{"id":22126,"date":"2016-08-14T20:17:11","date_gmt":"2016-08-14T17:17:11","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.ozdeyis.net\/?p=19642"},"modified":"2026-01-17T13:05:42","modified_gmt":"2026-01-17T13:05:42","slug":"dunyaya-gelip-de-hicbir-seyi-karistirmayan-insan-ne-saygiya-ne-de-sabirla-karsilanmaya-deger-rene-char","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/e-motivasyon.net\/en\/dunyaya-gelip-de-hicbir-seyi-karistirmayan-insan-ne-saygiya-ne-de-sabirla-karsilanmaya-deger-rene-char.html","title":{"rendered":"“D\u00fcnyaya gelip de hi\u00e7bir \u015feyi kar\u0131\u015ft\u0131rmayan insan ne sayg\u0131ya ne de sab\u0131rla kar\u015f\u0131lanmaya de\u011fer.” Ren\u00e9 Char"},"content":{"rendered":"

“D\u00fcnyaya gelip de hi\u00e7bir \u015feyi kar\u0131\u015ft\u0131rmayan insan ne sayg\u0131ya ne de sab\u0131rla kar\u015f\u0131lanmaya de\u011fer.” Ren\u00e9 Char<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n

\"\u0130nsanlara<\/a><\/p>\n

Ren\u00e9 Char\u2019\u0131n bu sars\u0131c\u0131 s\u00f6z\u00fc, ya\u015fam\u0131n edilgen bir seyir olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131<\/strong> hat\u0131rlat\u0131r. D\u00fcnyaya gelip hi\u00e7bir \u015feyi yerinden oynatmamak, hi\u00e7bir soruya dokunmamak, hi\u00e7bir d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnceyi rahats\u0131z etmemek\u2026 Char\u2019a g\u00f6re bu, sayg\u0131 duyulacak bir varolu\u015f de\u011fildir. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc geli\u015fim, ilerleme ve anlam; d\u00fczenin biraz bozulmas\u0131yla ba\u015flar. Hayata iz b\u0131rakmayan, fark yaratmayan bir duru\u015f<\/strong>, ilk bak\u0131\u015fta uyumlu g\u00f6r\u00fcnse de uzun vadede ne kendini ne de d\u00fcnyay\u0131 besler. Biz ancak soru sordu\u011fumuzda, itiraz etti\u011fimizde ve cesaretle ses \u00e7\u0131kard\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131zda canl\u0131 bir varolu\u015fa yakla\u015f\u0131r\u0131z.<\/p>\n

Bu s\u00f6zden ilhamla g\u00fcnl\u00fck hayatta uygulanabilecek tek bir pratik \u00f6neri \u015fudur: Sessiz kald\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z bir alanda bilin\u00e7li olarak s\u00f6z al\u0131n.<\/strong><\/em> Bu bir toplant\u0131, bir aile sohbeti ya da kendi i\u00e7 d\u00fcnyan\u0131z olabilir. Herkesin sustu\u011fu, ge\u00e7i\u015ftirdi\u011fi bir konuda d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcncenizi ifade edin. Amac\u0131n\u0131z tart\u0131\u015fma \u00e7\u0131karmak de\u011fil; d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnceye hareket kazand\u0131rmak<\/strong> olsun. Biz her \u015feyi idare etmeye \u00e7al\u0131\u015ft\u0131k\u00e7a, i\u00e7imizdeki potansiyel k\u00f6relir. Oysa k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck bir itiraz bile, b\u00fcy\u00fck bir fark\u0131ndal\u0131\u011f\u0131n kap\u0131s\u0131n\u0131 aralayabilir.<\/p>\n

\u00d6rne\u011fin y\u0131llard\u0131r sizi rahats\u0131z eden ama \u201cb\u00f6yle gelmi\u015f b\u00f6yle gider\u201d diyerek kabullendi\u011finiz bir durum d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcn. Orada k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck bir ad\u0131m atmak, d\u00fczeni biraz kar\u0131\u015ft\u0131rmak ilk ba\u015fta huzursuzluk yaratabilir. Ama zamanla \u015funu g\u00f6r\u00fcr\u00fcz: Hayat\u0131 ileri ta\u015f\u0131yanlar, onu biraz kar\u0131\u015ft\u0131rmay\u0131 g\u00f6ze alanlard\u0131r.<\/strong><\/em> Ren\u00e9 Char\u2019\u0131n i\u015faret etti\u011fi gibi, sayg\u0131 uyumdan de\u011fil, cesur bir varolu\u015ftan do\u011far.<\/strong><\/em> Biz d\u00fcnyaya yaln\u0131zca uyum sa\u011flamak i\u00e7in de\u011fil; anlam katmak, iz b\u0131rakmak ve gerekti\u011finde d\u00fczeni sarsmak i\u00e7in geliyoruz.<\/p>\n

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\u0130nsanlara Dair \u00d6zl\u00fc S\u00f6zler ve \u00d6zdeyi\u015fler<\/a><\/p><\/blockquote>\n