{"id":22748,"date":"2016-10-10T16:39:35","date_gmt":"2016-10-10T13:39:35","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.ozdeyis.net\/?p=21212"},"modified":"2026-07-29T11:01:35","modified_gmt":"2026-07-29T11:01:35","slug":"birini-yargilamaya-kalkistiginda-onun-sendeki-ayricaliklara-sahip-olmama-ihtimalini-hatirla-f-scott-fitzgerald","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/e-motivasyon.net\/en\/birini-yargilamaya-kalkistiginda-onun-sendeki-ayricaliklara-sahip-olmama-ihtimalini-hatirla-f-scott-fitzgerald.html","title":{"rendered":"\u201cWhen you try to judge someone, remember the possibility that they may not have your privileges.\u201d F Scott Fitzgerald"},"content":{"rendered":"

\u201cWhen you try to judge someone, remember the possibility that they may not have your privileges.\u201d F Scott Fitzgerald<\/strong><\/em><\/h3>\n

\u0130nsanlar\u0131 de\u011ferlendirirken \u00e7o\u011fu zaman yaln\u0131zca davran\u0131\u015flar\u0131na bakar, o davran\u0131\u015flar\u0131n arkas\u0131ndaki ya\u015fam ko\u015fullar\u0131n\u0131 g\u00f6zden ka\u00e7\u0131r\u0131r\u0131z. F Scott Fitzgerald<\/strong>‘\u0131n \u201cBirini yarg\u0131lamaya kalk\u0131\u015ft\u0131\u011f\u0131nda, onun sendeki ayr\u0131cal\u0131klara sahip olmama ihtimalini hat\u0131rla.\u201d<\/em> s\u00f6z\u00fc, empati kurman\u0131n ve \u00f6nyarg\u0131lardan uzak durman\u0131n \u00f6nemini hat\u0131rlat\u0131r. Hepimiz farkl\u0131 ailelerde b\u00fcy\u00fcd\u00fck, farkl\u0131 e\u011fitim imk\u00e2nlar\u0131na sahip olduk ve farkl\u0131 zorluklarla m\u00fccadele ettik. Bu nedenle bir insan\u0131n verdi\u011fi kararlar\u0131 ya da sergiledi\u011fi davran\u0131\u015flar\u0131 de\u011ferlendirirken, onun ya\u015fam yolculu\u011funu da hesaba katmak gerekir. Adil olmak, yaln\u0131zca g\u00f6rd\u00fc\u011f\u00fcm\u00fcz sonuca de\u011fil; o sonuca g\u00f6t\u00fcren \u015fartlara da dikkat edebilmektir.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Bu d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnceyi g\u00fcnl\u00fck ya\u015famda uygulaman\u0131n etkili bir yolu, birini ele\u015ftirmeden \u00f6nce kendinize \u015fu soruyu sormakt\u0131r: “Ben onun yerinde, onun ya\u015fad\u0131klar\u0131n\u0131 ya\u015fasayd\u0131m nas\u0131l davran\u0131rd\u0131m?”<\/strong> Bu k\u0131sa duraksama, olaylara daha geni\u015f bir pencereden bakman\u0131z\u0131 sa\u011flar. Belki de ilk anda tembellik olarak g\u00f6rd\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn\u00fcz \u015feyin arkas\u0131nda a\u011f\u0131r bir ya\u015fam m\u00fccadelesi, korku ya da imk\u00e2ns\u0131zl\u0131klar vard\u0131r. Empati kurmay\u0131 al\u0131\u015fkanl\u0131k h\u00e2line getirmek, hem ili\u015fkilerimizi g\u00fc\u00e7lendirir hem de daha anlay\u0131\u015fl\u0131 ve olgun bir insan olmam\u0131za katk\u0131 sa\u011flar.<\/strong><\/p>\n

\u00d6rne\u011fin okulda ba\u015far\u0131s\u0131z g\u00f6r\u00fcnen bir \u00f6\u011frenciyi d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnelim. Onu yaln\u0131zca notlar\u0131na bakarak yarg\u0131lamak kolayd\u0131r. Oysa belki de evinde ders \u00e7al\u0131\u015fabilece\u011fi sessiz bir ortam\u0131, ona destek olacak bir ailesi ya da yeterli e\u011fitim kaynaklar\u0131 hi\u00e7 olmam\u0131\u015ft\u0131r. Ayn\u0131 durum i\u015f hayat\u0131nda, sosyal ili\u015fkilerde ve g\u00fcndelik ya\u015fam\u0131n bir\u00e7ok alan\u0131nda da kar\u015f\u0131m\u0131za \u00e7\u0131kar. \u0130nsanlar\u0131 ger\u00e7ekten anlayabilmek, yaln\u0131zca onlar\u0131n yapt\u0131klar\u0131na bakmakla de\u011fil; yapabilecekleri h\u00e2lde neden yapamad\u0131klar\u0131n\u0131 da anlamaya \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmakla m\u00fcmk\u00fcnd\u00fcr.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

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F. Scott Fitzgerald Kimdir?<\/strong><\/h3>\n

F. Scott Fitzgerald (1896-1940) Amerikal\u0131 romanc\u0131, \u00f6yk\u00fc yazar\u0131 ve deneme yazar\u0131d\u0131r. \u00d6zellikle 1920’li y\u0131llar\u0131n Amerika’s\u0131n\u0131, toplumsal de\u011fi\u015fimleri, zenginlik, a\u015fk ve hayal k\u0131r\u0131kl\u0131klar\u0131n\u0131 etkileyici bir dille anlatt\u0131\u011f\u0131 eserleriyle d\u00fcnya edebiyat\u0131n\u0131n en \u00f6nemli isimlerinden biri olarak kabul edilir. En \u00fcnl\u00fc roman\u0131 “Muhte\u015fem Gatsby (The Great Gatsby)”, Amerikan edebiyat\u0131n\u0131n klasikleri aras\u0131nda yer almakta ve g\u00fcn\u00fcm\u00fczde de geni\u015f bir okur kitlesi taraf\u0131ndan ilgiyle okunmaktad\u0131r. Fitzgerald, insan do\u011fas\u0131na ili\u015fkin derin g\u00f6zlemleri ve g\u00fc\u00e7l\u00fc anlat\u0131m\u0131yla edebiyat tarihinde kal\u0131c\u0131 bir iz b\u0131rakm\u0131\u015ft\u0131r.<\/p>\n

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\u0130nsanlara Dair \u00d6zl\u00fc S\u00f6zler ve \u00d6zdeyi\u015fler<\/a><\/p><\/blockquote>\n