{"id":22477,"date":"2016-09-27T00:15:32","date_gmt":"2016-09-26T21:15:32","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.ozdeyis.net\/?p=20619"},"modified":"2026-04-24T13:25:04","modified_gmt":"2026-04-24T13:25:04","slug":"insan-kendi-yasaminin-yagmurlarinda-islanma-firsatini-kacirmamali-charles-bukowski","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/e-motivasyon.net\/en\/insan-kendi-yasaminin-yagmurlarinda-islanma-firsatini-kacirmamali-charles-bukowski.html","title":{"rendered":"\u201cOne should not miss the opportunity to get wet in the rains of one's own life.\u201d Charles Bukowski"},"content":{"rendered":"

\u201cOne should not miss the opportunity to get wet in the rains of one's own life.\u201d Charles Bukowski<\/em><\/strong><\/h3>\n

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Charles Bukowski<\/span><\/span> taraf\u0131ndan ifade edilen \u201c\u0130nsan, kendi ya\u015fam\u0131n\u0131n ya\u011fmurlar\u0131nda \u0131slanma f\u0131rsat\u0131n\u0131 ka\u00e7\u0131rmamal\u0131.\u201d s\u00f6z\u00fc, hayat\u0131 yaln\u0131zca g\u00fcvenli ve konforlu alanlardan ibaret g\u00f6rmemeniz gerekti\u011fini g\u00fc\u00e7l\u00fc bir \u015fekilde hat\u0131rlat\u0131r. \u00c7o\u011fu zaman zor anlardan, duygusal f\u0131rt\u0131nalardan ya da riskli deneyimlerden ka\u00e7\u0131nmak isteriz. Oysa Bukowski\u2019nin i\u015faret etti\u011fi ger\u00e7ek \u015fudur: Hayat\u0131n en sahici anlar\u0131, \u00e7o\u011fu zaman bizi zorlayan, \u0131slatan, hatta \u00fc\u015f\u00fcten anlar\u0131n i\u00e7inde sakl\u0131d\u0131r.<\/strong> Ya\u011fmur burada bir metafordur; ac\u0131y\u0131, belirsizli\u011fi, tutkuyu ve ger\u00e7ek deneyimi temsil eder. E\u011fer s\u00fcrekli korunmaya \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131rsak, belki \u0131slanmay\u0131z ama ger\u00e7ek anlamda ya\u015famay\u0131 da \u0131skalar\u0131z.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Bu s\u00f6zden ilhamla g\u00fcnl\u00fck hayatta uygulayabilece\u011finiz pratik \u00f6neri: Sizi biraz tedirgin eden ama ayn\u0131 zamanda heyecanland\u0131ran bir deneyime bilin\u00e7li olarak ad\u0131m at\u0131n. Bu, duygular\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 a\u00e7\u0131k\u00e7a ifade etmek, yeni bir \u015feye ba\u015flamak ya da uzun zamand\u0131r erteledi\u011finiz bir karar\u0131 almak olabilir. Buradaki anahtar nokta \u015fu: Ka\u00e7\u0131nmak yerine deneyimlemeyi se\u00e7mek.<\/strong> \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc geli\u015fim, \u00e7o\u011fu zaman konfor alan\u0131n\u0131n hemen d\u0131\u015f\u0131nda ba\u015flar. Ve evet, bazen \u0131slanacaks\u0131n\u0131z; ama tam da o noktada kendinizi daha canl\u0131 hissedeceksiniz.<\/p>\n

Bunu basit bir \u00f6rnekle d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnelim: Ya\u011fmur ya\u011farken herkes bir yerlere s\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131r, ama bir \u00e7ocuk ya\u011fmurun alt\u0131nda ko\u015far, g\u00fcler ve o an\u0131n tad\u0131n\u0131 \u00e7\u0131kar\u0131r. Yeti\u015fkin olarak bizler ise \u00e7o\u011fu zaman hayat\u0131n ya\u011fmurundan ka\u00e7may\u0131 \u00f6\u011freniriz. Oysa belki de yeniden \u00f6\u011frenmemiz gereken \u015fey, o ya\u011fmurun i\u00e7inde kalabilmektir. Hayat\u0131n sundu\u011fu her duyguyu ya\u015fayabilmek, onu ger\u00e7ekten deneyimleyebilmektir.<\/strong> Ve unutmay\u0131n: Hayat\u0131 anlaman\u0131n yolu, ondan ka\u00e7mak de\u011fil; onun ya\u011fmurunda \u0131slanmay\u0131 g\u00f6ze almakt\u0131r.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

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Charles Bukowski Kimdir?<\/strong><\/h3>\n

Charles Bukowski (1920-1994) Alman as\u0131ll\u0131 Amerikal\u0131 \u015fair, yazar ve romanc\u0131d\u0131r. Sert, ger\u00e7ek\u00e7i ve \u00e7o\u011fu zaman ayk\u0131r\u0131 \u00fcslubuyla tan\u0131n\u0131r. Eserlerinde s\u0131radan insanlar\u0131n ya\u015famlar\u0131n\u0131, yaln\u0131zl\u0131\u011f\u0131, m\u00fccadeleyi ve hayat\u0131n karanl\u0131k y\u00f6nlerini yal\u0131n bir dille anlatm\u0131\u015ft\u0131r. \u201cPostane\u201d, \u201cKad\u0131nlar\u201d ve \u201cFactotum\u201d gibi eserleriyle geni\u015f bir okur kitlesine ula\u015fm\u0131\u015ft\u0131r.<\/p>\n

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\u0130nsanlara Dair \u00d6zl\u00fc S\u00f6zler ve \u00d6zdeyi\u015fler<\/a><\/p><\/blockquote>\n