{"id":22055,"date":"2016-08-03T00:08:34","date_gmt":"2016-08-02T21:08:34","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.ozdeyis.net\/?p=19385"},"modified":"2026-07-18T13:29:03","modified_gmt":"2026-07-18T13:29:03","slug":"herhangi-bir-seyi-unutmak-istedigin-zaman-ne-kadar-kuvvetli-bir-bellege-sahip-oldugunu-anlarsin-franklin-p-jones","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/e-motivasyon.net\/en\/herhangi-bir-seyi-unutmak-istedigin-zaman-ne-kadar-kuvvetli-bir-bellege-sahip-oldugunu-anlarsin-franklin-p-jones.html","title":{"rendered":"\u201cWhen you want to forget anything, you realize how strong a memory you have.\u201d Franklin P. Jones"},"content":{"rendered":"

\u201cWhen you want to forget anything, you realize how strong a memory you have.\u201d Franklin P. Jones<\/strong><\/em><\/h3>\n

Franklin P. Jones bu s\u00f6z\u00fcyle, insan zihninin ilgin\u00e7 bir ger\u00e7e\u011fine dikkat \u00e7eker. Bizi en \u00e7ok etkileyen an\u0131lar, \u00e7o\u011fu zaman unutmaya \u00e7al\u0131\u015ft\u0131klar\u0131m\u0131zd\u0131r. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc bir olay\u0131 zorla zihnimizden silmeye \u00e7al\u0131\u015ft\u0131k\u00e7a, ona daha fazla odaklan\u0131r ve onu fark\u0131nda olmadan daha da g\u00fc\u00e7lendiririz. \u00d6zellikle pi\u015fmanl\u0131klar, k\u0131rg\u0131nl\u0131klar ve ac\u0131 hat\u0131ralar, bast\u0131r\u0131lmak istendiklerinde daha s\u0131k hat\u0131rlanabilir. Bazen unutman\u0131n yolu unutmaya \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmak de\u011fil, ya\u015fanan\u0131 kabul edip hayat\u0131n do\u011fal ak\u0131\u015f\u0131na b\u0131rakabilmektir.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Bu d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnceyi g\u00fcnl\u00fck hayat\u0131n\u0131za ta\u015f\u0131mak i\u00e7in sizi rahats\u0131z eden bir an\u0131y\u0131 zihninizden kovmaya \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmak yerine, onu bir k\u00e2\u011f\u0131da yazmay\u0131 deneyin. Yazd\u0131ktan sonra kendinize \u015fu soruyu sorun: “Bu olay bana ne \u00f6\u011fretti?”<\/strong> Dikkatinizi ya\u015fanan ac\u0131dan \u00e7\u0131kar\u0131p \u00f6\u011frendi\u011finiz derse y\u00f6neltti\u011finizde, an\u0131n\u0131n \u00fczerinizdeki duygusal y\u00fck\u00fc zamanla hafiflemeye ba\u015flayacakt\u0131r. An\u0131lar de\u011fi\u015fmez; ancak onlara y\u00fckledi\u011fimiz anlam de\u011fi\u015febilir.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Hepimizin unutmak istedi\u011fi baz\u0131 s\u00f6zler, baz\u0131 insanlar ya da baz\u0131 ba\u015far\u0131s\u0131zl\u0131klar olmu\u015ftur. Fakat zamanla fark ederiz ki bizi olgunla\u015ft\u0131ran \u015fey, onlar\u0131 silmek de\u011fil; onlarla bar\u0131\u015fmay\u0131 \u00f6\u011frenmektir. Ge\u00e7mi\u015fi s\u0131rt\u0131m\u0131zda ta\u015f\u0131mak yerine ondan g\u00fc\u00e7 ald\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131zda, hat\u0131ralar bizi esir alan zincirler olmaktan \u00e7\u0131kar. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc ger\u00e7ek \u00f6zg\u00fcrl\u00fck, haf\u0131zam\u0131z\u0131 yok etmekte de\u011fil; haf\u0131zam\u0131zdaki ac\u0131lar\u0131 bilgeli\u011fe d\u00f6n\u00fc\u015ft\u00fcrebilmektedir.<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n

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Franklin P. Jones Kimdir?<\/strong><\/h3>\n

Franklin P. Jones (1908-1980) Amerikal\u0131 gazeteci, halkla ili\u015fkiler uzman\u0131 ve mizah yazar\u0131d\u0131r. \u00d6zl\u00fc s\u00f6zleri, zekice g\u00f6zlemleri ve insan davran\u0131\u015flar\u0131na dair esprili tespitleriyle tan\u0131nm\u0131\u015ft\u0131r. \u00d6zellikle haf\u0131za, ya\u015fam, ba\u015far\u0131 ve insan ili\u015fkileri \u00fczerine s\u00f6yledi\u011fi d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnd\u00fcr\u00fcc\u00fc s\u00f6zler, y\u0131llard\u0131r ki\u015fisel geli\u015fim ve motivasyon alan\u0131nda s\u0131k\u00e7a al\u0131nt\u0131lanmaktad\u0131r.<\/p>\n

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\u0130nsanlara Dair \u00d6zl\u00fc S\u00f6zler ve \u00d6zdeyi\u015fler<\/a><\/p><\/blockquote>\n