{"id":23328,"date":"2016-11-12T13:39:48","date_gmt":"2016-11-12T11:39:48","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.ozdeyis.net\/?p=22480"},"modified":"2026-11-02T08:31:47","modified_gmt":"2026-11-02T08:31:47","slug":"birlikte-guldugun-kimseyi-unutabilirsin-ama-birlikte-agladigin-birini-asla-unutmazsin-halil-cibran","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/e-motivasyon.net\/en\/birlikte-guldugun-kimseyi-unutabilirsin-ama-birlikte-agladigin-birini-asla-unutmazsin-halil-cibran.html","title":{"rendered":"\u201cYou can forget anyone you laughed with; but you never forget someone you cried with." Khalil Gibran"},"content":{"rendered":"

\u201cYou can forget anyone you laughed with; but you never forget someone you cried with." Khalil Gibran<\/strong><\/em><\/h3>\n

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Halil Cibran\u2019\u0131n bu anlaml\u0131 s\u00f6z\u00fc, insan ili\u015fkilerinin derinli\u011fini ve ortak duygular\u0131n haf\u0131zam\u0131zda b\u0131rakt\u0131\u011f\u0131 izleri anlat\u0131r. Birlikte ge\u00e7irilen g\u00fczel anlar, kahkahalar ve ne\u015feli sohbetler ya\u015fam\u0131m\u0131za renk katar. Ancak insan\u0131n kendisini en k\u0131r\u0131lgan hissetti\u011fi zamanlarda yan\u0131nda bulunan ki\u015filerle kurdu\u011fu ba\u011f, \u00e7o\u011fu zaman \u00e7ok daha derin bir anlam ta\u015f\u0131r. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc ac\u0131lar\u0131m\u0131z\u0131 payla\u015fmak, yaln\u0131zca bir duyguyu birlikte ya\u015famak de\u011fil, birbirimizin i\u00e7 d\u00fcnyas\u0131na dokunabilmektir.<\/strong> Bir insan\u0131n g\u00f6zya\u015flar\u0131m\u0131za e\u015flik etmesi, bizi yarg\u0131lamadan dinlemesi ya da sessizce yan\u0131m\u0131zda durmas\u0131, aram\u0131zda kolay kolay silinmeyecek bir g\u00fcven ve yak\u0131nl\u0131k olu\u015fturabilir.<\/p>\n

Bu s\u00f6zden ilham alarak g\u00fcnl\u00fck ya\u015fam\u0131m\u0131zda uygulayabilece\u011fimiz bir \u00f6neri var: Zor zamanlardan ge\u00e7en bir insan\u0131n yan\u0131nda olmak i\u00e7in mutlaka bir \u00e7\u00f6z\u00fcm bulmam\u0131z gerekti\u011fini d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnmeyelim.<\/strong> Bazen bir arkada\u015f\u0131m\u0131z\u0131n \u00fcz\u00fcnt\u00fcs\u00fcn\u00fc dinlemek, onun duygular\u0131n\u0131 k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fcmsemeden anlamaya \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmak ya da ihtiya\u00e7 duydu\u011funda yan\u0131nda oldu\u011fumuzu hissettirmek yeterlidir. \u201cHer \u015fey d\u00fczelecek\u201d demek yerine, \u201c\u0130stersen seni dinleyebilirim\u201d demek daha anlaml\u0131 olabilir. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc baz\u0131 ac\u0131lar hemen \u00e7\u00f6z\u00fclemez; fakat payla\u015f\u0131labildi\u011finde insan\u0131n kendisini daha az yaln\u0131z hissetmesine yard\u0131mc\u0131 olabilir. Duygusal yak\u0131nl\u0131k, \u00e7o\u011fu zaman b\u00fcy\u00fck s\u00f6zlerden de\u011fil, i\u00e7tenlikle g\u00f6sterilen k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck desteklerden do\u011far.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Hayat\u0131m\u0131zda ya\u015fad\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z bir ayr\u0131l\u0131\u011f\u0131, ba\u015far\u0131s\u0131zl\u0131\u011f\u0131 ya da kayb\u0131 d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnelim. O g\u00fcnlerde bizi arayan, konu\u015fmak istedi\u011fimizde dinleyen veya hi\u00e7bir \u015fey s\u00f6ylemeden yan\u0131m\u0131zda oturan bir insan\u0131n varl\u0131\u011f\u0131, y\u0131llar ge\u00e7se bile unutulmayabilir. Belki o ki\u015fi sorunumuzu \u00e7\u00f6zmedi, belki ya\u015fad\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z ac\u0131y\u0131 ortadan kald\u0131rmad\u0131; ancak o zor g\u00fcnlerde yaln\u0131z olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z\u0131 hissettirdi. \u0130\u015fte bu nedenle baz\u0131 insanlar haf\u0131zam\u0131zda yaln\u0131zca g\u00fczel an\u0131lar\u0131yla de\u011fil, en zor zamanlar\u0131m\u0131zda bize g\u00f6sterdikleri insanl\u0131kla<\/strong> yer eder. Halil Cibran\u2019\u0131n s\u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fcn ta\u015f\u0131d\u0131\u011f\u0131 derinlik de burada sakl\u0131d\u0131r: Birlikte ya\u015fad\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z mutluluklar bizi birbirimize yakla\u015ft\u0131rabilir; ancak birbirimizin ac\u0131s\u0131na g\u00f6sterdi\u011fimiz \u015fefkat, aram\u0131zda unutulmas\u0131 g\u00fc\u00e7 bir ba\u011f olu\u015fturabilir.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

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Halil Cibran Kimdir?<\/h3>\n

Halil Cibran (1883-1931), L\u00fcbnan do\u011fumlu \u015fair, yazar, ressam ve d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcrd\u00fcr. 6 Ocak 1883\u2019te o d\u00f6nem Osmanl\u0131 \u0130mparatorlu\u011fu s\u0131n\u0131rlar\u0131 i\u00e7inde bulunan Be\u015fer\u00ee\u2019de, g\u00fcn\u00fcm\u00fczde L\u00fcbnan\u2019da do\u011fdu. Gen\u00e7 ya\u015fta ailesiyle birlikte Amerika Birle\u015fik Devletleri\u2019ne g\u00f6\u00e7 etti. Arap edebiyat\u0131n\u0131n modernle\u015fmesinde etkili olan isimlerden biri kabul edilen Cibran, eserlerinde a\u015fk, insanl\u0131k, \u00f6zg\u00fcrl\u00fck, ya\u015fam, \u00f6l\u00fcm ve ruhsal geli\u015fim gibi evrensel temalar\u0131 \u015fiirsel bir dille ele ald\u0131. \u0130ngilizce yazd\u0131\u011f\u0131 Ermi\u015f<\/em> (The Prophet<\/em>) adl\u0131 eseri d\u00fcnya \u00e7ap\u0131nda b\u00fcy\u00fck bir \u00fcn kazand\u0131 ve pek \u00e7ok dile \u00e7evrildi. K\u0131r\u0131k Kanatlar<\/em>, Deli<\/em> . Gezgin<\/em> de tan\u0131nm\u0131\u015f eserleri aras\u0131ndad\u0131r. Edebiyat\u0131n yan\u0131 s\u0131ra resimle de ilgilenen Cibran, d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnsel ve sanatsal \u00fcretimleriyle farkl\u0131 k\u00fclt\u00fcrler aras\u0131nda k\u00f6pr\u00fc kuran \u00f6nemli bir isimdir.<\/p>\n

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\u0130nsanlara Dair \u00d6zl\u00fc S\u00f6zler ve \u00d6zdeyi\u015fler<\/a><\/p><\/blockquote>\n