{"id":22514,"date":"2016-09-29T13:45:39","date_gmt":"2016-09-29T10:45:39","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.ozdeyis.net\/?p=20707"},"modified":"2026-03-07T09:54:01","modified_gmt":"2026-03-07T09:54:01","slug":"kurbagayi-koltuga-oturtsano-yine-camura-atlar-arthur-miller","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/e-motivasyon.net\/en\/kurbagayi-koltuga-oturtsano-yine-camura-atlar-arthur-miller.html","title":{"rendered":"\u201cIf you put the frog on the seat, it will jump into the mud again.\u201d Arthur Miller"},"content":{"rendered":"

\u201cIf you put the frog on the seat, it will jump into the mud again.\u201d Arthur Miller<\/strong><\/em><\/h3>\n

\""Kurba\u011fay\u0131<\/a><\/h3>\n

\u201cKurba\u011fay\u0131 koltu\u011fa oturtsan, o yine \u00e7amura atlar.\u201d s\u00f6z\u00fcyle Arthur Miller<\/span><\/span>, insan\u0131n al\u0131\u015fkanl\u0131klar\u0131n\u0131n ve karakterinin g\u00fcc\u00fcne dikkat \u00e7eker. Bu s\u00f6z, d\u0131\u015f ko\u015fullar de\u011fi\u015fse bile ki\u015finin i\u00e7 d\u00fcnyas\u0131 de\u011fi\u015fmedik\u00e7e davran\u0131\u015flar\u0131n\u0131n da kolay kolay de\u011fi\u015fmeyece\u011fini anlat\u0131r. Birine daha iyi bir ortam, daha iyi f\u0131rsatlar veya daha y\u00fcksek bir stat\u00fc verilebilir; ancak al\u0131\u015fkanl\u0131klar, d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnce bi\u00e7imleri ve de\u011ferler d\u00f6n\u00fc\u015fmedi\u011fi s\u00fcrece ki\u015fi \u00e7o\u011fu zaman eski davran\u0131\u015f kal\u0131plar\u0131na geri d\u00f6ner.<\/strong> Arthur Miller\u2019\u0131n bu \u00e7arp\u0131c\u0131 benzetmesi bize \u015fu ger\u00e7e\u011fi hat\u0131rlat\u0131r: Hayat\u0131m\u0131zdaki ger\u00e7ek de\u011fi\u015fim d\u0131\u015far\u0131dan gelen imkanlarla de\u011fil, i\u00e7sel fark\u0131ndal\u0131k ve karakter geli\u015fimiyle<\/strong> ger\u00e7ekle\u015fir.<\/p>\n

Bu s\u00f6zden ilham alarak g\u00fcnl\u00fck hayatta uygulayabilece\u011fimiz pratik bir \u00f6neri olduk\u00e7a nettir: Al\u0131\u015fkanl\u0131klar\u0131m\u0131z\u0131 bilin\u00e7li \u015fekilde g\u00f6zlemlemek.<\/strong> \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc \u00e7o\u011fu zaman hayat\u0131m\u0131zda tekrar eden sorunlar\u0131n nedeni d\u0131\u015f ko\u015fullar de\u011fil, otomatik davran\u0131\u015f kal\u0131plar\u0131m\u0131zd\u0131r. \u00d6rne\u011fin zaman y\u00f6netimi konusunda zorlanan bir ki\u015fi, yeni bir planlama uygulamas\u0131 indirerek sorunu \u00e7\u00f6zmeye \u00e7al\u0131\u015fabilir. Oysa as\u0131l mesele erteleme al\u0131\u015fkanl\u0131\u011f\u0131ysa, ara\u00e7lar de\u011fil davran\u0131\u015f bi\u00e7imi de\u011fi\u015fmelidir. Bu nedenle kendimize \u015fu soruyu sormak g\u00fc\u00e7l\u00fc bir ba\u015flang\u0131\u00e7 olabilir: \u201cBen ger\u00e7ekten de\u011fi\u015fmek istiyor muyum, yoksa sadece ko\u015fullar\u0131n de\u011fi\u015fmesini mi bekliyorum?\u201d Ger\u00e7ek d\u00f6n\u00fc\u015f\u00fcm, \u00f6nce bu soruya verilen d\u00fcr\u00fcst cevapla ba\u015flar.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Hayattan basit bir \u00f6rnek d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnelim. Bir ki\u015fi i\u015f yerinde s\u00fcrekli ayn\u0131 hatalar\u0131 yap\u0131yor ve her yeni ba\u015flang\u0131\u00e7ta \u201cBu kez farkl\u0131 olacak\u201d diyor. Ancak d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnme bi\u00e7imi ve \u00e7al\u0131\u015fma al\u0131\u015fkanl\u0131klar\u0131 de\u011fi\u015fmedi\u011fi s\u00fcrece sonu\u00e7 yine ayn\u0131 oluyor. \u0130\u015fte bu noktada Arthur Miller<\/span><\/span>\u2019\u0131n s\u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fcn g\u00fcc\u00fc ortaya \u00e7\u0131kar. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc ger\u00e7ek de\u011fi\u015fim, koltu\u011fa oturmakla de\u011fil; insan\u0131n kendi i\u00e7indeki \u201c\u00e7amuru\u201d fark edip onu d\u00f6n\u00fc\u015ft\u00fcrmesiyle m\u00fcmk\u00fcnd\u00fcr.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

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Arthur Miller Kimdir?<\/strong><\/h3>\n

Arthur Miller<\/span><\/span> (1915-2005) Amerikal\u0131 oyun yazar\u0131 ve edebiyat\u00e7\u0131d\u0131r. 20. y\u00fczy\u0131l tiyatrosunun en \u00f6nemli isimlerinden biri olarak kabul edilir. Death of a Salesman<\/em> (Sat\u0131c\u0131n\u0131n \u00d6l\u00fcm\u00fc) ve The Crucible<\/em> (Cad\u0131 Kazan\u0131) gibi eserlerinde toplum, ahlak, g\u00fc\u00e7 ve bireyin vicdan\u0131 \u00fczerine derin sorgulamalar yapm\u0131\u015ft\u0131r. Arthur Miller, insan karakterini ve toplumsal bask\u0131lar\u0131 g\u00fc\u00e7l\u00fc bir dramatik anlat\u0131mla ele alan eserleriyle d\u00fcnya edebiyat\u0131nda kal\u0131c\u0131 bir etki b\u0131rakm\u0131\u015ft\u0131r.<\/p>\n

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