{"id":22648,"date":"2016-10-05T21:46:52","date_gmt":"2016-10-05T18:46:52","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.ozdeyis.net\/?p=20992"},"modified":"2026-02-15T13:29:34","modified_gmt":"2026-02-15T13:29:34","slug":"kadinlar-hep-erkeklerin-unuttugu-seyler-icin-erkekler-ise-hep-kadinlarin-hatirladigi-seyler-icin-uzulurler-albert-einstein","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/e-motivasyon.net\/en\/kadinlar-hep-erkeklerin-unuttugu-seyler-icin-erkekler-ise-hep-kadinlarin-hatirladigi-seyler-icin-uzulurler-albert-einstein.html","title":{"rendered":"\u201cWomen always worry about things men forget, men always worry about things women remember.\u201d Albert Einstein"},"content":{"rendered":"

\u201cWomen always worry about things men forget, men always worry about things women remember.\u201d Albert Einstein<\/strong><\/em><\/h3>\n

\"Kendini<\/a><\/p>\n

Albert Einstein\u2019a atfedilen bu s\u00f6z, kad\u0131n-erkek ili\u015fkilerinde haf\u0131za ve anlam y\u00fckleme fark\u0131na mizahi ama d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnd\u00fcr\u00fcc\u00fc bir yerden bakar. Burada mesele biyolojik bir \u00fcst\u00fcnl\u00fck ya da zay\u0131fl\u0131k de\u011fil; duygusal \u00f6nceliklerin farkl\u0131l\u0131\u011f\u0131d\u0131r.<\/strong> Bir taraf i\u00e7in \u201ck\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck\u201d g\u00f6r\u00fcnen bir detay, di\u011fer taraf i\u00e7in ili\u015fkinin de\u011fer g\u00f6stergesi olabilir. Unutulan bir tarih, hat\u0131rlanmayan bir s\u00f6z ya da y\u0131llar \u00f6nce s\u00f6ylenmi\u015f bir c\u00fcmle\u2026 \u0130leti\u015fimde as\u0131l \u00e7at\u0131\u015fma \u00e7o\u011fu zaman olaydan de\u011fil, o olaya y\u00fcklenen anlamdan do\u011far. Motivasyon ve ki\u015fisel geli\u015fim a\u00e7\u0131s\u0131ndan bu s\u00f6z bize \u015funu hat\u0131rlat\u0131r: \u0130li\u015fkilerde sorun, hat\u0131rlamak ya da unutmak de\u011fil; birbirimizin duygusal dilini anlayamamakt\u0131r.<\/p>\n

Bu s\u00f6zden ilhamla g\u00fcnl\u00fck hayatta uygulayabilece\u011fimiz tek bir pratik \u00f6neri: \u201cAnlam kontrol\u00fc\u201d al\u0131\u015fkanl\u0131\u011f\u0131 geli\u015ftirmek.<\/strong> Bir tart\u0131\u015fma ya\u015fad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131zda kendinize ve kar\u015f\u0131n\u0131zdakine \u015fu soruyu sorun: \u201cBu olay senin i\u00e7in ne anlama geliyor?\u201d Bu basit soru, savunma duvarlar\u0131n\u0131 indirir. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc \u00e7o\u011fu zaman biz olay\u0131 konu\u015furuz; ama anlam\u0131 konu\u015fmay\u0131z. Empati, ili\u015fkilerde motivasyonun yak\u0131t\u0131d\u0131r.<\/strong> Kar\u015f\u0131m\u0131zdakinin neden \u00fcz\u00fcld\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn\u00fc ger\u00e7ekten anlad\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131zda, \u00e7\u00f6z\u00fcm kendili\u011finden g\u00f6r\u00fcnmeye ba\u015flar.<\/p>\n

\u00d6rne\u011fin bir taraf \u00f6zel bir g\u00fcn\u00fc unutur, di\u011fer taraf k\u0131r\u0131l\u0131r. Unutan ki\u015fi i\u00e7in bu bir takvim meselesidir; hat\u0131rlayan i\u00e7in ise \u201cde\u011fer g\u00f6rme\u201d meselesi. \u0130\u015fte fark burada ba\u015flar. Biz olay\u0131n kendisine de\u011fil, temsil etti\u011fi duyguya odakland\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131zda ileti\u015fim g\u00fc\u00e7lenir. K\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck bir fark\u0131ndal\u0131k, b\u00fcy\u00fck bir k\u0131rg\u0131nl\u0131\u011f\u0131 \u00f6nleyebilir. G\u00fcn\u00fcn sonunda \u015funu g\u00f6r\u00fcr\u00fcz: \u0130li\u015fkiler, kimin hakl\u0131 oldu\u011fuyla de\u011fil; kimin daha \u00e7ok anlamaya g\u00f6n\u00fcll\u00fc oldu\u011fuyla g\u00fc\u00e7lenir.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

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Albert Einstein Kimdir?<\/strong><\/h3>\n

Albert Einstein (1879-1955) Alman as\u0131ll\u0131 teorik fizik\u00e7idir. G\u00f6relilik teorisiyle modern fizi\u011fin temel ta\u015flar\u0131n\u0131 olu\u015fturmu\u015f ve bilim tarihinde devrim yaratm\u0131\u015ft\u0131r. Nobel Fizik \u00d6d\u00fcl\u00fc sahibi olan Einstein, yaln\u0131zca bilimsel \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmalar\u0131yla de\u011fil; insanl\u0131k, bar\u0131\u015f ve d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnce \u00f6zg\u00fcrl\u00fc\u011f\u00fc konular\u0131ndaki g\u00f6r\u00fc\u015fleriyle de tan\u0131n\u0131r. Analitik zek\u00e2s\u0131 kadar insani y\u00f6n\u00fc ve derin g\u00f6zlem g\u00fcc\u00fcyle de dikkat \u00e7eken Einstein, farkl\u0131 alanlarda s\u00f6yledi\u011fi s\u00f6zlerle bug\u00fcn h\u00e2l\u00e2 ilham kayna\u011f\u0131 olmaya devam etmektedir.<\/p>\n

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\u0130nsanlara Dair \u00d6zl\u00fc S\u00f6zler ve \u00d6zdeyi\u015fler<\/a><\/p><\/blockquote>\n