{"id":22327,"date":"2016-09-09T17:58:23","date_gmt":"2016-09-09T14:58:23","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.ozdeyis.net\/?p=20288"},"modified":"2026-02-21T12:36:24","modified_gmt":"2026-02-21T12:36:24","slug":"insan-kendinde-gormek-istemedigi-kotuluk-ve-degersizlik-dusuncelerini-diger-insanlara-atfeder-carl-gustav-jung","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/e-motivasyon.net\/en\/insan-kendinde-gormek-istemedigi-kotuluk-ve-degersizlik-dusuncelerini-diger-insanlara-atfeder-carl-gustav-jung.html","title":{"rendered":"\u201cMan attributes to other people thoughts of evil and worthlessness that he does not want to see in himself.\u201d Carl Gustav Jung"},"content":{"rendered":"

“\u0130nsan, kendinde g\u00f6rmek istemedi\u011fi k\u00f6t\u00fcl\u00fck ve de\u011fersizlik d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcncelerini di\u011fer insanlara atfeder.” Carl Gustav Jung<\/em><\/strong><\/h3>\n

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\u201c\u0130nsan, kendinde g\u00f6rmek istemedi\u011fi k\u00f6t\u00fcl\u00fck ve de\u011fersizlik d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcncelerini di\u011fer insanlara atfeder.\u201d s\u00f6z\u00fc, Carl Gustav Jung<\/span><\/span>\u2019un psikoloji literat\u00fcr\u00fcne kazand\u0131rd\u0131\u011f\u0131 \u201cg\u00f6lge\u201d<\/strong> kavram\u0131n\u0131n \u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fc anlat\u0131r. Jung\u2019a g\u00f6re hepimizin bilin\u00e7d\u0131\u015f\u0131nda bast\u0131rd\u0131\u011f\u0131, kabul etmekte zorland\u0131\u011f\u0131 y\u00f6nleri vard\u0131r. K\u0131skan\u00e7l\u0131k, \u00f6fke, yetersizlik hissi, de\u011fersizlik d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcncesi\u2026 Bunlar\u0131 kendimize yak\u0131\u015ft\u0131ramad\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131zda zihnimiz savunmaya ge\u00e7er ve bu \u00f6zellikleri ba\u015fkalar\u0131nda g\u00f6rmeye ba\u015flar\u0131z. Buna psikolojide \u201cyans\u0131tma\u201d denir. Ba\u015fkalar\u0131nda bizi en \u00e7ok rahats\u0131z eden \u015fey, \u00e7o\u011fu zaman kendi g\u00f6lgemizin yans\u0131mas\u0131d\u0131r.<\/strong> Ki\u015fisel geli\u015fim yolculu\u011funda en zor ad\u0131m, aynaya d\u00fcr\u00fcst\u00e7e bakabilmektir. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc ger\u00e7ek d\u00f6n\u00fc\u015f\u00fcm, su\u00e7lamakla de\u011fil; sorumluluk almakla ba\u015flar.<\/p>\n

Bu s\u00f6zden ilhamla g\u00fcnl\u00fck hayatta uygulayabilece\u011fimiz tek bir pratik \u00f6neri \u015fu olabilir: \u201cTetikleyici g\u00fcnl\u00fc\u011f\u00fc\u201d tutun.<\/strong> G\u00fcn i\u00e7inde sizi a\u015f\u0131r\u0131 derecede rahats\u0131z eden bir davran\u0131\u015fla kar\u015f\u0131la\u015ft\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131zda durun ve \u015funu yaz\u0131n: \u201cBu davran\u0131\u015f bende hangi duyguyu uyand\u0131rd\u0131? Bu duygu bana kendimle ilgili ne s\u00f6yl\u00fcyor olabilir?\u201d \u00d6rne\u011fin birinin kibri sizi \u00f6fkelendiriyorsa, belki de kendi de\u011fersizlik hassasiyetinize dokunuyordur. Birinin ba\u015far\u0131s\u0131 sizi rahats\u0131z ediyorsa, belki bast\u0131rd\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z rekabet duygunuz vard\u0131r. Bu egzersiz \u00f6zg\u00fcveni zay\u0131flatmaz; aksine g\u00fc\u00e7lendirir. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc g\u00f6lgesini tan\u0131yan insan, ba\u015fkalar\u0131n\u0131 su\u00e7lamak yerine kendini geli\u015ftirir.<\/p>\n

Diyelim ki i\u015f yerinde bir arkada\u015f\u0131n\u0131z\u0131n s\u00fcrekli takdir g\u00f6rmesine i\u00e7erliyorsunuz. Onu \u201cyalaka\u201d ya da \u201c\u015fansl\u0131\u201d diye etiketlemek kolayd\u0131r. Ama bir an durup i\u00e7 sesinizi dinledi\u011finizde belki de g\u00f6r\u00fclme ihtiyac\u0131n\u0131z\u0131n kar\u015f\u0131lanmad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 fark edersiniz. \u0130\u015fte o an su\u00e7lama yerini fark\u0131ndal\u0131\u011fa b\u0131rak\u0131r. Jung\u2019un i\u015faret etti\u011fi hakikat nettir: Kendi g\u00f6lgesini tan\u0131mayan insan, onu ba\u015fkalar\u0131n\u0131n \u00fczerine yans\u0131tarak ya\u015far; g\u00f6lgesini kabul eden ise ger\u00e7ek \u00f6zg\u00fcrl\u00fc\u011fe yakla\u015f\u0131r.<\/strong><\/em> Psikolojik olgunluk ve i\u00e7sel motivasyon, d\u0131\u015f d\u00fcnyay\u0131 d\u00fczeltmekle de\u011fil; i\u00e7 d\u00fcnyay\u0131 ayd\u0131nlatmakla ba\u015flar.<\/p>\n

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Carl Gustav Jung Kimdir?<\/strong><\/h3>\n

Carl Gustav Jung (1875-1961) \u0130svi\u00e7reli psikiyatrist ve analitik psikolojinin kurucusudur. Bilin\u00e7d\u0131\u015f\u0131, arketipler, kolektif bilin\u00e7d\u0131\u015f\u0131 ve g\u00f6lge kavramlar\u0131yla modern psikolojiye \u00f6nemli katk\u0131lar sa\u011flam\u0131\u015ft\u0131r. Sigmund Freud ile \u00e7al\u0131\u015fm\u0131\u015f ancak daha sonra kendi kuramsal yakla\u015f\u0131m\u0131n\u0131 geli\u015ftirmi\u015ftir. \u0130nsan ruhunun derinliklerini anlamaya y\u00f6nelik \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmalar\u0131yla psikoloji tarihinde kal\u0131c\u0131 bir iz b\u0131rakm\u0131\u015ft\u0131r.<\/p>\n

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\u0130nsanlara Dair \u00d6zl\u00fc S\u00f6zler ve \u00d6zdeyi\u015fler<\/a><\/p><\/blockquote>\n