-william-shakespeare.html","title":{"rendered":"\u201cThere are things to do with hatred; but there is much more to be done with love.\u201d William Shakespeare"},"content":{"rendered":"

\u201cThere are things to do with hatred; but there is much more to be done with love.\u201d William Shakespeare<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

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\u201cNefretle yap\u0131lacak \u015feyler var; ama a\u015fkla yap\u0131lacak daha \u00e7ok \u015fey var.\u201d<\/strong> William Shakespeare bu s\u00f6z\u00fcyle insan\u0131n temel iki itici g\u00fcc\u00fcn\u00fc yan yana koyar ve aralar\u0131ndaki fark\u0131 incelikle hissettirir. Nefret de harekete ge\u00e7irir; insan\u0131 konu\u015fturur, savundurur, hatta bazen sava\u015fmaya iter. Ancak nefretin enerjisi s\u0131n\u0131rl\u0131d\u0131r, y\u0131prat\u0131c\u0131d\u0131r ve \u00e7o\u011fu zaman ard\u0131nda bo\u015fluk b\u0131rak\u0131r. A\u015fk ise \u00e7ok daha kapsay\u0131c\u0131d\u0131r; iyile\u015ftirir, birle\u015ftirir, \u00fcretir ve anlam katar<\/strong>. Shakespeare\u2019in i\u015faret etti\u011fi ger\u00e7ek \u015fudur: Ayn\u0131 emek, ayn\u0131 zaman, ayn\u0131 insan g\u00fcc\u00fc\u2026 ama y\u00f6n\u00fc de\u011fi\u015fti\u011finde ortaya \u00e7\u0131kan sonu\u00e7 bamba\u015fkad\u0131r.<\/p>\n

Bu s\u00f6zden ilhamla g\u00fcnl\u00fck hayatta uygulanabilecek tek ama etkili bir pratik \u00f6neri payla\u015fal\u0131m: Bir tepkiyi se\u00e7meden \u00f6nce duygunun kayna\u011f\u0131n\u0131 fark edin.<\/strong> Birine cevap yazmadan, bir karar almadan ya da bir ele\u015ftiri yapmadan hemen \u00f6nce kendinize \u015fu soruyu sorun: \u201cBunu nefretle mi yap\u0131yorum, yoksa a\u015fkla m\u0131?\u201d Biz \u00e7o\u011fu zaman hakl\u0131 olmak isteriz; oysa ili\u015fkileri, i\u015fleri ve hatta kendimizi ileri ta\u015f\u0131yan \u015fey hakl\u0131l\u0131ktan \u00e7ok niyettir<\/strong>. Bu k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck duraksama, davran\u0131\u015flar\u0131m\u0131z\u0131n tonunu tamamen de\u011fi\u015ftirebilir.<\/p>\n

G\u00fcnl\u00fck hayatta bunu s\u0131k\u00e7a g\u00f6r\u00fcr\u00fcz: Ayn\u0131 geri bildirim, biri taraf\u0131ndan sert ve k\u0131r\u0131c\u0131 bir dille verildi\u011finde savunma yarat\u0131r; di\u011feri taraf\u0131ndan samimi ve iyi niyetli sunuldu\u011funda ise geli\u015fim f\u0131rsat\u0131na d\u00f6n\u00fc\u015f\u00fcr. \u0130\u015fte tam bu noktada Shakespeare\u2019in s\u00f6z\u00fc ete kemi\u011fe b\u00fcr\u00fcn\u00fcr. Nefretle de bir \u015feyler yap\u0131l\u0131r, ama a\u015fkla yap\u0131lanlar kal\u0131c\u0131 izler b\u0131rak\u0131r.<\/strong><\/em> Bizim d\u00fcnyam\u0131zda, ili\u015fkilerimizde ve i\u00e7 sesimizde as\u0131l fark\u0131 yaratan da budur.<\/strong><\/p>\n

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William Shakespeare Kimdir?<\/strong><\/h3>\n

William Shakespeare<\/strong>, d\u00fcnya edebiyat\u0131n\u0131n en b\u00fcy\u00fck yazar ve oyun yazarlar\u0131ndan biridir. 16. y\u00fczy\u0131l\u0131n sonlar\u0131 ile 17. y\u00fczy\u0131l\u0131n ba\u015flar\u0131nda ya\u015fam\u0131\u015f olan Shakespeare; a\u015fk, nefret, g\u00fc\u00e7, k\u0131skan\u00e7l\u0131k, vicdan ve insan do\u011fas\u0131 \u00fczerine yazd\u0131klar\u0131yla evrensel bir miras b\u0131rakm\u0131\u015ft\u0131r. Eserleri y\u00fczy\u0131llar ge\u00e7mesine ra\u011fmen h\u00e2l\u00e2 g\u00fcncelli\u011fini korur \u00e7\u00fcnk\u00fc Shakespeare, insan\u0131n i\u00e7 d\u00fcnyas\u0131n\u0131 ve duygusal \u00e7at\u0131\u015fmalar\u0131n\u0131 zamans\u0131z bir derinlikle anlatmay\u0131 ba\u015farm\u0131\u015ft\u0131r. Bug\u00fcn onu bu kadar g\u00fc\u00e7l\u00fc k\u0131lan \u015fey, insan\u0131 oldu\u011fu haliyle g\u00f6rmesi ve anlatmas\u0131d\u0131r<\/strong>.<\/p>\n

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A\u015fk ve Sevgi \u00dczerine En \u0130yi \u00d6zl\u00fc S\u00f6zler<\/a><\/p><\/blockquote>\n