{"id":23590,"date":"2016-12-01T13:10:30","date_gmt":"2016-12-01T11:10:30","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.ozdeyis.net\/?p=23039"},"modified":"2026-01-28T08:29:48","modified_gmt":"2026-01-28T08:29:48","slug":"akilli-adam-baskalarinin-kusurunu-gorerek-kendininkini-duzeltir-publilius-syrus","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/e-motivasyon.net\/en\/akilli-adam-baskalarinin-kusurunu-gorerek-kendininkini-duzeltir-publilius-syrus.html","title":{"rendered":"\u201cThe wise man corrects his own by seeing the faults of others.\u201d Publilius Syrus"},"content":{"rendered":"

\u201cThe wise man corrects his own by seeing the faults of others.\u201d Publilius Syrus<\/strong><\/em><\/h3>\n

\""Hayat<\/a><\/p>\n

\u201cAk\u0131ll\u0131 adam, ba\u015fkalar\u0131n\u0131n kusurunu g\u00f6rerek kendininkini d\u00fczeltir.<\/strong>\u201d s\u00f6z\u00fc, Publilius Syrus<\/strong>\u2019un insan do\u011fas\u0131na dair sade ama derin bir g\u00f6zlemidir. Bu ifade, ba\u015fkalar\u0131n\u0131n hatalar\u0131n\u0131 yarg\u0131lamak yerine onlar\u0131 birer ayna<\/strong> olarak kullanabilen zihinsel olgunlu\u011fa i\u015faret eder. \u00c7o\u011fu zaman ba\u015fkalar\u0131nda bizi rahats\u0131z eden davran\u0131\u015flar, asl\u0131nda kendi i\u00e7imizde g\u00f6rmezden geldi\u011fimiz yanlara dokunur. Ak\u0131ll\u0131 olan ki\u015fi, bu rahats\u0131zl\u0131\u011f\u0131 savunmaya ge\u00e7mek i\u00e7in de\u011fil; kendini geli\u015ftirmek i\u00e7in bir f\u0131rsat<\/strong> olarak de\u011ferlendirir. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc ger\u00e7ek bilgelik, kusuru ba\u015fkas\u0131nda te\u015fhir etmekte de\u011fil, onu kendinde d\u00f6n\u00fc\u015ft\u00fcrebilmekte sakl\u0131d\u0131r.<\/p>\n

Bu s\u00f6zden ilhamla g\u00fcnl\u00fck hayatta uygulanabilecek pratik bir \u00f6neri: G\u00fcn i\u00e7inde sizi en \u00e7ok ele\u015ftirdi\u011finiz ki\u015fiyi fark edin ve \u015fu soruyu kendinize sorun: \u201cBu davran\u0131\u015f\u0131n bende hangi kar\u015f\u0131l\u0131\u011f\u0131 var?\u201d<\/strong> Biz bu soruyu sordu\u011fumuzda, \u00f6fke yerini meraka, yarg\u0131 yerini fark\u0131ndal\u0131\u011fa b\u0131rak\u0131r. B\u00f6ylece ba\u015fkalar\u0131n\u0131n hatalar\u0131, bizi a\u015fa\u011f\u0131 \u00e7eken bir y\u00fck olmaktan \u00e7\u0131kar; ki\u015fisel geli\u015fimimizin sessiz \u00f6\u011fretmenlerine<\/strong> d\u00f6n\u00fc\u015f\u00fcr. Bu yakla\u015f\u0131m, hem ili\u015fkilerimizi yumu\u015fat\u0131r hem de i\u00e7sel olgunlu\u011fumuzu g\u00fc\u00e7lendirir.<\/p>\n

\u00d6rne\u011fin, s\u00fcrekli ba\u015fkalar\u0131n\u0131n sorumsuzlu\u011fundan \u015fik\u00e2yet ediyorsak, belki de kendi hayat\u0131m\u0131zda erteledi\u011fimiz sorumluluklara bakma zaman\u0131 gelmi\u015ftir. Ya da birinin ileti\u015fim tarz\u0131n\u0131 sert buluyorsak, biz de fark etmeden benzer bir dili kullan\u0131yor olabiliriz. Ak\u0131ll\u0131 insan, ba\u015fkalar\u0131n\u0131n kusuruna tak\u0131l\u0131p kalmaz; o kusuru bir i\u015faret fi\u015fe\u011fi gibi g\u00f6r\u00fcr ve y\u00f6n\u00fcn\u00fc kendine \u00e7evirir.<\/strong><\/em> Biz de bu bak\u0131\u015f a\u00e7\u0131s\u0131n\u0131 benimsedi\u011fimizde, her kar\u015f\u0131la\u015fmay\u0131 biraz daha bilin\u00e7li, biraz daha insanca<\/strong> ya\u015famaya ba\u015flar\u0131z.<\/p>\n

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Publilius Syrus Kimdir?<\/h3>\n

Publilius Syrus<\/strong>, M\u00d6 1. y\u00fczy\u0131lda ya\u015fam\u0131\u015f, Roma d\u00f6neminin \u00f6nemli d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcr ve aforizma ustalar\u0131ndan biridir. Aslen Suriye k\u00f6kenli olan Syrus, k\u0131sa ve \u00e7arp\u0131c\u0131 s\u00f6zleriyle insan davran\u0131\u015flar\u0131n\u0131, ahlaki de\u011ferleri ve ya\u015fam bilgeli\u011fini sade bir dille aktarmas\u0131yla tan\u0131n\u0131r. G\u00fcn\u00fcm\u00fcze ula\u015fan vecizeleri, y\u00fczy\u0131llard\u0131r ki\u015fisel geli\u015fim, etik ve fark\u0131ndal\u0131k<\/strong> alanlar\u0131nda al\u0131nt\u0131lanmaya devam etmektedir. Onun s\u00f6zleri, zamana meydan okuyan bir i\u00e7g\u00f6r\u00fcyle insan\u0131n kendini tan\u0131ma yolculu\u011funa \u0131\u015f\u0131k tutar.<\/p>\n

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Quotations on Science and Wisdom<\/a><\/p><\/blockquote>\n