{"id":23625,"date":"2018-11-29T17:55:21","date_gmt":"2018-11-29T17:55:21","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.ozdeyis.net\/?p=23116"},"modified":"2026-03-06T14:59:43","modified_gmt":"2026-03-06T14:59:43","slug":"ne-oldugunuz-kim-oldugunuz-nerede-oldugunuz-veya-ne-yapmakta-oldugunuz-sizi-mutlu-ya-da-mutsuz-yapmaz-butun-bunlar-hakkindaki-dusuncelerinizdir-sizi-mutlu-ya-da-mutsuz-kilan-sey-dale-carnegie","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/e-motivasyon.net\/en\/ne-oldugunuz-kim-oldugunuz-nerede-oldugunuz-veya-ne-yapmakta-oldugunuz-sizi-mutlu-ya-da-mutsuz-yapmaz-butun-bunlar-hakkindaki-dusuncelerinizdir-sizi-mutlu-ya-da-mutsuz-kilan-sey-dale-carnegie.html","title":{"rendered":"\u201cWhat you are, who you are, where you are or what you are doing does not make you happy or unhappy. The way you think about all this is what makes you happy or unhappy.\u201d Dale Carnegie"},"content":{"rendered":"

\u201cWhat you are, who you are, where you are or what you are doing does not make you happy or unhappy. The way you think about all this is what makes you happy or unhappy.\u201d Dale Carnegie<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

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G\u00fcnl\u00fck hayatta \u00e7o\u011fu zaman mutlulu\u011fumuzu d\u0131\u015f ko\u015fullara ba\u011flar\u0131z. Daha iyi bir i\u015f, daha fazla para ya da daha iyi bir \u015fehirde ya\u015famak bizi mutlu edecekmi\u015f gibi d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcr\u00fcz. Oysa Dale Carnegie<\/span><\/span>\u2019nin s\u00f6yledi\u011fi \u201cNe oldu\u011funuz, kim oldu\u011funuz, nerede oldu\u011funuz veya ne yapmakta oldu\u011funuz sizi mutlu ya da mutsuz yapmaz. B\u00fct\u00fcn bunlar hakk\u0131ndaki d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnceleriniz sizi mutlu ya da mutsuz k\u0131lan \u015feydir.\u201d s\u00f6z\u00fc, mutlulu\u011fun merkezinde asl\u0131nda d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnce bi\u00e7imimizin<\/strong> bulundu\u011funu hat\u0131rlat\u0131r. Ayn\u0131 ko\u015fullar i\u00e7inde ya\u015fayan iki insan\u0131n bamba\u015fka duygular hissetmesinin nedeni tam da budur. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc ya\u015fad\u0131klar\u0131m\u0131zdan \u00e7ok, onlar\u0131 nas\u0131l yorumlad\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z ve zihnimizde nas\u0131l anlamland\u0131rd\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z<\/strong> duygular\u0131m\u0131z\u0131 belirler. Bu bak\u0131\u015f a\u00e7\u0131s\u0131 bize \u00f6nemli bir ger\u00e7e\u011fi g\u00f6sterir: Mutluluk \u00e7o\u011fu zaman d\u0131\u015f d\u00fcnyada de\u011fil, i\u00e7 d\u00fcnyam\u0131zda \u015fekillenir.<\/p>\n

Bu d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnceden hareketle g\u00fcnl\u00fck hayatta uygulayabilece\u011fimiz basit ama g\u00fc\u00e7l\u00fc bir pratik \u015fudur: G\u00fcn i\u00e7inde sizi rahats\u0131z eden bir olay ya\u015fad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131zda hemen kendinize \u015fu soruyu sorun: \u201cBu olay hakk\u0131nda \u015fu an nas\u0131l d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcyorum?\u201d Ard\u0131ndan ikinci bir soru daha ekleyin: \u201cBu duruma ba\u015fka nas\u0131l bakabilirim?\u201d \u00d6rne\u011fin yo\u011fun bir i\u015f g\u00fcn\u00fc sizi yordu\u011funda bunu yaln\u0131zca bir y\u00fck gibi g\u00f6rmek yerine geli\u015fme ve \u00fcretme f\u0131rsat\u0131<\/strong> olarak de\u011ferlendirmeyi deneyebilirsiniz. K\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck bir bak\u0131\u015f a\u00e7\u0131s\u0131 de\u011fi\u015fikli\u011fi bile duygular\u0131m\u0131z \u00fczerinde \u015fa\u015f\u0131rt\u0131c\u0131 bir etki yaratabilir. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnce bi\u00e7imimizi de\u011fi\u015ftirdi\u011fimizde, \u00e7o\u011fu zaman duygular\u0131m\u0131z da de\u011fi\u015fmeye ba\u015flar.<\/p>\n

Bunu basit bir \u00f6rnekle d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnelim. Ya\u011fmurlu bir g\u00fcn baz\u0131 insanlar i\u00e7in keyifsiz ve s\u0131k\u0131c\u0131 olabilir. Ama ayn\u0131 ya\u011fmur bir ba\u015fkas\u0131 i\u00e7in huzurlu bir y\u00fcr\u00fcy\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn veya s\u0131cak bir kahvenin e\u015flik etti\u011fi sakin bir ak\u015fam\u0131n ba\u015flang\u0131c\u0131d\u0131r. Ya\u011fmur ayn\u0131d\u0131r; de\u011fi\u015fen yaln\u0131zca ona y\u00fcklenen anlamd\u0131r. \u0130\u015fte bu y\u00fczden hayat\u0131m\u0131zdaki bir\u00e7ok olay\u0131n duygusal etkisi, olay\u0131n kendisinden \u00e7ok ona verdi\u011fimiz anlamdan do\u011far. Mutlulu\u011fun anahtar\u0131 \u00e7o\u011fu zaman ko\u015fullar\u0131 de\u011fi\u015ftirmekte de\u011fil, o ko\u015fullara nas\u0131l bakt\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z\u0131 de\u011fi\u015ftirmekte sakl\u0131d\u0131r.<\/strong><\/em> Dale Carnegie<\/span><\/span>\u2019nin s\u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fcn hat\u0131rlatt\u0131\u011f\u0131 gibi, d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcncelerimizi y\u00f6nlendirebildi\u011fimizde ya\u015fam\u0131n duygusal rengini de b\u00fcy\u00fck \u00f6l\u00e7\u00fcde de\u011fi\u015ftirebiliriz.<\/p>\n

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Dale Carnegie Kimdir?<\/strong><\/h3>\n

Dale Carnegie<\/span><\/span> (1888-1955) Amerikal\u0131 yazar, e\u011fitmen ve ki\u015fisel geli\u015fim alan\u0131n\u0131n \u00f6nc\u00fclerinden biridir. \u00d6zellikle ileti\u015fim, insan ili\u015fkileri ve liderlik konular\u0131ndaki \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmalar\u0131yla tan\u0131n\u0131r. En \u00fcnl\u00fc eserlerinden biri olan The Art of Winning Friends and Influencing People<\/em> d\u00fcnya \u00e7ap\u0131nda milyonlarca okuyucuya ula\u015fm\u0131\u015f ve ki\u015fisel geli\u015fim literat\u00fcr\u00fcn\u00fcn klasiklerinden biri haline gelmi\u015ftir. Carnegie, insanlar\u0131n d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnce bi\u00e7imini ve ileti\u015fim tarz\u0131n\u0131 geli\u015ftirerek daha ba\u015far\u0131l\u0131 ve mutlu bir ya\u015fam s\u00fcrd\u00fcrebilece\u011fini savunan yakla\u015f\u0131m\u0131yla modern ki\u015fisel geli\u015fim anlay\u0131\u015f\u0131n\u0131n temel ta\u015flar\u0131ndan biri kabul edilir.<\/p>\n

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