{"id":23688,"date":"2016-12-12T23:08:28","date_gmt":"2016-12-12T21:08:28","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.ozdeyis.net\/?p=23303"},"modified":"2026-06-08T15:07:59","modified_gmt":"2026-06-08T15:07:59","slug":"insanin-hic-tanimadigi-birine-aglamasi-kadar-saygideger-bir-davranis-olamaz-jose-saramago","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/e-motivasyon.net\/en\/insanin-hic-tanimadigi-birine-aglamasi-kadar-saygideger-bir-davranis-olamaz-jose-saramago.html","title":{"rendered":"“\u0130nsan\u0131n hi\u00e7 tan\u0131mad\u0131\u011f\u0131 birine a\u011flamas\u0131 kadar sayg\u0131de\u011fer bir davran\u0131\u015f olamaz.” Jos\u00e9 Saramago"},"content":{"rendered":"

“\u0130nsan\u0131n hi\u00e7 tan\u0131mad\u0131\u011f\u0131 birine a\u011flamas\u0131 kadar sayg\u0131de\u011fer bir davran\u0131\u015f olamaz.” Jos\u00e9 Saramago<\/em><\/strong><\/h3>\n

“\u0130nsan\u0131n hi\u00e7 tan\u0131mad\u0131\u011f\u0131 birine a\u011flamas\u0131 kadar sayg\u0131de\u011fer bir davran\u0131\u015f olamaz.”<\/strong> Jos\u00e9 Saramago’nun bu derin anlam ta\u015f\u0131yan s\u00f6z\u00fc, insan olman\u0131n en g\u00fczel y\u00f6nlerinden biri olan empatiyi anlat\u0131r. Hi\u00e7 tan\u0131mad\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z bir insan\u0131n ac\u0131s\u0131na \u00fcz\u00fclmek, onun kayb\u0131 kar\u015f\u0131s\u0131nda i\u00e7imizin s\u0131zlamas\u0131 ya da ya\u015fad\u0131\u011f\u0131 zorluklar kar\u015f\u0131s\u0131nda duygulanmak; aram\u0131zdaki g\u00f6r\u00fcnmez ba\u011f\u0131n bir g\u00f6stergesidir. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc insan\u0131 insan yapan yaln\u0131zca kendi mutlulu\u011funa ve ac\u0131s\u0131na odaklanmas\u0131 de\u011fil, ba\u015fkalar\u0131n\u0131n duygular\u0131na da dokunabilmesidir. Empati, merhamet ve duygusal fark\u0131ndal\u0131k; g\u00fc\u00e7l\u00fc ili\u015fkilerin ve sa\u011fl\u0131kl\u0131 bir toplumun temel ta\u015flar\u0131d\u0131r.<\/strong> Saramago’nun s\u00f6z\u00fc bize, ger\u00e7ek insanl\u0131\u011f\u0131n bazen hi\u00e7 tan\u0131mad\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z birinin g\u00f6zya\u015f\u0131nda kendimizi bulabilmek oldu\u011funu hat\u0131rlat\u0131r.<\/p>\n

Bu s\u00f6zden ilham alarak g\u00fcnl\u00fck ya\u015famda uygulayabilece\u011fimiz basit ama etkili bir \u00f6neri \u015fudur: Her g\u00fcn kar\u015f\u0131m\u0131za \u00e7\u0131kan insanlara biraz daha dikkatle bakmaya \u00e7al\u0131\u015fal\u0131m. Otob\u00fcste yan\u0131m\u0131za oturan bir yolcuya, markette \u00e7al\u0131\u015fan bir g\u00f6revliye ya da sokakta kar\u015f\u0131la\u015ft\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z birine yaln\u0131zca bir yabanc\u0131 olarak de\u011fil, kendi hik\u00e2yesi, umutlar\u0131 ve m\u00fccadeleleri olan bir insan olarak bakmay\u0131 deneyelim. Bu k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck zihinsel al\u0131\u015fkanl\u0131k, empati becerimizi geli\u015ftirir ve insanlarla kurdu\u011fumuz ba\u011flar\u0131 g\u00fc\u00e7lendirir. Ki\u015fisel geli\u015fim a\u00e7\u0131s\u0131ndan bak\u0131ld\u0131\u011f\u0131nda da ba\u015fkalar\u0131n\u0131n duygular\u0131n\u0131 anlayabilmek, hem duygusal zek\u00e2y\u0131 hem de ya\u015fam kalitesini art\u0131ran \u00f6nemli bir beceridir.<\/p>\n

\u00d6rne\u011fin bir deprem, sel ya da ba\u015fka bir felaket haberi izledi\u011fimizde, oradaki insanlar\u0131 hi\u00e7 tan\u0131m\u0131yor olabiliriz. Buna ra\u011fmen i\u00e7imiz burkulur, yard\u0131m etmek isteriz ve onlar\u0131n ya\u015fad\u0131\u011f\u0131 ac\u0131y\u0131 payla\u015f\u0131r\u0131z. \u0130\u015fte bu duygu, insanl\u0131\u011f\u0131n ortak vicdan\u0131d\u0131r. Benzer \u015fekilde g\u00fcnl\u00fck hayatta kar\u015f\u0131la\u015ft\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck s\u0131k\u0131nt\u0131larda da birbirimize anlay\u0131\u015f g\u00f6sterebildi\u011fimiz \u00f6l\u00e7\u00fcde daha g\u00fc\u00e7l\u00fc bir toplum olu\u015fturabiliriz. Jos\u00e9 Saramago’nun bu s\u00f6z\u00fc bize \u00f6nemli bir ger\u00e7e\u011fi hat\u0131rlat\u0131r: Hi\u00e7 tan\u0131mad\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z insanlar\u0131n ac\u0131lar\u0131na dokunabilmek, insan kalbinin sahip oldu\u011fu en de\u011ferli erdemlerden biridir.<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n

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Jos\u00e9 Saramago Kimdir?<\/h3>\n

Jos\u00e9 Saramago (1922-2010) Portekizli yazar, gazeteci ve Nobel Edebiyat \u00d6d\u00fcl\u00fc sahibi d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcrd\u00fcr. Eserlerinde insan do\u011fas\u0131n\u0131, vicdan\u0131, adaleti ve toplumsal ili\u015fkileri derin bir bak\u0131\u015f a\u00e7\u0131s\u0131yla ele alm\u0131\u015ft\u0131r. Sade ancak g\u00fc\u00e7l\u00fc anlat\u0131m\u0131yla d\u00fcnya edebiyat\u0131nda kendine \u00f6zg\u00fc bir yer edinmi\u015ftir. \u00d6zellikle insan\u0131n ahlaki se\u00e7imlerini ve toplumsal olaylar kar\u015f\u0131s\u0131ndaki davran\u0131\u015flar\u0131n\u0131 sorgulayan eserleriyle tan\u0131n\u0131r. “K\u00f6rl\u00fck”, “G\u00f6rmek” ve “Ma\u011fara” gibi romanlar\u0131, g\u00fcn\u00fcm\u00fczde de milyonlarca okur taraf\u0131ndan ilgiyle okunmaya devam etmektedir.<\/p>\n

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\u0130nsanlara Dair \u00d6zl\u00fc S\u00f6zler ve \u00d6zdeyi\u015fler<\/a><\/p><\/blockquote>\n