{"id":23499,"date":"2016-11-26T21:41:21","date_gmt":"2016-11-26T19:41:21","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.ozdeyis.net\/?p=22850"},"modified":"2026-04-24T20:01:15","modified_gmt":"2026-04-24T20:01:15","slug":"erkekler-dogalari-geregi-birbirine-ilgisizdir-fakat-kadinlar-dogalari-geregi-birbirine-dusmandir-arthur-schopenhauer","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/e-motivasyon.net\/en\/erkekler-dogalari-geregi-birbirine-ilgisizdir-fakat-kadinlar-dogalari-geregi-birbirine-dusmandir-arthur-schopenhauer.html","title":{"rendered":"\u201cMen are by nature indifferent to each other; but women are by nature hostile to each other.\u201d Arthur Schopenhauer"},"content":{"rendered":"

“Erkekler do\u011falar\u0131 gere\u011fi birbirine ilgisizdir; fakat kad\u0131nlar do\u011falar\u0131 gere\u011fi birbirine d\u00fc\u015fmand\u0131r.” Arthur Schopenhauer<\/strong><\/em><\/h3>\n

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Arthur Schopenhauer<\/span><\/span> taraf\u0131ndan dile getirilen \u201cErkekler do\u011falar\u0131 gere\u011fi birbirine ilgisizdir; fakat kad\u0131nlar do\u011falar\u0131 gere\u011fi birbirine d\u00fc\u015fmand\u0131r.\u201d s\u00f6z\u00fc, ilk bak\u0131\u015fta keskin ve genelleyici bir yarg\u0131 i\u00e7erir. Bu t\u00fcr ifadeleri oldu\u011fu gibi kabul etmek yerine, arkas\u0131ndaki d\u00f6nemi ve bak\u0131\u015f a\u00e7\u0131s\u0131n\u0131 sorgulamak daha sa\u011fl\u0131kl\u0131d\u0131r. Schopenhauer\u2019un ya\u015fad\u0131\u011f\u0131 \u00e7a\u011f\u0131n toplumsal yap\u0131s\u0131 ve ki\u015fisel deneyimleri, bu d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcncenin \u015fekillenmesinde etkili olmu\u015ftur. Ancak g\u00fcn\u00fcm\u00fcz perspektifinden bakt\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131zda, insan ili\u015fkilerini tek bir cinsiyet \u00fczerinden a\u00e7\u0131klamak yetersizdir. Rekabet, k\u0131yaslama ve mesafe koyma gibi davran\u0131\u015flar, cinsiyetten ba\u011f\u0131ms\u0131z olarak insan do\u011fas\u0131n\u0131n bir par\u00e7as\u0131d\u0131r.<\/strong> As\u0131l mesele, bu e\u011filimlerin fark\u0131nda olup onlar\u0131 nas\u0131l y\u00f6netti\u011fimizdir.<\/p>\n

Bu s\u00f6zden ilhamla g\u00fcnl\u00fck hayatta uygulayabilece\u011fimiz pratik \u00f6neri \u015fudur: \u0130li\u015fkilerinizde k\u0131yaslama yerine i\u015f birli\u011fini bilin\u00e7li olarak se\u00e7in. Birini kendinizle kar\u015f\u0131la\u015ft\u0131rd\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 fark etti\u011finiz anda, o ki\u015fiden \u00f6\u011frenebilece\u011finiz bir \u00f6zelli\u011fe odaklan\u0131n. Bu k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck zihinsel de\u011fi\u015fim, rekabeti y\u0131k\u0131c\u0131 bir g\u00fc\u00e7 olmaktan \u00e7\u0131kar\u0131p geli\u015ftirici bir araca d\u00f6n\u00fc\u015ft\u00fcr\u00fcr. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc insan, ba\u015fkalar\u0131yla yar\u0131\u015ft\u0131\u011f\u0131nda de\u011fil; onlarla birlikte b\u00fcy\u00fcd\u00fc\u011f\u00fcnde ger\u00e7ek anlamda geli\u015fir.<\/strong> Bu yakla\u015f\u0131m hem bireysel huzurunuzu art\u0131r\u0131r hem de ili\u015fkilerinizi daha sa\u011fl\u0131kl\u0131 hale getirir.<\/p>\n

G\u00fcnl\u00fck bir \u00f6rnekle d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnelim: \u0130\u015f yerinde bir arkada\u015f\u0131n\u0131z\u0131n ba\u015far\u0131s\u0131 sizi rahats\u0131z ediyor olabilir. Bu noktada iki se\u00e7ene\u011finiz vard\u0131r: Ya i\u00e7ten i\u00e7e rekabet duygusuna kap\u0131l\u0131p mesafe koyars\u0131n\u0131z ya da onun ba\u015far\u0131s\u0131n\u0131 bir ilham kayna\u011f\u0131 olarak g\u00f6r\u00fcrs\u00fcn\u00fcz. \u0130kinci yolu se\u00e7ti\u011finizde, hem ili\u015fkiniz g\u00fc\u00e7lenir hem de siz geli\u015firsiniz. \u0130\u015fte bu bak\u0131\u015f a\u00e7\u0131s\u0131, Schopenhauer\u2019un genelleyici yakla\u015f\u0131m\u0131n\u0131 a\u015fman\u0131z\u0131 sa\u011flar. \u0130nsan ili\u015fkilerinin kalitesi, do\u011fu\u015ftan gelen \u00f6zelliklerden \u00e7ok, bilin\u00e7li se\u00e7imlerle \u015fekillenir.<\/strong> Ve unutmay\u0131n: Ba\u015fkalar\u0131yla kurdu\u011funuz ba\u011f\u0131n niteli\u011fi, asl\u0131nda kendi i\u00e7 d\u00fcnyan\u0131z\u0131n bir yans\u0131mas\u0131d\u0131r.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

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Arthur Schopenhauer Kimdir?<\/strong><\/h3>\n

Arthur Schopenhauer (1788-1860) Alman filozofudur. \u0130rade, ac\u0131 ve insan do\u011fas\u0131 \u00fczerine geli\u015ftirdi\u011fi karamsar felsefesiyle tan\u0131n\u0131r. \u201c\u0130steme ve Tasar\u0131m Olarak D\u00fcnya\u201d adl\u0131 eseri, Bat\u0131 felsefesinde \u00f6nemli bir yer tutar. D\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnceleri \u00f6zellikle psikoloji, edebiyat ve sanat alan\u0131nda bir\u00e7ok d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcr\u00fc etkilemi\u015ftir.<\/p>\n

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\u0130nsanlara Dair \u00d6zl\u00fc S\u00f6zler ve \u00d6zdeyi\u015fler<\/a><\/p><\/blockquote>\n