{"id":22780,"date":"2016-10-11T19:43:05","date_gmt":"2016-10-11T16:43:05","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.ozdeyis.net\/?p=21281"},"modified":"2026-08-17T10:47:09","modified_gmt":"2026-08-17T10:47:09","slug":"insan-ne-denli-goz-yasi-dokerse-doksun-sonunda-burnunu-siler-simone-de-beauvoir","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/e-motivasyon.net\/en\/insan-ne-denli-goz-yasi-dokerse-doksun-sonunda-burnunu-siler-simone-de-beauvoir.html","title":{"rendered":"“\u0130nsan ne denli g\u00f6zya\u015f\u0131 d\u00f6kerse d\u00f6ks\u00fcn, sonunda burnunu siler.” Simone de Beauvoir"},"content":{"rendered":"

“\u0130nsan ne denli g\u00f6zya\u015f\u0131 d\u00f6kerse d\u00f6ks\u00fcn, sonunda burnunu siler.” Simone de Beauvoir<\/strong><\/em><\/h3>\n

Hayat\u0131m\u0131zda baz\u0131 ac\u0131lar vard\u0131r ki onlar\u0131 ya\u015farken hi\u00e7 bitmeyecekmi\u015f gibi gelir. Kaybetti\u011fimiz bir insan, sona eren bir ili\u015fki, ger\u00e7ekle\u015fmeyen bir hayal ya da bizi derinden yaralayan bir olay, o anda b\u00fct\u00fcn d\u00fcnyam\u0131z\u0131 kaplayabilir. Simone de Beauvoir\u2019\u0131n bu s\u00f6z\u00fc, insan\u0131n ac\u0131 kar\u015f\u0131s\u0131ndaki dayan\u0131kl\u0131l\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 ve ya\u015fam\u0131n devam etme g\u00fcc\u00fcn\u00fc<\/strong> sade ama \u00e7arp\u0131c\u0131 bir bi\u00e7imde anlat\u0131r. Ne kadar a\u011flarsak a\u011flayal\u0131m, ne kadar \u00fcz\u00fcl\u00fcrsek \u00fcz\u00fclelim bir noktada g\u00f6zya\u015flar\u0131m\u0131z diner ve hayat yeniden akmaya ba\u015flar. Bu, ya\u015fad\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z ac\u0131lar\u0131n \u00f6nemsiz oldu\u011fu anlam\u0131na gelmez; aksine insan\u0131n ac\u0131y\u0131 ya\u015fayabildi\u011fi kadar iyile\u015fme ve yeniden hayata tutunma g\u00fcc\u00fcne de sahip oldu\u011funu<\/strong> g\u00f6sterir.<\/p>\n

Bu s\u00f6zden g\u00fcnl\u00fck ya\u015fam i\u00e7in \u00e7\u0131karabilece\u011fimiz pratik \u00f6neri, zor bir d\u00f6nemden ge\u00e7erken kendinize \u201cBug\u00fcn hayat\u0131n devam etti\u011fini bana hat\u0131rlatacak ne yapabilirim?\u201d<\/strong> sorusunu sormakt\u0131r. Cevab\u0131n\u0131z b\u00fcy\u00fck bir \u015fey olmak zorunda de\u011fildir. Bir y\u00fcr\u00fcy\u00fc\u015fe \u00e7\u0131kmak, yata\u011f\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 toplamak, sevdi\u011finiz bir insan\u0131 aramak, biraz temiz hava almak veya uzun zamand\u0131r erteledi\u011finiz k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck bir i\u015fi tamamlamak bile yeterli olabilir. Buradaki ama\u00e7 ac\u0131y\u0131 bast\u0131rmak ya da yok saymak de\u011fildir. Ac\u0131n\u0131za izin verirken hayatla ba\u011f\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 da korumakt\u0131r.<\/strong> \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc iyile\u015fmek, her \u015feyi bir anda unutmak de\u011fil; ac\u0131n\u0131n i\u00e7inden ge\u00e7erken ya\u015fam\u0131n k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck par\u00e7alar\u0131n\u0131 yeniden fark etmeye ba\u015flamakt\u0131r.<\/p>\n

Bir ayr\u0131l\u0131k ya\u015fayan bir insan\u0131 d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnelim. \u0130lk g\u00fcnlerde telefonuna bakmak, eski mesajlar\u0131 okumak ve ya\u015fananlar\u0131 tekrar tekrar d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnmek son derece do\u011fal olabilir. Fakat g\u00fcnler ge\u00e7tik\u00e7e yeniden i\u015fe gitmek, arkada\u015flar\u0131yla bulu\u015fmak, y\u00fcr\u00fcy\u00fc\u015f yapmak ve kendi hayat\u0131na d\u00f6nmek, onun ya\u015fad\u0131\u011f\u0131 ac\u0131y\u0131 ink\u00e2r etti\u011fi anlam\u0131na gelmez. Sadece hayat\u0131n tek bir kay\u0131ptan ibaret olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 yeniden ke\u015ffetmeye ba\u015flad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131<\/strong> g\u00f6sterir. Hepimiz zaman zaman g\u00f6zya\u015flar\u0131m\u0131z\u0131 tutamayaca\u011f\u0131m\u0131z kadar zorlanabiliriz. \u00d6nemli olan, o anlar\u0131 ya\u015famaktan utanmamak ve kendimize iyile\u015fmek i\u00e7in zaman tan\u0131makt\u0131r. **Because you are only as real as you can express yourself. en a\u011f\u0131r ac\u0131lar\u0131n bile ard\u0131ndan hayat yeniden kap\u0131m\u0131z\u0131 \u00e7alar; bazen yapmam\u0131z gereken yaln\u0131zca g\u00f6zya\u015flar\u0131m\u0131z\u0131 silip o kap\u0131y\u0131 yeniden a\u00e7makt\u0131r.<\/strong><\/em>\u201d<\/p>\n

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Simone de Beauvoir Kimdir?<\/strong><\/span><\/h3>\n

Simone de Beauvoir (1908-1986) Frans\u0131z filozof, yazar, d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcr ve feminist kuramc\u0131d\u0131r. Varolu\u015f\u00e7uluk, \u00f6zg\u00fcrl\u00fck, kad\u0131nlar\u0131n toplumsal konumu ve bireysel sorumluluk \u00fczerine geli\u015ftirdi\u011fi d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcncelerle 20. y\u00fczy\u0131l\u0131n en etkili entelekt\u00fcellerinden biri kabul edilir. Jean-Paul Sartre ile uzun y\u0131llara yay\u0131lan entelekt\u00fcel ve \u00f6zel ili\u015fkisiyle de tan\u0131nan Beauvoir, \u00f6zellikle 1949 y\u0131l\u0131nda yay\u0131mlanan \u0130kinci Cins<\/em> (Le Deuxi\u00e8me Sexe<\/em>) adl\u0131 eseriyle modern feminist d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcncenin geli\u015fiminde \u00f6nemli bir rol oynam\u0131\u015ft\u0131r. Roman, an\u0131, deneme ve felsefi eserler kaleme alan Beauvoir, insan\u0131n \u00f6zg\u00fcrl\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn\u00fc, se\u00e7imlerini ve toplum taraf\u0131ndan \u015fekillendirilen kimli\u011fini sorgulam\u0131\u015ft\u0131r. 1986 y\u0131l\u0131nda Paris\u2019te hayat\u0131n\u0131 kaybetmi\u015ftir.<\/p>\n

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\u0130nsanlara Dair \u00d6zl\u00fc S\u00f6zler ve \u00d6zdeyi\u015fler<\/a><\/p><\/blockquote>\n