{"id":23457,"date":"2016-11-23T06:28:34","date_gmt":"2016-11-23T04:28:34","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.ozdeyis.net\/?p=22759"},"modified":"2026-02-23T21:49:16","modified_gmt":"2026-02-23T21:49:16","slug":"dogru-zamanda-gelen-yanlis-insana-tanidigin-sansi-yanlis-zamanda-gelen-dogru-insana-tanimadigin-surece-uzulen-hep-sen-olursun-anton-cehov","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/e-motivasyon.net\/en\/dogru-zamanda-gelen-yanlis-insana-tanidigin-sansi-yanlis-zamanda-gelen-dogru-insana-tanimadigin-surece-uzulen-hep-sen-olursun-anton-cehov.html","title":{"rendered":"\u201cAs long as you don't give the chance to the wrong person who came at the right time to the right person who came at the wrong time, you will always be sad.\u201d Anton Chekhov"},"content":{"rendered":"

\u201cAs long as you don't give the chance to the wrong person who came at the right time to the right person who came at the wrong time, you will always be sad.\u201d Anton Chekhov<\/em><\/strong><\/h3>\n

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\u201cDo\u011fru zamanda gelen yanl\u0131\u015f insana tan\u0131d\u0131\u011f\u0131n \u015fans\u0131, yanl\u0131\u015f zamanda gelen do\u011fru insana tan\u0131mad\u0131\u011f\u0131n s\u00fcrece, \u00fcz\u00fclen hep sen olursun.\u201d s\u00f6z\u00fc, Anton Chekhov<\/span><\/span>\u2019un insan ili\u015fkilerine dair keskin g\u00f6zlemini yans\u0131t\u0131r. Bu ifade bize \u015funu hat\u0131rlat\u0131r: Hayat yaln\u0131zca \u201ckim\u201d sorusuyla de\u011fil, \u201cne zaman\u201d sorusuyla da \u015fekillenir. Bazen yaln\u0131z oldu\u011fumuz bir d\u00f6nemde kar\u015f\u0131m\u0131za \u00e7\u0131kan biri, s\u0131rf o bo\u015flu\u011fu dolduruyor diye oldu\u011fundan daha do\u011fru g\u00f6r\u00fcn\u00fcr. Bazen de hayat\u0131m\u0131z karma\u015f\u0131kken gelen ger\u00e7ekten de\u011ferli bir insan\u0131, haz\u0131r olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z i\u00e7in elimizin tersiyle iteriz. Zamanlama ile bilin\u00e7 birle\u015fmedi\u011finde, pi\u015fmanl\u0131k ka\u00e7\u0131n\u0131lmaz olur.<\/strong> \u0130li\u015fkilerde motivasyon, bilin\u00e7li fark\u0131ndal\u0131k ve duygusal olgunluk gerektirir; aksi halde kalbimiz acele kararlar\u0131n bedelini \u00f6der.<\/p>\n

Bu s\u00f6zden ilhamla g\u00fcnl\u00fck hayatta uygulayabilece\u011fimiz tek bir pratik \u00f6neri \u015fudur: \u00d6nemli bir ili\u015fki karar\u0131 almadan \u00f6nce kendinize iki soruyu yaz\u0131l\u0131 olarak sorun: \u201cBu ki\u015fiyi mi istiyorum, yoksa bu d\u00f6nemde yaln\u0131z kalmaktan m\u0131 ka\u00e7\u0131yorum?\u201d ve \u201c\u015eu an haz\u0131r olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131m i\u00e7in mi geri duruyorum?\u201d Bu iki soru, duygusal k\u00f6r noktalar\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 g\u00f6r\u00fcn\u00fcr k\u0131lar. Duygusal fark\u0131ndal\u0131k, sa\u011fl\u0131kl\u0131 ili\u015fki se\u00e7imlerinin temelidir.<\/strong> Ki\u015fisel geli\u015fim yolculu\u011funda en kritik ad\u0131mlardan biri, kendi i\u00e7 motivasyonumuzu d\u00fcr\u00fcst\u00e7e analiz edebilmektir.<\/p>\n

\u00d6rne\u011fin hayat\u0131n\u0131zda zor bir s\u00fcre\u00e7ten ge\u00e7erken biri size ilgi g\u00f6steriyor. O ilgi, iyile\u015ftirici gibi gelir ve h\u0131zl\u0131ca ba\u011flan\u0131rs\u0131n\u0131z. Oysa belki de arad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z ki\u015fi de\u011fil, arad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z duygudur. Ya da tam tersi; kariyerinize odakland\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z bir d\u00f6nemde size ger\u00e7ekten de\u011fer veren birini \u201czaman\u0131m yok\u201d diyerek ertelersiniz ve sonra pi\u015fman olursunuz. Anton \u00c7ehov\u2019un uyar\u0131s\u0131 nettir: \u0130li\u015fkilerde do\u011fru ki\u015fi kadar do\u011fru bilin\u00e7 ve do\u011fru zaman fark\u0131ndal\u0131\u011f\u0131 da belirleyicidir.<\/strong><\/em> Biz ne istedi\u011fimizi ve hangi ruh h\u00e2liyle karar verdi\u011fimizi netle\u015ftirdi\u011fimizde, \u00fcz\u00fclen taraf olmaktan \u00e7\u0131kar; bilin\u00e7li se\u00e7imler yapan taraf oluruz.<\/p>\n

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Anton \u00c7ehov Kimdir?<\/strong><\/h3>\n

Anton Chekhov<\/span><\/span> (1860-1904) Rus yazar ve oyun yazar\u0131d\u0131r. Modern k\u0131sa \u00f6yk\u00fcn\u00fcn ustalar\u0131ndan biri kabul edilir. \u0130nsan psikolojisini, g\u00fcndelik hayat\u0131n s\u0131radan g\u00f6r\u00fcnen anlar\u0131 \u00fczerinden derinlikli bi\u00e7imde ele alm\u0131\u015ft\u0131r. Eserlerinde insan ili\u015fkileri, i\u00e7sel \u00e7at\u0131\u015fmalar ve ya\u015fam\u0131n ironik y\u00f6nleri \u00f6nemli yer tutar.<\/p>\n

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\u0130nsanlara Dair \u00d6zl\u00fc S\u00f6zler ve \u00d6zdeyi\u015fler<\/a><\/p><\/blockquote>\n