{"id":22356,"date":"2016-09-16T00:51:01","date_gmt":"2016-09-15T21:51:01","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.ozdeyis.net\/?p=20347"},"modified":"2026-10-08T17:23:01","modified_gmt":"2026-10-08T17:23:01","slug":"kotu-gunlerin-iyi-taraflari-da-vardir-insanlari-tanirsin-ozellikle-yaninda-sandiklarini-haruki-murakami","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/e-motivasyon.net\/en\/kotu-gunlerin-iyi-taraflari-da-vardir-insanlari-tanirsin-ozellikle-yaninda-sandiklarini-haruki-murakami.html","title":{"rendered":"\u201cBad days have their good sides too. You get to know people, especially those you have with them.\u201d Haruki Murakami"},"content":{"rendered":"

\u201cBad days have their good sides too. You get to know people, especially those you have with them.\u201d Haruki Murakami<\/em><\/strong><\/h3>\n

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Haruki Murakami\u2019nin bu s\u00f6z\u00fc, zor zamanlar\u0131n yaln\u0131zca bizi s\u0131namad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131, ayn\u0131 zamanda \u00e7evremizdeki insanlar\u0131n ger\u00e7ek y\u00fcz\u00fcn\u00fc g\u00f6rmemize de yard\u0131mc\u0131 oldu\u011funu<\/strong> anlat\u0131r. Her \u015fey yolundayken yan\u0131m\u0131zda olanlarla, i\u015fler zorla\u015ft\u0131\u011f\u0131nda ger\u00e7ekten yan\u0131m\u0131zda kalanlar ayn\u0131 ki\u015filer olmayabilir. \u0130yi g\u00fcnlerde dostluklar \u00e7o\u011fu zaman s\u00f6zlerle, payla\u015f\u0131lan keyiflerle ve ortak al\u0131\u015fkanl\u0131klarla kendini g\u00f6sterir; k\u00f6t\u00fc g\u00fcnlerde ise davran\u0131\u015flar konu\u015fmaya ba\u015flar. Kim ger\u00e7ekten merak ediyor, kim sessizce destek oluyor, kim yaln\u0131zca i\u015fler yolundayken hayat\u0131m\u0131zda bulunuyor; bunlar\u0131 daha net g\u00f6r\u00fcr\u00fcz. Zor g\u00fcnler bu anlamda yaln\u0131zca kaybettiklerimizi de\u011fil, asl\u0131nda kimlere sahip oldu\u011fumuzu da g\u00f6steren bir aynad\u0131r.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Bu s\u00f6zden g\u00fcnl\u00fck hayat\u0131m\u0131z i\u00e7in \u00e7\u0131karabilece\u011fimiz tek bir pratik \u00f6neri var: Zorland\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z bir d\u00f6nemde \u00e7evrenizdeki insanlar\u0131n s\u00f6zlerinden \u00e7ok davran\u0131\u015flar\u0131n\u0131 g\u00f6zlemleyin.<\/strong> Kimin sizi ger\u00e7ekten dinledi\u011fine, kim hi\u00e7bir kar\u015f\u0131l\u0131k beklemeden yan\u0131n\u0131zda oldu\u011funa ve kimin yaln\u0131zca ihtiya\u00e7 duydu\u011funda sizi arad\u0131\u011f\u0131na dikkat edin. Bunu yaparken insanlar\u0131 hemen yarg\u0131lamak veya hayat\u0131m\u0131zdan \u00e7\u0131karmak yerine, ili\u015fkilerimizi daha ger\u00e7ek\u00e7i bir g\u00f6zle de\u011ferlendirebiliriz. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc bazen ya\u015fad\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z hayal k\u0131r\u0131kl\u0131\u011f\u0131, kar\u015f\u0131m\u0131zdaki insan\u0131n de\u011fi\u015fmesinden de\u011fil, bizim onu oldu\u011fundan farkl\u0131 g\u00f6rm\u00fc\u015f oldu\u011fumuzu fark etmemizden<\/strong> kaynaklan\u0131r.<\/p>\n

\u00d6rne\u011fin i\u015fini kaybetti\u011fi zor bir d\u00f6nemden ge\u00e7en bir insan\u0131 d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnelim. Daha \u00f6nce s\u00fcrekli birlikte vakit ge\u00e7irdi\u011fi baz\u0131 arkada\u015flar\u0131 art\u0131k aramazken, \u00e7ok yak\u0131n olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnd\u00fc\u011f\u00fc ba\u015fka biri onu d\u00fczenli olarak aray\u0131p nas\u0131l oldu\u011funu sorabilir. B\u00f6yle bir deneyim, insan\u0131n \u00e7evresindeki ili\u015fkileri yeniden de\u011ferlendirmesine neden olur. Belki baz\u0131 ba\u011flar\u0131n sand\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z kadar g\u00fc\u00e7l\u00fc olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131, baz\u0131 insanlar\u0131n ise sessizce hayat\u0131m\u0131zda \u00e7ok daha de\u011ferli bir yere sahip oldu\u011funu fark ederiz. K\u00f6t\u00fc g\u00fcnler hayat\u0131m\u0131zdan baz\u0131 insanlar\u0131 eksiltebilir; ama ayn\u0131 zamanda kimin ger\u00e7ekten yan\u0131m\u0131zda oldu\u011funu g\u00f6stererek ili\u015fkilerimizi daha sahici h\u00e2le getirebilir.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

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Haruki Murakami Kimdir?<\/h3>\n

Haruki Murakami (1949-) Japon yazar ve \u00e7evirmendir. Kyoto\u2019da do\u011fan Murakami, eserlerinde yaln\u0131zl\u0131k, yabanc\u0131la\u015fma, a\u015fk, kay\u0131p, bellek ve insan\u0131n kendi i\u00e7 d\u00fcnyas\u0131yla kurdu\u011fu ili\u015fki gibi temalar\u0131 kendine \u00f6zg\u00fc anlat\u0131m\u0131yla i\u015fler. \u0130lk roman\u0131 Hear the Wind Sing<\/em> 1979\u2019da yay\u0131mland\u0131; daha sonra Sahilde Kafka, \u0130mk\u00e2ns\u0131z\u0131n \u015eark\u0131s\u0131, 1Q84 ve Zemberekku\u015fu\u2019nun G\u00fcncesi gibi uluslararas\u0131 \u00f6l\u00e7ekte tan\u0131nan eserler verdi. Bat\u0131 edebiyat\u0131ndan \u00e7e\u015fitli eserleri Japoncaya da \u00e7eviren Murakami, romanlar\u0131n\u0131n yan\u0131 s\u0131ra \u00f6yk\u00fc ve deneme kitaplar\u0131yla da \u00e7a\u011fda\u015f d\u00fcnya edebiyat\u0131n\u0131n \u00f6ne \u00e7\u0131kan isimlerinden biri h\u00e2line gelmi\u015ftir.<\/p>\n

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\u0130nsanlara Dair \u00d6zl\u00fc S\u00f6zler ve \u00d6zdeyi\u015fler<\/a><\/p><\/blockquote>\n