{"id":22710,"date":"2016-10-08T12:35:08","date_gmt":"2016-10-08T09:35:08","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.ozdeyis.net\/?p=21128"},"modified":"2026-08-14T10:59:49","modified_gmt":"2026-08-14T10:59:49","slug":"nasil-oluyor-da-insani-mutlu-eden-bir-sey-ayni-zamanda-yikiminin-da-nedeni-oluyor-goethe","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/e-motivasyon.net\/en\/nasil-oluyor-da-insani-mutlu-eden-bir-sey-ayni-zamanda-yikiminin-da-nedeni-oluyor-goethe.html","title":{"rendered":"\u201cHow is it that something that makes you happy is also the cause of your destruction?\u201d Goethe"},"content":{"rendered":"

\u201cHow is it that something that makes you happy is also the cause of your destruction?\u201d Goethe<\/strong><\/em><\/h3>\n

Hayatta bizi mutlu eden her \u015feyin bizim i\u00e7in her zaman iyi sonu\u00e7lanaca\u011f\u0131n\u0131 d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnmek kolayd\u0131r. Oysa Goethe\u2019nin bu s\u00f6z\u00fc, mutluluk veren \u015feylerle hayat\u0131m\u0131za katt\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z de\u011ferin ayn\u0131 \u015fey olmayabilece\u011fini<\/strong> hat\u0131rlat\u0131r. Bir insan\u0131 mutlu eden bir ili\u015fki zamanla ba\u011f\u0131ml\u0131l\u0131\u011fa, ba\u015far\u0131 tutkusu t\u00fckenmi\u015fli\u011fe, para kazanma arzusu h\u0131rsa, konfor ise hareketsizli\u011fe d\u00f6n\u00fc\u015febilir. Ba\u015flang\u0131\u00e7ta bize keyif ve g\u00fcven veren bir \u015fey, \u00f6l\u00e7\u00fcs\u00fcn\u00fc kaybetti\u011fimizde hayat\u0131m\u0131z\u0131 daraltmaya ba\u015flayabilir. Buradaki mesele mutluluktan ka\u00e7mak de\u011fil; bizi mutlu eden \u015feyle kurdu\u011fumuz ili\u015fkinin sa\u011fl\u0131kl\u0131 olup olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 fark edebilmektir.<\/strong> \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc bazen sorun sahip oldu\u011fumuz \u015feyde de\u011fil, ona ne kadar ba\u011fland\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131zdad\u0131r.<\/p>\n

Bu s\u00f6zden g\u00fcnl\u00fck ya\u015fam i\u00e7in \u00e7\u0131karabilece\u011fimiz pratik \u00f6neri, sizi mutlu eden \u00f6nemli bir al\u0131\u015fkanl\u0131k veya u\u011fra\u015f i\u00e7in zaman zaman \u201cBu \u015fey hayat\u0131m\u0131 zenginle\u015ftiriyor mu, yoksa hayat\u0131m\u0131n merkezine mi yerle\u015fiyor?\u201d<\/strong> sorusunu sormakt\u0131r. \u00d6rne\u011fin i\u015finizde ba\u015far\u0131l\u0131 olmaktan b\u00fcy\u00fck mutluluk duyuyorsan\u0131z, ba\u015far\u0131n\u0131n sizi geli\u015ftirmesine izin verirken dinlenme, aile, dostluk ve kendinize ay\u0131rd\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z zaman\u0131 da koruyun. Ayn\u0131 \u015fekilde sosyal medya, al\u0131\u015fveri\u015f, e\u011flence veya bir ili\u015fki konusunda da kendi s\u0131n\u0131rlar\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 g\u00f6zden ge\u00e7irin. Mutlulu\u011fu koruman\u0131n \u00f6nemli yollar\u0131ndan biri, ona ba\u011f\u0131ml\u0131 h\u00e2le gelmemektir.<\/strong> Bir \u015fey hayat\u0131m\u0131za ne\u015fe katabilir; fakat b\u00fct\u00fcn ne\u015femizi yaln\u0131zca ona ba\u011flad\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131zda, o \u015fey ayn\u0131 zamanda en b\u00fcy\u00fck k\u0131r\u0131lganl\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z h\u00e2line gelebilir.<\/p>\n

\u00d6rne\u011fin \u00e7ok sevdi\u011finiz i\u015finizde ba\u015far\u0131l\u0131 olduk\u00e7a daha fazla \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmaya ba\u015flayabilir, ba\u015far\u0131dan ald\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z mutluluk nedeniyle dinlenmeyi ve \u00f6zel hayat\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 ihmal edebilirsiniz. Bir s\u00fcre sonra sizi mutlu eden i\u015f, ya\u015fam\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 t\u00fcketen bir kayna\u011fa d\u00f6n\u00fc\u015febilir. Benzer bi\u00e7imde \u00e7ok sevdi\u011finiz bir insan\u0131 kaybetmemek i\u00e7in kendi s\u0131n\u0131rlar\u0131n\u0131zdan vazge\u00e7ti\u011finizde, sevgi zamanla ba\u011f\u0131ml\u0131l\u0131\u011fa d\u00f6n\u00fc\u015febilir. Bu nedenle ya\u015fam\u0131m\u0131zdaki g\u00fczel \u015feyleri reddetmek yerine onlarla sa\u011fl\u0131kl\u0131 bir denge<\/strong> kurmay\u0131 \u00f6\u011frenmemiz gerekir. Bizi mutlu eden \u015feyleri hayat\u0131m\u0131z\u0131n merkezine koymak yerine, hayat\u0131m\u0131z\u0131 g\u00fczelle\u015ftiren de\u011ferli par\u00e7alar olarak tutmay\u0131 ba\u015fard\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131zda, mutluluk y\u0131k\u0131m\u0131m\u0131z de\u011fil, ya\u015fam\u0131m\u0131z\u0131n g\u00fcc\u00fc olur.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

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Goethe Kimdir?<\/strong><\/span><\/h3>\n

Johann Wolfgang von Goethe (1749-1832) Alman \u015fair, yazar, filozof, bilim insan\u0131 ve devlet adam\u0131d\u0131r. Alman edebiyat\u0131n\u0131n en \u00f6nemli isimlerinden biri kabul edilen Goethe, \u00f6zellikle \u015fiir, roman, tiyatro, felsefe ve bilim alanlar\u0131nda verdi\u011fi eserlerle d\u00fcnya k\u00fclt\u00fcr tarihinde kal\u0131c\u0131 bir iz b\u0131rakm\u0131\u015ft\u0131r. En tan\u0131nm\u0131\u015f eserleri aras\u0131nda Gen\u00e7 Werther\u2019in Ac\u0131lar\u0131<\/em>, Faust<\/em> . Wilhelm Meister\u2019in \u00c7\u0131rakl\u0131k Y\u0131llar\u0131<\/em> bulunur. Ya\u015fam\u0131 boyunca insan do\u011fas\u0131, a\u015fk, \u00f6zg\u00fcrl\u00fck, sanat, bilgi ve ya\u015fam\u0131n anlam\u0131 gibi konular \u00fczerine d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnen Goethe, Weimar Klasisizmi olarak bilinen edeb\u00ee hareketin \u00f6nemli temsilcilerinden biri olmu\u015ftur. Eserleri ve d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnceleri, yaln\u0131zca kendi d\u00f6nemini de\u011fil, sonraki ku\u015faklar\u0131n edebiyat ve d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnce d\u00fcnyas\u0131n\u0131 da derinden etkilemi\u015ftir.<\/p>\n

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\u0130nsanlara Dair \u00d6zl\u00fc S\u00f6zler ve \u00d6zdeyi\u015fler<\/a><\/p><\/blockquote>\n