{"id":22201,"date":"2016-08-21T00:57:28","date_gmt":"2016-08-20T21:57:28","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.ozdeyis.net\/?p=19802"},"modified":"2026-07-09T18:22:51","modified_gmt":"2026-07-09T18:22:51","slug":"kendine-hayran-olanlara-kimse-hayran-olmaz-konfucyus","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/e-motivasyon.net\/en\/kendine-hayran-olanlara-kimse-hayran-olmaz-konfucyus.html","title":{"rendered":"\u201cNo one admires those who admire themselves.\u201d Confucius"},"content":{"rendered":"

\u201cNo one admires those who admire themselves.\u201d Confucius<\/strong><\/em><\/h3>\n

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Konf\u00fc\u00e7y\u00fcs’\u00fcn bu s\u00f6z\u00fc, ger\u00e7ek sayg\u0131n\u0131n ve takdirin \u00f6v\u00fcnerek de\u011fil, karakterle kazan\u0131ld\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 anlat\u0131r. Kendini s\u00fcrekli y\u00fccelten, ba\u015far\u0131lar\u0131n\u0131 durmadan anlatan ya da her ortamda ilgi oda\u011f\u0131 olmaya \u00e7al\u0131\u015fan ki\u015filer, zamanla \u00e7evrelerindeki insanlar\u0131n samimi hayranl\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 de\u011fil, mesafesini kazan\u0131rlar. Oysa tevazu<\/strong>, insan\u0131n sahip oldu\u011fu de\u011ferleri k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fcmsemesi de\u011fil; onlar\u0131 g\u00f6steri\u015fe ihtiya\u00e7 duymadan ya\u015fayabilmesidir. Ger\u00e7ek b\u00fcy\u00fckl\u00fck, ba\u015fkalar\u0131n\u0131n sizi \u00f6vmesini beklemek yerine, davran\u0131\u015flar\u0131n\u0131z\u0131n kendili\u011finden konu\u015fmas\u0131na izin verebilmektir.<\/p>\n

Bu d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnceyi g\u00fcnl\u00fck ya\u015fam\u0131n\u0131za ta\u015f\u0131mak i\u00e7in bug\u00fcn k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck bir al\u0131\u015fkanl\u0131k edinin: Bir ba\u015far\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 anlatmadan \u00f6nce, kar\u015f\u0131n\u0131zdaki ki\u015finin ba\u015far\u0131s\u0131n\u0131 veya eme\u011fini takdir eden samimi bir c\u00fcmle kurun. B\u00f6ylece hem daha g\u00fc\u00e7l\u00fc ili\u015fkiler kurabilir hem de empati<\/strong>, al\u00e7akg\u00f6n\u00fcll\u00fcl\u00fck<\/strong> ve etkili ileti\u015fim becerilerinizi geli\u015ftirebilirsiniz. \u0130lgin\u00e7tir ki insanlar, kendilerini ger\u00e7ekten dinleyen ve de\u011fer veren ki\u015fileri, s\u00fcrekli kendinden bahseden ki\u015filerden \u00e7ok daha uzun s\u00fcre hat\u0131rlar.<\/p>\n

D\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcn; i\u015f hayat\u0131nda ya da sosyal \u00e7evrenizde en \u00e7ok sayg\u0131 duydu\u011funuz insanlar genellikle en y\u00fcksek sesle konu\u015fanlar de\u011fil, gerekti\u011finde konu\u015fup gerekti\u011finde dinlemeyi bilen ki\u015filerdir. Onlar\u0131n de\u011feri, s\u00f6yledikleri kadar sergiledikleri tav\u0131rlardan gelir. Biz de ba\u015far\u0131lar\u0131m\u0131z\u0131 ba\u011f\u0131rarak duyurmaya \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmak yerine, onlar\u0131 davran\u0131\u015flar\u0131m\u0131zla g\u00f6r\u00fcn\u00fcr k\u0131ld\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131zda \u00e7evremizde daha kal\u0131c\u0131 bir etki b\u0131rakabiliriz. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc ger\u00e7ek hayranl\u0131k, insan\u0131n kendisini \u00f6vmesiyle de\u011fil; ba\u015fkalar\u0131n\u0131n onun karakterine, eme\u011fine ve al\u00e7akg\u00f6n\u00fcll\u00fcl\u00fc\u011f\u00fcne duydu\u011fu i\u00e7ten sayg\u0131yla olu\u015fur.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

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Who is Confucius?<\/strong><\/h3>\n

Konf\u00fc\u00e7y\u00fcs (M\u00d6 551-M\u00d6 479) \u00c7inli filozof, d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcr ve e\u011fitimcidir. Do\u011fu felsefesinin en etkili isimlerinden biri olan Konf\u00fc\u00e7y\u00fcs; ahlak, erdem, adalet, bilgelik, aile ba\u011flar\u0131 ve toplumsal d\u00fczen \u00fczerine geli\u015ftirdi\u011fi \u00f6\u011fretilerle y\u00fczy\u0131llar boyunca milyonlarca insan\u0131 etkilemi\u015ftir. \u0130nsan ili\u015fkilerinde d\u00fcr\u00fcstl\u00fc\u011f\u00fc, tevazuyu, sayg\u0131y\u0131 ve s\u00fcrekli \u00f6\u011frenmeyi temel alan d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnceleri, g\u00fcn\u00fcm\u00fczde de ki\u015fisel geli\u015fim ve liderlik alan\u0131nda ilham vermeye devam etmektedir.<\/p>\n

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\u0130nsanlara Dair \u00d6zl\u00fc S\u00f6zler ve \u00d6zdeyi\u015fler<\/a><\/p><\/blockquote>\n