{"id":23565,"date":"2016-11-30T10:58:55","date_gmt":"2016-11-30T08:58:55","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.ozdeyis.net\/?p=22989"},"modified":"2026-02-19T09:34:02","modified_gmt":"2026-02-19T09:34:02","slug":"hayatta-her-sey-ol-fakat-birilerinin-alternatifi-asla-olma-t-s-eliot","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/e-motivasyon.net\/en\/hayatta-her-sey-ol-fakat-birilerinin-alternatifi-asla-olma-t-s-eliot.html","title":{"rendered":"\u201cBe everything in life; But never be someone's alternative.\u201d TS Eliot"},"content":{"rendered":"

\u201cBe everything in life; But never be someone's alternative.\u201d TS Eliot<\/em><\/strong><\/h3>\n

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TS Eliot<\/span><\/span> burada bize \u015funu hat\u0131rlat\u0131r: Ba\u015fkalar\u0131n\u0131n yerini doldurmaya \u00e7al\u0131\u015farak ger\u00e7ek bir kimlik in\u015fa edemeyiz. Alternatif olmak; k\u0131yas\u0131n g\u00f6lgesinde ya\u015famakt\u0131r. Oysa insan\u0131n en b\u00fcy\u00fck g\u00fcc\u00fc, kendine \u00f6zg\u00fc bak\u0131\u015f a\u00e7\u0131s\u0131, yetenekleri ve de\u011ferleridir. Kopya ba\u015far\u0131 ge\u00e7icidir, \u00f6zg\u00fcnl\u00fck kal\u0131c\u0131d\u0131r.<\/strong> Motivasyon ve ki\u015fisel geli\u015fim yolculu\u011funda en kritik e\u015fik, ba\u015fkalar\u0131na benzemek i\u00e7in de\u011fil; kendimiz olmak i\u00e7in \u00e7abalamakt\u0131r.<\/p>\n

Bu s\u00f6zden ilhamla g\u00fcnl\u00fck hayatta uygulayabilece\u011fimiz pratik \u00f6neri \u015fu: \u201cK\u0131yas Detoksu\u201d yap\u0131n.<\/strong> Bir hafta boyunca sosyal medyada ya da i\u015f ortam\u0131nda kendinizi biriyle k\u0131yaslad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 fark etti\u011finiz an durun ve \u015fu soruyu sorun: \u201cBenim \u00f6zg\u00fcn katk\u0131m ne?\u201d Ard\u0131ndan k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck de olsa o katk\u0131y\u0131 g\u00f6r\u00fcn\u00fcr k\u0131lacak bir ad\u0131m at\u0131n. Kendi tarz\u0131n\u0131z\u0131, sesinizi, yakla\u015f\u0131m\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 ortaya koyun. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc de\u011fer, taklitten de\u011fil; \u00f6zg\u00fcn \u00fcretimden do\u011far.<\/strong> Bu al\u0131\u015fkanl\u0131k \u00f6zsayg\u0131y\u0131 g\u00fc\u00e7lendirir ve i\u00e7sel motivasyonu art\u0131r\u0131r.<\/p>\n

D\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcn; bir i\u015f g\u00f6r\u00fc\u015fmesinde \u201cOnun kadar iyi de\u011filim\u201d diye geri \u00e7ekilmek yerine kendi g\u00fc\u00e7l\u00fc y\u00f6nlerinizi net bi\u00e7imde ifade ediyorsunuz. Bir ili\u015fkide \u201cyedek\u201d olmay\u0131 kabul etmek yerine s\u0131n\u0131rlar\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 koyuyorsunuz. \u0130\u015fte bu duru\u015f kimlik in\u015fa eder. TS Eliot<\/span><\/span>\u2019\u0131n mesaj\u0131 nettir: Birinin yerine ge\u00e7meye \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmay\u0131n; kendi yerinizi in\u015fa edin.<\/strong><\/em> Bizler alternatif olmay\u0131 reddedip \u00f6zg\u00fcnl\u00fc\u011f\u00fcm\u00fcz\u00fc sahiplenirsek; hem motivasyonumuz g\u00fc\u00e7lenir hem de hayat\u0131m\u0131z daha anlaml\u0131 bir \u00e7izgiye oturur. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc ger\u00e7ek ba\u015far\u0131, ba\u015fkas\u0131n\u0131n g\u00f6lgesinde de\u011fil; kendi \u0131\u015f\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131zda y\u00fcr\u00fcmektir.<\/p>\n

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T. S. Eliot Kimdir?<\/h3>\n

T. S. Eliot (1888-1965) Anglo-Amerikan \u015fair, oyun yazar\u0131 ve ele\u015ftirmendir. Modernist edebiyat\u0131n en \u00f6nemli temsilcilerinden biri kabul edilir. \u201cThe Waste Land\u201d ve \u201cFour Quartets\u201d gibi eserleriyle 20. y\u00fczy\u0131l \u015fiirine y\u00f6n vermi\u015ftir. 1948 y\u0131l\u0131nda Nobel Edebiyat \u00d6d\u00fcl\u00fc\u2019n\u00fc kazanm\u0131\u015ft\u0131r. Edebiyatta \u00f6zg\u00fcn anlat\u0131m\u0131 ve derin d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnsel yap\u0131s\u0131yla kal\u0131c\u0131 bir etki b\u0131rakm\u0131\u015ft\u0131r.<\/p>\n

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\u0130nsanlara Dair \u00d6zl\u00fc S\u00f6zler ve \u00d6zdeyi\u015fler<\/a><\/p><\/blockquote>\n