{"id":21952,"date":"2016-07-24T22:13:51","date_gmt":"2016-07-24T19:13:51","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.ozdeyis.net\/?p=19164"},"modified":"2026-03-15T13:45:00","modified_gmt":"2026-03-15T13:45:00","slug":"birinin-hayatina-birinin-mutluluguna-birinin-ruhuna-birinin-eline-yuzune-omuzuna-yuregine-bazen-soz-bazen-goz-cogu-zaman-kalbinizle-minicik-de-olsa-tum-samimiyetinizle-dokunun-farid-farj","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/e-motivasyon.net\/en\/birinin-hayatina-birinin-mutluluguna-birinin-ruhuna-birinin-eline-yuzune-omuzuna-yuregine-bazen-soz-bazen-goz-cogu-zaman-kalbinizle-minicik-de-olsa-tum-samimiyetinizle-dokunun-farid-farj.html","title":{"rendered":"\u201cTo someone's life, someone's happiness, someone's soul, someone's hand, face, shoulder, heart; sometimes with words, sometimes with eyes, often with your heart, even if it is tiny, touch it with all your sincerity.\u201d Farid Farjad"},"content":{"rendered":"

\u201cTo someone's life, someone's happiness, someone's soul, someone's hand, face, shoulder, heart; sometimes with words, sometimes with eyes, often with your heart, even if it is tiny, touch it with all your sincerity.\u201d Farid Farjad<\/em><\/strong><\/h3>\n

\"A\u015fk<\/a><\/p>\n

\u201cBirinin hayat\u0131na, birinin mutlulu\u011funa, birinin ruhuna, birinin eline, y\u00fcz\u00fcne, omuzuna, y\u00fcre\u011fine; bazen s\u00f6z, bazen g\u00f6z, \u00e7o\u011fu zaman kalbinizle minicik de olsa t\u00fcm samimiyetinizle dokunun.\u201d s\u00f6z\u00fc, insan ili\u015fkilerinin \u00f6z\u00fcnde b\u00fcy\u00fck jestlerin de\u011fil, k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck ama i\u00e7ten temaslar\u0131n<\/strong> yatt\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 anlat\u0131r. Bu anlaml\u0131 ifade, \u0130ranl\u0131 keman virt\u00fc\u00f6z\u00fc ve d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcr Farid Farjad<\/span><\/span> taraf\u0131ndan dile getirilmi\u015ftir ve insan ruhunun en temel ihtiyac\u0131na i\u015faret eder: g\u00f6r\u00fclmek ve hissedilmek. Modern hayat\u0131n h\u0131z\u0131nda \u00e7o\u011fu zaman insanlara zaman ay\u0131ramad\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z\u0131 d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcr\u00fcz; oysa bir bak\u0131\u015f, i\u00e7ten bir g\u00fcl\u00fcmseme ya da samimi bir c\u00fcmle bile bir insan\u0131n g\u00fcn\u00fcn\u00fc, hatta hayata bak\u0131\u015f\u0131n\u0131 de\u011fi\u015ftirebilir. \u0130nsanlar \u00e7o\u011fu zaman b\u00fcy\u00fck \u00e7\u00f6z\u00fcmler de\u011fil, ger\u00e7ek bir temas arar.<\/strong> \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc samimiyet, kelimelerin \u00f6tesinde bir ileti\u015fim dilidir ve kalpten gelen k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck bir dokunu\u015f bile uzun s\u00fcre yank\u0131 bulur.<\/p>\n

Bu s\u00f6zden ilhamla g\u00fcnl\u00fck hayatta uygulayabilece\u011fimiz pratik \u00f6neri \u015fudur: \u201cG\u00fcnde Bir Ger\u00e7ek Temas\u201d al\u0131\u015fkanl\u0131\u011f\u0131 geli\u015ftirin.<\/strong> Her g\u00fcn bilin\u00e7li olarak bir ki\u015fiye i\u00e7ten bir ilgi g\u00f6sterin. Bu bir te\u015fekk\u00fcr mesaj\u0131, samimi bir iltifat, h\u00e2l hat\u0131r sormak ya da sadece ger\u00e7ekten dinlemek olabilir. \u00d6nemli olan nicelik de\u011fil, niyettir. \u0130nsanlar \u00e7o\u011fu zaman konu\u015fulmak de\u011fil, anla\u015f\u0131lmak ister. Samimi bir ileti\u015fim kurdu\u011funuzda yaln\u0131zca kar\u015f\u0131n\u0131zdaki ki\u015finin de\u011fil, kendi ruhunuzun da hafifledi\u011fini fark edersiniz.<\/strong> Bu k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck al\u0131\u015fkanl\u0131k zamanla ili\u015fkilerde g\u00fcveni art\u0131r\u0131r, empatiyi g\u00fc\u00e7lendirir ve sosyal ba\u011flar\u0131 derinle\u015ftirir.<\/p>\n

G\u00fcnl\u00fck ya\u015famdan basit bir \u00f6rnek d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnelim: Yo\u011fun bir g\u00fcn\u00fcn ortas\u0131nda bir arkada\u015f\u0131n\u0131za \u201cBug\u00fcn nas\u0131ls\u0131n, ger\u00e7ekten?\u201d diye sormak\u2026 Ya da evde sevdiklerinizden birinin omzuna dokunup g\u00f6z temas\u0131 kurarak onu dinlemek. \u00c7o\u011fu zaman insanlar nasihatleri de\u011fil, varl\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z\u0131 hat\u0131rlar. \u0130\u015fte Farid Farjad\u2019\u0131n s\u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fcn \u00f6z\u00fc burada sakl\u0131d\u0131r: Hayatlar\u0131 de\u011fi\u015ftiren \u015fey b\u00fcy\u00fck s\u00f6zler de\u011fil, kalpten kalbe kurulan k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck ama ger\u00e7ek ba\u011flard\u0131r; \u00e7\u00fcnk\u00fc samimiyetle yap\u0131lan k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fcc\u00fck bir dokunu\u015f bile bir insan\u0131n d\u00fcnyas\u0131nda b\u00fcy\u00fck bir \u0131\u015f\u0131k yakabilir.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

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Farid Farjad Kimdir?<\/strong><\/h3>\n

Farid Farjad (1938-2024) \u0130ranl\u0131 keman virt\u00fc\u00f6z\u00fc, besteci ve m\u00fczisyendir. Duygusal yo\u011funlu\u011fu y\u00fcksek keman yorumlar\u0131yla d\u00fcnya \u00e7ap\u0131nda tan\u0131nm\u0131\u015f, \u00f6zellikle enstr\u00fcmantal m\u00fczik alan\u0131nda geni\u015f bir dinleyici kitlesine ula\u015fm\u0131\u015ft\u0131r. M\u00fczi\u011finde Do\u011fu ezgilerini klasik Bat\u0131 m\u00fczi\u011fi teknikleriyle birle\u015ftiren Farjad, insan duygular\u0131n\u0131 m\u00fczik arac\u0131l\u0131\u011f\u0131yla ifade etme konusundaki ba\u015far\u0131s\u0131yla bilinir. Sanat hayat\u0131 boyunca konserleri ve besteleriyle insan ruhuna dokunmay\u0131 ama\u00e7lam\u0131\u015f, m\u00fczi\u011fi evrensel bir duygu dili olarak yorumlam\u0131\u015ft\u0131r.<\/p>\n

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A\u015fk ve Sevgi \u00dczerine En \u0130yi \u00d6zl\u00fc S\u00f6zler<\/a><\/p><\/blockquote>\n