{"id":23790,"date":"2016-12-19T12:37:38","date_gmt":"2016-12-19T10:37:38","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.ozdeyis.net\/?p=23522"},"modified":"2026-03-30T20:01:07","modified_gmt":"2026-03-30T20:01:07","slug":"yasanmamis-yasamlar-dunyasindayiz-ya-sen-hayati-yasarsin-ya-da-hayat-seni-yasar-ve-bu-dunyada-buyuk-bir-cogunlugumuz-yasamadan-oluyoruz-erich-fromm","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/e-motivasyon.net\/en\/yasanmamis-yasamlar-dunyasindayiz-ya-sen-hayati-yasarsin-ya-da-hayat-seni-yasar-ve-bu-dunyada-buyuk-bir-cogunlugumuz-yasamadan-oluyoruz-erich-fromm.html","title":{"rendered":"\u201cWe are in the world of unlived lives. Either you live life or life lives you\u2026 And most of us in this world die without living.\u201d Erich Fromm"},"content":{"rendered":"

\u201cWe are in the world of unlived lives. Either you live life or life lives you\u2026 And most of us in this world die without living.\u201d Erich Fromm<\/em><\/strong><\/h3>\n

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\u201cYa\u015fanmam\u0131\u015f ya\u015famlar d\u00fcnyas\u0131nday\u0131z. Ya sen hayat\u0131 ya\u015fars\u0131n ya da hayat seni ya\u015far… Ve bu d\u00fcnyada b\u00fcy\u00fck bir \u00e7o\u011funlu\u011fumuz ya\u015famadan \u00f6l\u00fcyoruz.<\/strong>\u201d s\u00f6z\u00fc, Erich Fromm\u2019un insan\u0131n modern d\u00fcnyadaki varolu\u015funa dair en \u00e7arp\u0131c\u0131 tespitlerinden biridir. Fromm burada fiziksel olarak hayatta olmay\u0131 de\u011fil, psikolojik ve duygusal anlamda ger\u00e7ekten ya\u015famay\u0131<\/strong> sorgular. Pek \u00e7ok insan al\u0131\u015fkanl\u0131klar\u0131n, beklentilerin, korkular\u0131n ve toplumsal kal\u0131plar\u0131n i\u00e7inde otomatik pilota ba\u011flanm\u0131\u015f \u015fekilde ya\u015fam\u0131n\u0131 s\u00fcrd\u00fcr\u00fcr. G\u00fcnler ge\u00e7er, sorumluluklar yerine getirilir, fakat ki\u015fi kendi \u00f6z benli\u011fiyle temas kuramaz. Fromm\u2019a g\u00f6re as\u0131l tehlike \u00f6l\u00fcm de\u011fildir; kendi potansiyelini hi\u00e7 deneyimleyemeden ya\u015famak<\/strong>, yani hayat\u0131n \u00f6znesi olmak yerine nesnesi h\u00e2line gelmektir. Motivasyon ve ki\u015fisel geli\u015fim a\u00e7\u0131s\u0131ndan bu s\u00f6z, bize ya\u015fam\u0131n edilgen de\u011fil bilin\u00e7li bir se\u00e7im s\u00fcreci oldu\u011funu hat\u0131rlat\u0131r.<\/p>\n

Bu s\u00f6zden ilhamla g\u00fcnl\u00fck hayatta uygulayabilece\u011fimiz pratik \u00f6neri \u015fudur: Her g\u00fcn kendimize k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck ama bilin\u00e7li bir se\u00e7im alan\u0131 a\u00e7mak. G\u00fcn i\u00e7inde yapt\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z onlarca \u015fey al\u0131\u015fkanl\u0131kla ger\u00e7ekle\u015fir; ancak bilin\u00e7li se\u00e7imler ya\u015fam enerjisini geri getirir. \u00d6rne\u011fin g\u00fcn\u00fcn bir an\u0131nda \u201cBug\u00fcn ger\u00e7ekten yapmak istedi\u011fim tek \u015fey ne?\u201d sorusunu sormak g\u00fc\u00e7l\u00fc bir ba\u015flang\u0131\u00e7t\u0131r. Bu bir y\u00fcr\u00fcy\u00fc\u015f yapmak, uzun zamand\u0131r erteledi\u011finiz bir telefon g\u00f6r\u00fc\u015fmesini ger\u00e7ekle\u015ftirmek ya da yarat\u0131c\u0131 bir u\u011fra\u015fa zaman ay\u0131rmak olabilir. Ya\u015fam, b\u00fcy\u00fck de\u011fi\u015fimlerden \u00f6nce k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck bilin\u00e7li tercihlerle canlan\u0131r.<\/strong> B\u00f6ylece hayat\u0131n bizi s\u00fcr\u00fckledi\u011fi yerden \u00e7\u0131k\u0131p y\u00f6n veren ki\u015fi olmaya ba\u015flar\u0131z.<\/p>\n

D\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcn; ayn\u0131 \u015fehirde ya\u015fayan iki insan ayn\u0131 rutini payla\u015fabilir. Biri yaln\u0131zca g\u00fcnleri t\u00fcketirken di\u011feri deneyim biriktirir, hisseder, \u00f6\u011frenir ve de\u011fi\u015fir. Aralar\u0131ndaki fark zaman de\u011fil, ya\u015fama kat\u0131l\u0131m d\u00fczeyidir. Erich Fromm\u2019un anlatmak istedi\u011fi tam olarak budur: hayat uzunlu\u011fu ile de\u011fil, fark\u0131ndal\u0131k yo\u011funlu\u011fu ile \u00f6l\u00e7\u00fcl\u00fcr. Bizler ya\u015fam\u0131 erteledik\u00e7e hayat bizim yerimize karar verir; fakat bilin\u00e7li se\u00e7imler yapt\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131zda ya\u015fam yeniden bize ait olur. Ger\u00e7ek ya\u015fam, nefes almak de\u011fil; hissetmek, se\u00e7mek ve kendi hayat\u0131m\u0131z\u0131n aktif kat\u0131l\u0131mc\u0131s\u0131 olmakt\u0131r.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

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Erich Fromm Kimdir?<\/strong><\/h3>\n

Erich Fromm (1900-1980) Alman as\u0131ll\u0131 sosyal psikolog, psikanalist ve h\u00fcmanist filozoftur. \u0130nsan \u00f6zg\u00fcrl\u00fc\u011f\u00fc, sevgi, yabanc\u0131la\u015fma ve modern toplumun birey \u00fczerindeki etkileri \u00fczerine yapt\u0131\u011f\u0131 \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmalarla tan\u0131n\u0131r. Sevme Sanat\u0131<\/em> . \u00d6zg\u00fcrl\u00fckten Ka\u00e7\u0131\u015f<\/em> gibi eserlerinde insan\u0131n anlam aray\u0131\u015f\u0131n\u0131, bireysel sorumlulu\u011fu ve bilin\u00e7li ya\u015fam kavram\u0131n\u0131 derinlemesine inceleyerek modern psikoloji ve ki\u015fisel geli\u015fim d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcncesine \u00f6nemli katk\u0131lar sa\u011flam\u0131\u015ft\u0131r.<\/p>\n

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Hayata Dair En \u0130yi \u00d6zl\u00fc S\u00f6zler<\/a><\/p><\/blockquote>\n