{"id":23514,"date":"2016-11-27T20:19:16","date_gmt":"2016-11-27T18:19:16","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.ozdeyis.net\/?p=22880"},"modified":"2026-07-29T07:41:17","modified_gmt":"2026-07-29T07:41:17","slug":"bir-yurek-ancak-bir-yurekle-takas-edilir-yuregini-almadigim-kimseye-vermem-yuregimi-sems-i-tebrizi","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/e-motivasyon.net\/en\/bir-yurek-ancak-bir-yurekle-takas-edilir-yuregini-almadigim-kimseye-vermem-yuregimi-sems-i-tebrizi.html","title":{"rendered":"“Bir y\u00fcrek, ancak bir y\u00fcrekle takas edilir. Y\u00fcre\u011fini almad\u0131\u011f\u0131m kimseye vermem y\u00fcre\u011fimi.” \u015eems-i Tebrizi"},"content":{"rendered":"

“Bir y\u00fcrek, ancak bir y\u00fcrekle takas edilir. Y\u00fcre\u011fini almad\u0131\u011f\u0131m kimseye vermem y\u00fcre\u011fimi.” \u015eems-i Tebrizi<\/strong><\/em><\/h3>\n

\u0130nsan ili\u015fkilerinin en sa\u011flam temeli kar\u015f\u0131l\u0131kl\u0131 samimiyet ve g\u00fcvendir. Shams Tabrizi<\/strong>‘nin \u201cBir y\u00fcrek, ancak bir y\u00fcrekle takas edilir. Y\u00fcre\u011fini almad\u0131\u011f\u0131m kimseye vermem y\u00fcre\u011fimi.\u201d<\/em> s\u00f6z\u00fc de tam olarak bu ger\u00e7e\u011fi anlat\u0131r. Buradaki “y\u00fcrek”, yaln\u0131zca sevgiyi de\u011fil; g\u00fcveni, sadakati, i\u00e7tenli\u011fi ve g\u00f6n\u00fclden kurulan ba\u011f\u0131 temsil eder. Ger\u00e7ek bir yak\u0131nl\u0131k, tek tarafl\u0131 fedak\u00e2rl\u0131klarla de\u011fil, iki insan\u0131n da birbirine g\u00f6n\u00fclden a\u00e7\u0131lmas\u0131yla olu\u015fur. Kalbimizi herkese ayn\u0131 \u00f6l\u00e7\u00fcde a\u00e7mak zorunda de\u011filiz; ancak ger\u00e7ek ba\u011flar, kar\u015f\u0131l\u0131kl\u0131 g\u00fcven ve samimiyet \u00fczerine kuruldu\u011funda uzun \u00f6m\u00fcrl\u00fc olur.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Bu s\u00f6zden ilham alarak g\u00fcnl\u00fck hayatta uygulayabilece\u011fimiz basit ama etkili bir al\u0131\u015fkanl\u0131k \u015fudur: Hayat\u0131n\u0131zdaki \u00f6nemli ili\u015fkileri zaman zaman kendinize \u015fu soruyu sorarak de\u011ferlendirin: “Bu ili\u015fkide yaln\u0131zca ben mi emek veriyorum, yoksa kar\u015f\u0131l\u0131kl\u0131 bir g\u00f6n\u00fcl ba\u011f\u0131 m\u0131 var?”<\/strong> Bu sorunun cevab\u0131, ili\u015fkilerinizi daha sa\u011fl\u0131kl\u0131 bir g\u00f6zle g\u00f6rmenizi sa\u011flayacakt\u0131r. Elbette her ili\u015fkide d\u00f6nem d\u00f6nem dengesizlikler ya\u015fanabilir. Ancak s\u00fcrekli tek tarafl\u0131 \u00e7aba g\u00f6steriyor, anlay\u0131\u015f ve ilgi g\u00f6rm\u00fcyorsak, duygusal s\u0131n\u0131rlar\u0131m\u0131z\u0131 yeniden g\u00f6zden ge\u00e7irmek faydal\u0131 olabilir. Kar\u015f\u0131l\u0131kl\u0131 de\u011fer verilen ili\u015fkiler, insan\u0131n hem ruhunu besler hem de ya\u015fam kalitesini art\u0131r\u0131r.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Bunu dostluklarda da, aile ili\u015fkilerinde de, sevgide de g\u00f6rebiliriz. Zor zaman\u0131n\u0131zda yan\u0131n\u0131zda olan, sizi yarg\u0131lamadan dinleyen ve sevincinizi i\u00e7tenlikle payla\u015fan insanlar, y\u00fcreklerini size a\u00e7m\u0131\u015f ki\u015filerdir. B\u00f6yle ba\u011flar, hayat\u0131n en de\u011ferli hazinelerindendir. Buna kar\u015f\u0131l\u0131k yaln\u0131zca \u00e7\u0131kar \u00fczerine kurulan ili\u015fkiler ise ilk f\u0131rt\u0131nada da\u011f\u0131lmaya mahk\u00fbmdur. Ger\u00e7ek sevgi ve dostluk, bir y\u00fcre\u011fin di\u011ferine cesaretle a\u00e7\u0131lmas\u0131yla ba\u015flar; g\u00f6n\u00fclden verilen her emek, ancak g\u00f6n\u00fclden gelen bir kar\u015f\u0131l\u0131kla ger\u00e7ek anlam\u0131n\u0131 bulur.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

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\u015eems-i Tebrizi Kimdir?<\/strong><\/h3>\n

\u015eems-i Tebrizi (1185-1248?) \u0130ranl\u0131 mutasavv\u0131f, d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcr ve gezgin dervi\u015ftir. Tasavvuf tarihinin en etkileyici isimlerinden biri olarak kabul edilir. En \u00e7ok, Mevl\u00e2n\u00e2 Cel\u00e2ledd\u00een-i R\u00fbm\u00ee ile kurdu\u011fu derin manevi dostluk sayesinde tan\u0131nm\u0131\u015ft\u0131r. \u015eems’in d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnceleri, sevgi, hakikat, insan\u0131n i\u00e7sel d\u00f6n\u00fc\u015f\u00fcm\u00fc ve nefsin a\u015f\u0131lmas\u0131 \u00fczerine yo\u011funla\u015f\u0131r. Mevl\u00e2n\u00e2’n\u0131n hayat\u0131nda ve eserlerinde b\u00fcy\u00fck bir de\u011fi\u015fime \u00f6nc\u00fcl\u00fck etti\u011fi kabul edilen \u015eems-i Tebrizi, y\u00fczy\u0131llard\u0131r tasavvuf gelene\u011finin en ilham verici isimlerinden biri olarak an\u0131lmaktad\u0131r. \u00d6l\u00fcm tarihi hakk\u0131nda kesin bir bilgi bulunmamakta olup, tarih\u00e7iler genel olarak 1248 y\u0131l\u0131 civar\u0131nda hayat\u0131n\u0131 kaybetti\u011fini kabul etmektedir.<\/p>\n

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A\u015fk ve Sevgi S\u00f6zleri<\/a><\/p><\/blockquote>\n