{"id":23581,"date":"2016-11-30T21:11:14","date_gmt":"2016-11-30T19:11:14","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.ozdeyis.net\/?p=23021"},"modified":"2026-02-04T14:03:03","modified_gmt":"2026-02-04T14:03:03","slug":"verilen-ogutlerden-yalniz-akillilar-yararlanir-publilius-syrus","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/e-motivasyon.net\/en\/verilen-ogutlerden-yalniz-akillilar-yararlanir-publilius-syrus.html","title":{"rendered":"\u201cOnly the wise will benefit from the advice given.\u201d Publilius Syrus"},"content":{"rendered":"

\u201cOnly the wise will benefit from the advice given.\u201d Publilius Syrus<\/strong><\/em><\/h3>\n

\"\u0130\u00e7indeki<\/a><\/p>\n

\u201cVerilen \u00f6\u011f\u00fctlerden, yaln\u0131z ak\u0131ll\u0131lar yararlan\u0131r.\u201d<\/strong> s\u00f6z\u00fc, Publilius Syrus\u2019un insan do\u011fas\u0131na dair keskin g\u00f6zlemlerinden biridir. Bu c\u00fcmle bize \u015funu anlat\u0131r: \u00d6\u011f\u00fct almak pasif bir s\u00fcre\u00e7 de\u011fildir; aksine dinlemeyi, d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnmeyi ve gerekti\u011finde egoyu bir kenara b\u0131rakmay\u0131<\/strong> gerektirir. Ayn\u0131 s\u00f6z, herkesin \u00f6\u011f\u00fct duyabilece\u011fini ama herkesin ondan fayda sa\u011flayamayaca\u011f\u0131n\u0131 da ima eder. Siz ve biz, \u00e7o\u011fu zaman \u00f6\u011f\u00fcd\u00fc de\u011fil; hakl\u0131 \u00e7\u0131kmay\u0131, savunmay\u0131 ya da bildi\u011fimizi kan\u0131tlamay\u0131 se\u00e7eriz. Oysa ak\u0131ll\u0131l\u0131k, her \u015feyi bilmekten \u00e7ok \u00f6\u011frenmeye a\u00e7\u0131k kalabilme cesaretidir<\/strong>. Publilius Syrus\u2019un alt\u0131n\u0131 \u00e7izdi\u011fi fark tam da buradad\u0131r.<\/p>\n

Bu s\u00f6zden ilhamla g\u00fcnl\u00fck hayatta uygulanabilecek tek bir pratik \u00f6neri: Bir \u00f6\u011f\u00fct ald\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131zda hemen cevap vermek yerine, kendinize 24 saatlik bir d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnme pay\u0131 tan\u0131y\u0131n.<\/strong> Bu s\u00fcre i\u00e7inde \u201cBu s\u00f6z bana ne anlat\u0131yor olabilir?\u201d sorusunu sorun. \u00d6\u011f\u00fcd\u00fcn kimin taraf\u0131ndan verildi\u011finden \u00e7ok, i\u00e7inde sizin i\u00e7in i\u015fe yarayan bir par\u00e7a olup olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131na<\/strong> odaklan\u0131n. Siz ve biz, \u00f6\u011f\u00fctle aram\u0131za bu bilin\u00e7li mesafeyi koydu\u011fumuzda, savunma refleksi zay\u0131flar ve \u00f6\u011frenme ihtimali g\u00fc\u00e7lenir.<\/p>\n

\u00d6rne\u011fin bir geri bildirim ald\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcn; ilk anda can s\u0131k\u0131c\u0131, hatta haks\u0131z bile gelebilir. Ama sakinle\u015fip bakt\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131zda, o s\u00f6z\u00fcn i\u00e7inde sizi bir ad\u0131m ileri ta\u015f\u0131yacak k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck bir ipucu bulabilirsiniz. \u0130\u015fte ak\u0131ll\u0131l\u0131k tam olarak burada ba\u015flar. Her \u00f6\u011f\u00fct do\u011fru olmayabilir ama her \u00f6\u011f\u00fctte bize ayna tutabilecek bir k\u0131r\u0131nt\u0131 vard\u0131r.<\/strong><\/em> Ak\u0131ll\u0131 olan, o k\u0131r\u0131nt\u0131y\u0131 g\u00f6r\u00fcp yoluna katabilendir.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

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Publilius Syrus Kimdir?<\/strong><\/h3>\n

Publilius Syrus (M\u00d6 1. y\u00fczy\u0131l), Antik Roma\u2019da ya\u015fam\u0131\u015f Suriyeli k\u00f6kenli bir yazar ve d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcrd\u00fcr. K\u00f6le olarak Roma\u2019ya getirilmi\u015f, zek\u00e2s\u0131 ve s\u00f6z ustal\u0131\u011f\u0131 sayesinde \u00f6zg\u00fcrl\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn\u00fc kazanm\u0131\u015ft\u0131r. En \u00e7ok k\u0131sa, \u00e7arp\u0131c\u0131 ve ahlaki dersler i\u00e7eren \u00f6zdeyi\u015fleri<\/strong> ile tan\u0131n\u0131r. \u0130nsan davran\u0131\u015flar\u0131, erdem, bilgelik ve ya\u015fam bilgeli\u011fi \u00fczerine s\u00f6yledi\u011fi s\u00f6zler y\u00fczy\u0131llar boyunca aktar\u0131lm\u0131\u015f; bug\u00fcn h\u00e2l\u00e2 ki\u015fisel geli\u015fim, motivasyon ve fark\u0131ndal\u0131k alanlar\u0131nda s\u0131k\u00e7a al\u0131nt\u0131lanmaktad\u0131r. Publilius Syrus, az s\u00f6zle \u00e7ok \u015fey s\u00f6ylemenin ustalar\u0131ndan biridir.<\/p>\n

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\u0130nsanlara Dair \u00d6zl\u00fc S\u00f6zler ve \u00d6zdeyi\u015fler<\/a><\/p><\/blockquote>\n