{"id":22447,"date":"2016-09-23T23:04:57","date_gmt":"2016-09-23T20:04:57","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.ozdeyis.net\/?p=20547"},"modified":"2026-07-25T06:33:24","modified_gmt":"2026-07-25T06:33:24","slug":"derin-ruhlar-kendilerini-topluma-teslim-etmezler-yalnizliklarindan-odun-vermezler-soren-kierkegaard","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/e-motivasyon.net\/en\/derin-ruhlar-kendilerini-topluma-teslim-etmezler-yalnizliklarindan-odun-vermezler-soren-kierkegaard.html","title":{"rendered":"\u201cDeep souls do not surrender themselves to society, they do not compromise their loneliness.\u201d Soren Kierkegaard"},"content":{"rendered":"

\u201cDeep souls do not surrender themselves to society, they do not compromise their loneliness.\u201d Soren Kierkegaard<\/strong><\/em><\/h3>\n

\u0130nsan, \u00e7evresi taraf\u0131ndan kabul g\u00f6rmek i\u00e7in zaman zaman kendi d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcncelerinden, de\u011ferlerinden ve hatta kimli\u011finden \u00f6d\u00fcn verebilir. Oysa S\u00f8ren Kierkegaard’\u0131n “Derin ruhlar, kendilerini topluma teslim etmezler, yaln\u0131zl\u0131klar\u0131ndan \u00f6d\u00fcn vermezler.” s\u00f6z\u00fc, insan\u0131n kendisiyle kurdu\u011fu ili\u015fkinin, kalabal\u0131klar\u0131n onay\u0131ndan daha de\u011ferli oldu\u011funu anlat\u0131r.<\/strong> Buradaki yaln\u0131zl\u0131k, insanlardan uzakla\u015fmak ya da toplumdan kopmak anlam\u0131na gelmez. Aksine, ki\u015finin gerekti\u011finde tek ba\u015f\u0131na kalabilmesi, kendi sesini duyabilmesi ve s\u0131rf \u00e7o\u011funluk \u00f6yle istiyor diye inan\u00e7lar\u0131ndan vazge\u00e7memesidir. Ki\u015fisel geli\u015fim, ba\u015fkalar\u0131n\u0131n beklentilerine g\u00f6re ya\u015famak de\u011fil; kendi de\u011ferlerini koruyarak bilin\u00e7li se\u00e7imler yapabilmektir.<\/p>\n

Bu d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnceyi g\u00fcnl\u00fck ya\u015famda uygulaman\u0131n etkili bir yolu, her g\u00fcn on be\u015f dakikan\u0131z\u0131 telefon, bilgisayar ve sosyal medya olmadan yaln\u0131z kalmaya ay\u0131rmakt\u0131r.<\/strong> Bu s\u00fcreyi d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnmek, g\u00fcnl\u00fck tutmak ya da yaln\u0131zca sessizce oturmak i\u00e7in kullanabilirsiniz. Ba\u015flang\u0131\u00e7ta bu sessizlik size al\u0131\u015f\u0131lmad\u0131k gelebilir; ancak zamanla kendi d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcncelerinizi daha net duymaya ba\u015flad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 fark edersiniz. Kendisiyle ba\u015f ba\u015fa kalabilen insan, d\u0131\u015f d\u00fcnyan\u0131n g\u00fcr\u00fclt\u00fcs\u00fcne kar\u015f\u0131 da daha diren\u00e7li h\u00e2le gelir.<\/p>\n

Bir d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcn; iki ki\u015fi de \u00e7evresinin bask\u0131s\u0131yla \u00f6nemli bir karar vermek zorunda kal\u0131yor. Biri s\u0131rf ele\u015ftirilmemek i\u00e7in istemedi\u011fi bir yolu se\u00e7iyor, di\u011feri ise k\u0131sa s\u00fcreli yaln\u0131z kalmay\u0131 g\u00f6ze alarak kendi de\u011ferlerine uygun hareket ediyor. Aradan y\u0131llar ge\u00e7ti\u011finde ikinci ki\u015finin daha huzurlu ve kendisiyle daha bar\u0131\u015f\u0131k bir ya\u015fam s\u00fcrd\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn\u00fc g\u00f6rmek \u015fa\u015f\u0131rt\u0131c\u0131 de\u011fildir. Ger\u00e7ek \u00f6zg\u00fcrl\u00fck, kalabal\u0131klar\u0131n alk\u0131\u015f\u0131n\u0131 kazanmak de\u011fil; gerekti\u011finde yaln\u0131z kalma cesaretini g\u00f6sterebilmektir. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc insan, kendi i\u00e7 sesini kaybetmedi\u011fi s\u00fcrece, hayat\u0131n en do\u011fru y\u00f6n\u00fcn\u00fc bulma \u015fans\u0131n\u0131 da kaybetmez.<\/strong><\/em> S\u00f8ren Kierkegaard’\u0131n bu s\u00f6z\u00fc, bize yaln\u0131zl\u0131\u011f\u0131n bazen ka\u00e7\u0131lmas\u0131 gereken bir durum de\u011fil, kendimizi buldu\u011fumuz en de\u011ferli alanlardan biri oldu\u011funu hat\u0131rlat\u0131r.<\/p>\n

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S\u00f8ren Kierkegaard Kimdir?<\/h3>\n

S\u00f8ren Kierkegaard (1813-1855) Danimarkal\u0131 filozof, ilahiyat\u00e7\u0131 ve yazard\u0131r. Modern varolu\u015f\u00e7uluk d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcncesinin \u00f6nc\u00fclerinden biri kabul edilen Kierkegaard, bireyin \u00f6zg\u00fcrl\u00fc\u011f\u00fc, se\u00e7imleri, inanc\u0131, kayg\u0131s\u0131 ve ya\u015fam\u0131n anlam\u0131 \u00fczerine geli\u015ftirdi\u011fi derin fikirlerle felsefe tarihine y\u00f6n vermi\u015ftir. Eserlerinde insan\u0131n toplumun beklentileri yerine kendi vicdan\u0131 ve de\u011ferleri do\u011frultusunda ya\u015famas\u0131n\u0131n \u00f6nemini vurgulam\u0131\u015ft\u0131r. Ya\/Ya Da (Either\/Or), Korku ve Titreme (Fear and Trembling) ve \u00d6l\u00fcme G\u00f6t\u00fcren Hastal\u0131k (The Sickness Unto Death) en \u00f6nemli eserleri aras\u0131nda yer al\u0131r. G\u00fcn\u00fcm\u00fczde de psikoloji, ki\u015fisel geli\u015fim ve felsefe alanlar\u0131nda en \u00e7ok ba\u015fvurulan d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcrlerden biri olmay\u0131 s\u00fcrd\u00fcrmektedir.<\/p>\n

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\u0130nsanlara Dair \u00d6zl\u00fc S\u00f6zler ve \u00d6zdeyi\u015fler<\/a><\/p><\/blockquote>\n