{"id":21974,"date":"2016-07-26T21:39:21","date_gmt":"2016-07-26T18:39:21","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.ozdeyis.net\/?p=19211"},"modified":"2026-07-07T14:46:40","modified_gmt":"2026-07-07T14:46:40","slug":"aslinda-hic-kaybetmedim-sadece-sistemin-istedikleri-kazandi-meteliksiz-olabilirim-ama-niteliksiz-degilim-charles-bukowski","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/e-motivasyon.net\/en\/aslinda-hic-kaybetmedim-sadece-sistemin-istedikleri-kazandi-meteliksiz-olabilirim-ama-niteliksiz-degilim-charles-bukowski.html","title":{"rendered":"\u201cI actually never lost; only what the system wanted won. I may be penniless; but I am not unqualified.\u201d Charles Bukowski"},"content":{"rendered":"

\u201cI actually never lost; only what the system wanted won. I may be penniless; but I am not unqualified.\u201d Charles Bukowski<\/em><\/h3>\n

\""Se\u00e7ilmi\u015f<\/a><\/p>\n

Charles Bukowski<\/span><\/span> taraf\u0131ndan ifade edilen \u201cAsl\u0131nda hi\u00e7 kaybetmedim; sadece sistemin istedikleri kazand\u0131. Meteliksiz olabilirim; ama niteliksiz de\u011filim.\u201d s\u00f6z\u00fc, ba\u015far\u0131 kavram\u0131na al\u0131\u015f\u0131lm\u0131\u015f\u0131n d\u0131\u015f\u0131nda bir perspektif getirir. Toplum \u00e7o\u011fu zaman ba\u015far\u0131y\u0131 para, stat\u00fc ve g\u00f6r\u00fcn\u00fcr sonu\u00e7larla \u00f6l\u00e7er. Ancak Bukowski\u2019nin vurgulad\u0131\u011f\u0131 \u015fey \u00e7ok daha derindir: Ger\u00e7ek kay\u0131p, d\u0131\u015f d\u00fcnyada de\u011fil; insan\u0131n kendi \u00f6z\u00fcnden uzakla\u015fmas\u0131nda ya\u015fan\u0131r.<\/strong> E\u011fer siz de\u011ferlerinizden \u00f6d\u00fcn vermeden, kendi do\u011fan\u0131za sad\u0131k kalarak ilerliyorsan\u0131z; sistem sizi \u201cba\u015far\u0131s\u0131z\u201d etiketlese bile asl\u0131nda kaybetmi\u015f say\u0131lmazs\u0131n\u0131z. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc nitelik, nicelikten her zaman daha kal\u0131c\u0131d\u0131r.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Bu s\u00f6zden ilhamla g\u00fcnl\u00fck hayatta uygulayabilece\u011finiz g\u00fc\u00e7l\u00fc bir pratik \u00f6neri olarak kendinize \u015fu soruyu sorun: \u201cBenim i\u00e7in ba\u015far\u0131 ne demek?\u201d<\/em> Bu soruya verece\u011finiz cevap, ba\u015fkalar\u0131n\u0131n de\u011fil sizin kriterlerinizi yans\u0131tmal\u0131. Ard\u0131ndan g\u00fcn i\u00e7inde yapt\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z se\u00e7imleri bu tan\u0131ma g\u00f6re g\u00f6zden ge\u00e7irin. \u00d6rne\u011fin, s\u0131rf daha \u00e7ok kazanmak i\u00e7in sizi yoran bir i\u015fi mi se\u00e7iyorsunuz, yoksa sizi geli\u015ftiren bir yolu mu tercih ediyorsunuz? Bu k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck fark\u0131ndal\u0131k, sizi ba\u015fkalar\u0131n\u0131n oyunundan \u00e7\u0131kar\u0131p kendi oyununuzu kurmaya g\u00f6t\u00fcr\u00fcr. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc biz biliriz ki ba\u015far\u0131 tan\u0131m\u0131n\u0131 kim yaparsa, oyunu o kazan\u0131r.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Hayattan bir \u00f6rnekle d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnelim: \u00c7ok para kazanan ama i\u00e7ten i\u00e7e mutsuz olan biri ile daha sade ya\u015fayan ama yapt\u0131\u011f\u0131 i\u015ften anlam bulan birini\u2026 D\u0131\u015far\u0131dan bak\u0131ld\u0131\u011f\u0131nda ilk ki\u015fi \u201ckazanan\u201d gibi g\u00f6r\u00fcnebilir. Ancak ikinci ki\u015fi, kendi de\u011ferleriyle uyum i\u00e7inde oldu\u011fu i\u00e7in daha derin bir tatmin ya\u015far. \u0130\u015fte Bukowski\u2019nin s\u00f6z\u00fc tam da burada anlam kazan\u0131r. Ger\u00e7ek ba\u015far\u0131, sistemin size sundu\u011fu \u00f6d\u00fclleri almak de\u011fil; kendi de\u011ferlerinize sad\u0131k kalarak ya\u015famakt\u0131r.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

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Charles Bukowski Kimdir?<\/strong><\/h3>\n

Charles Bukowski, 1920\u20131994 y\u0131llar\u0131 aras\u0131nda ya\u015fam\u0131\u015f Amerikal\u0131 \u015fair, romanc\u0131 ve \u00f6yk\u00fcc\u00fcd\u00fcr. Hayat\u0131n kenar\u0131nda kalan insanlar\u0131n d\u00fcnyas\u0131n\u0131, alkol\u00fc, yaln\u0131zl\u0131\u011f\u0131, \u00f6fkeyi ve \u00e7\u0131plak ger\u00e7ekli\u011fi sans\u00fcrs\u00fcz bir dille anlatmas\u0131yla tan\u0131n\u0131r.\u00a0Postane<\/em>,\u00a0Factotum<\/em>\u00a0.\u00a0Kad\u0131nlar<\/em>\u00a0gibi eserleriyle geni\u015f bir okur kitlesine ula\u015fm\u0131\u015ft\u0131r. Bukowski s\u00f6zleri, edebi zarafetten \u00e7ok d\u00fcr\u00fcstl\u00fc\u011f\u00fc ve ham ger\u00e7e\u011fi merkeze al\u0131r. Onu \u00f6zg\u00fcn k\u0131lan, insan\u0131n karanl\u0131k yanlar\u0131n\u0131 y\u00fcceltmeden ama saklamadan yazabilmesidir. Bukowski\u2019ye g\u00f6re ya\u015fam, cilalanacak bir vitrin de\u011fil; oldu\u011fu gibi ya\u015fanacak bir deneyimdir.<\/p>\n

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