{"id":22143,"date":"2016-08-16T17:08:36","date_gmt":"2016-08-16T14:08:36","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.ozdeyis.net\/?p=19677"},"modified":"2026-07-23T09:18:01","modified_gmt":"2026-07-23T09:18:01","slug":"dost-gibi-gorunen-yalakalar-farkli-olmaya-calisan-basit-insanlar-arkamizdan-kurulan-oyunlar-kural-hep-ayni-gul-ve-gec-douglas-adams","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/e-motivasyon.net\/en\/dost-gibi-gorunen-yalakalar-farkli-olmaya-calisan-basit-insanlar-arkamizdan-kurulan-oyunlar-kural-hep-ayni-gul-ve-gec-douglas-adams.html","title":{"rendered":"\u201cPeople who seem like friends, simple people trying to be different, games behind our backs. The rule is always the same; laugh and pass!\u201d Douglas Adams"},"content":{"rendered":"

\u201cPeople who seem like friends, simple people trying to be different, games behind our backs. The rule is always the same; laugh and pass!\u201d Douglas Adams<\/strong><\/em><\/h3>\n

Hayat boyunca samimiyetle yakla\u015fan insanlarla kar\u015f\u0131la\u015faca\u011f\u0131m\u0131z gibi, \u00e7\u0131kar ili\u015fkilerini dostluk gibi g\u00f6steren ki\u015filerle de kar\u015f\u0131la\u015fabiliriz. Kimi zaman gereksiz ele\u015ftiriler, k\u0131skan\u00e7l\u0131klar, dedikodular ya da arkam\u0131zdan \u00e7evrilen k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck hesaplar moralimizi bozabilir. Douglas Adams’\u0131n “Dost gibi g\u00f6r\u00fcnen yalakalar, farkl\u0131 olmaya \u00e7al\u0131\u015fan basit insanlar, arkam\u0131zdan kurulan oyunlar. Kural hep ayn\u0131; g\u00fcl ve ge\u00e7!” s\u00f6z\u00fc, bizi olumsuz insanlar\u0131n davran\u0131\u015flar\u0131na gere\u011finden fazla anlam y\u00fcklememeye davet eder.<\/strong> \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc her tart\u0131\u015fmaya girmek, her haks\u0131zl\u0131\u011fa ayn\u0131 sertlikle kar\u015f\u0131l\u0131k vermek ya da her olumsuz yorumu ciddiye almak, \u00e7o\u011fu zaman yaln\u0131zca enerjimizi t\u00fcketir. Bazen en g\u00fc\u00e7l\u00fc duru\u015f, de\u011fmeyecek m\u00fccadelelere girmemeyi bilmektir.<\/p>\n

Bu d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnceyi g\u00fcnl\u00fck ya\u015famda uygulaman\u0131n pratik bir yolu, rahats\u0131z edici bir s\u00f6z ya da davran\u0131\u015fla kar\u015f\u0131la\u015ft\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131zda kendinize \u015fu soruyu sormakt\u0131r: “Bu olay bir ay sonra ger\u00e7ekten \u00f6nemini koruyacak m\u0131?”<\/strong> E\u011fer cevab\u0131n\u0131z “Hay\u0131r.” ise, tepki vermek yerine yolunuza devam etmeyi tercih edin. B\u00f6ylece duygular\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 anl\u0131k \u00f6fkeye teslim etmek yerine, zaman\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 ve zihinsel enerjinizi ger\u00e7ekten de\u011fer verdi\u011finiz hedeflere y\u00f6nlendirebilirsiniz. Ki\u015fisel geli\u015fim bazen hakl\u0131 \u00e7\u0131kmak de\u011fil, hangi m\u00fccadeleye girmeye de\u011fece\u011fini bilmektir.<\/p>\n

D\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcn; i\u015f yerinde biri hakk\u0131n\u0131zda k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck bir dedikodu \u00e7\u0131kar\u0131yor, siz ise g\u00fcnlerce buna cevap vermeye \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131yorsunuz. Bir ba\u015fka ki\u015fi ise ayn\u0131 durum kar\u015f\u0131s\u0131nda sakinli\u011fini koruyor, i\u015fini en iyi \u015fekilde yapmaya devam ediyor ve zamanla davran\u0131\u015flar\u0131 zaten ger\u00e7e\u011fi ortaya koyuyor. Hangisinin daha huzurlu ve \u00fcretken bir ya\u015fam s\u00fcrece\u011fi a\u00e7\u0131kt\u0131r. Hayat\u0131n her s\u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fc \u00fczerimize almak zorunda de\u011filiz. Bazen en ak\u0131ll\u0131ca cevap, g\u00fcl\u00fcmseyip yolumuza devam etmektir. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc ger\u00e7ek g\u00fcc\u00fcm\u00fcz, ba\u015fkalar\u0131n\u0131n davran\u0131\u015flar\u0131n\u0131 de\u011fil, kendi tepkilerimizi y\u00f6netebildi\u011fimizde ortaya \u00e7\u0131kar.<\/strong><\/em> Douglas Adams’\u0131n bu s\u00f6z\u00fc, gereksiz \u00e7at\u0131\u015fmalara de\u011fil, kendi ya\u015fam\u0131m\u0131za odaklanman\u0131n \u00f6nemini hat\u0131rlat\u0131r.<\/p>\n

\n
\n<\/div>\n

Douglas Adams Kimdir?<\/h3>\n

Douglas Adams (1952-2001) \u0130ngiliz yazar, mizah\u00e7\u0131 ve senaristtir. Bilim kurgu ile mizah\u0131 \u00f6zg\u00fcn bir bi\u00e7imde bir araya getiren eserleriyle d\u00fcnya \u00e7ap\u0131nda tan\u0131nm\u0131\u015ft\u0131r. En \u00fcnl\u00fc eseri Otostop\u00e7unun Galaksi Rehberi (The Hitchhiker’s Guide to the Galaxy), zekice kurgusu, s\u0131ra d\u0131\u015f\u0131 karakterleri ve d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnd\u00fcren mizah anlay\u0131\u015f\u0131yla modern edebiyat\u0131n k\u00fclt yap\u0131tlar\u0131ndan biri h\u00e2line gelmi\u015ftir. Adams, insan do\u011fas\u0131n\u0131, toplumsal al\u0131\u015fkanl\u0131klar\u0131 ve ya\u015fam\u0131n abs\u00fcrtl\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn\u00fc esprili bir dille ele alan anlat\u0131m\u0131 sayesinde yaln\u0131zca bir romanc\u0131 de\u011fil, ayn\u0131 zamanda g\u00fc\u00e7l\u00fc bir d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnce insan\u0131 olarak da hat\u0131rlanmaktad\u0131r.<\/p>\n

\n

\u0130nsanlara Dair \u00d6zl\u00fc S\u00f6zler ve \u00d6zdeyi\u015fler<\/a><\/p><\/blockquote>\n